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[sesame]

Hank:

considering to throw myself into a self-financed PhD-study at Honkong University, ... on transsexuality here in good old Indonesia

Hank, my man, go right ahead. Your research will be an original piece of work, a study with materials based on your first hand experience. It will not be the usual dry, drowsy sheaf of papers, with little relation to reality. Charge...

The courage that YOU show is NOTHING compared to the guts of a transsexual woman!

That statement is absolutely true. Men, who have achieved great things, who are really macho, even they feel nerous about what other people will think. The Transwomen wage a lifelong war on such concepts. Thats why I admire them so much. (I dont play pocket pool, though! )

[hankhavelock]

Originality I'm certain I'd be able to provide :-) Even something of value for a few wannabees out there who just need a bit of encouragement. Whether I could write something much longer than a forum posting that's bearable English reading is another matter - mind you, English is not my first language, and even though I do write fairly well in Danish, I don't have the elegant vernacular of writers such as you, Marlowe or Bionca.

[Bionca]

Hank, I have been kicking around the same idea - writing a book that is. I'm cutting my teeth with a friend by doing a little blog. If you need any help I'll be happy to.

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm cutting my teeth with a friend by doing a little blog.

Hey Bionca, is your blog up? Will you let us know about it?

M

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by marlowe

Hey Bionca, is your blog up? Will you let us know about it?

M

yup it's laughriotgirl.blogspot.com So far it my friend and I complaining about random stuff

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

yup it's laughriotgirl.blogspot.com So far it my friend and I complaining about random stuff

Thx, will def look into the grumbles and rumbles.

[DarkSW]

I am New here same I mever see shemale before but my ex girlfriend for short time, she is half woman and man and she is no penis and has pussy so I am from OkC in Oklahoma. I am nice meeting you all.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Hank, I have been kicking around the same idea - writing a book that is. I'm cutting my teeth with a friend by doing a little blog. If you need any help I'll be happy to.

Oh, should I decide to go ahead with it, that would surely be appreciated!

[Bionca]

That statement is absolutely true. Men, who have achieved great things, who are really macho, even they feel nerous about what other people will think. The Transwomen wage a lifelong war on such concepts. Thats why I admire them so much. (I dont play pocket pool, though! )[/QUOTE]

I don't buy that for a minute!! - hands above the table gents!!!

To be serious, I think this is part of the problem with seriously dating a trans* woman. Partly because guys are scared of what people think, and partly because by the time a TG is "full time" she's been through a little personal slice of hell. I know that I get angry, cranky, upset ... down right pissed when I hear about a friend whose date "isn't comfortable in public with her". I figure she's had to become comfortable in public with herself 24/7, and some guy can't muster the sack to spend a few hours??. It's that fear and the expectations on both sides of the date that make it difficult (at least in the West).

[sesame]

I don't have the elegant vernacular of writers such as you, Marlowe or Bionca

Hank! Come on, my friend, get off it.
I love to read your posts. They have substance.

[Well, most of Hankhavelock's posts have original material.
Some are too original, like the one about volcanic spunk
Still Hank is a good writer, he has clarity and balls to speak up]

[ila]

Originally Posted by Bionca

To be serious, I think this is part of the problem with seriously dating a trans* woman. Partly because guys are scared of what people think, and partly because by the time a TG is "full time" she's been through a little personal slice of hell. I know that I get angry, cranky, upset ... down right pissed when I hear about a friend whose date "isn't comfortable in public with her". I figure she's had to become comfortable in public with herself 24/7, and some guy can't muster the sack to spend a few hours??. It's that fear and the expectations on both sides of the date that make it difficult (at least in the West).

Not everyone is scared of what others think. I don't care at all what someone else would think or say if I was out with a TG.
My biggest concern would be for the girl when others would say "What the heck is she doing out with him"

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

To be serious, I think this is part of the problem with seriously dating a trans* woman. Partly because guys are scared of what people think, and partly because by the time a TG is "full time" she's been through a little personal slice of hell.

Yep, part of the problem. But I sense that an equally big part of the problem is that they may be scared of themselves and their attraction - OMG!!!! Am I gay??? The question you encounter constantly.