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[Bionca]

Originally Posted by marlowe

Hey Bionca, is your blog up? Will you let us know about it?

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yup it's laughriotgirl.blogspot.com So far it my friend and I complaining about random stuff

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

yup it's laughriotgirl.blogspot.com So far it my friend and I complaining about random stuff

Thx, will def look into the grumbles and rumbles.

[DarkSW]

I am New here same I mever see shemale before but my ex girlfriend for short time, she is half woman and man and she is no penis and has pussy so I am from OkC in Oklahoma. I am nice meeting you all.

[asefase1]

i came into this thread looking for advice about how to prepare myself for my first intimate rendezvous with a shemale. i've never had anything inserted before. i guess i could look for a nearby sex shop and get a dildo, though i'm sure most people already know it's not the same. what i've found is something much better. despite the fact that as a civilization we have evolved massively since even as liitle as 50 years ago, there are several things that are considered unmentionable, even taboo. i think the main reason internet porn is so huge is because people don't have to worry what others think of them because they'll never know. it's kind of sad that the nation we live in cultivates the notion that if you aren't a certain way, then you should feel ashamed and embarassed. so here's your outlet and don't let anyone else know about it. not that i'm comparing love of shemales to it, but in a way, the stigma still applies. people are still constantly beaten and killed because of their closet or open homosexuality. the same applies for certain customs and beliefs. it makes me think that we as a species are programmed to find conflict, because look at the trivial things we fight and kill over even though we've come all this way. people lie all the time when they say they accept something, and then it's a big controversy when the are discovered saying in private the contrary. ordinary people and world leaders, when you disect the humanity in each, aren't all that different. it's evident especially in government, look at how much the constitution in it's original form has changed as compared to the way things are now. our country is great, in some ways better than the situation of other nations, but it is far from the way our forefathers envisioned it over 230 years ago. but now i'm ranting, anyway i wish that literature expressing our sexual preference could be taken seriously, but it seems this world is not yet ready to be so accepting as to understand that even the word 'normal' can be descriminating. who's to say what is normal? only our creator(s) (and so as not to start any kind of religious discussion, i won't go into specifics as to why i wrote it the way i did) have that knowlege. or in aethiasts' case, no one. and be that as it may, i think us being alive renders everything we do okay (using common sense to determine bad things). so only we can decide when to begin the process of unjudgemental unity. who knows, if you find the right way to do it, because obviously you can't force your beliefs on someone else (just look at the war for reference on how that turns out, even the very word itself is rooted in that fact), a truly peaceful world may be a possible reality.

[Arthur]

I keep reading these posts and find myself in a small space between agreement and a lack of the other persons perspective.

I like TG ladies from a sexual point of view and found them attractive enough to get some experience with an escort. It was fantastic, very different. When I say different I dont just mean from the point of view of a cock instead of a pussy. The experience had a side to it that was different from an emotional and cerebal point of view, not just physically.

I'm drawn to this difference in the same way I get interested in any subject which is new. Its never been my intention to have a full relationship with a TG Lady because for the longest time I really did not think they existed. My understanding was of a guy in drag, guys are not my thing and it seems neither are gay guys.

So, does that make me a coward for not admitting my passion to others ? I dont think so, my brother is gay and I defend that right regardless of who is listening. Infact I feel it's important to do so. I think everyone has the right to be who they want and I will defend that right to whoever is listening.

Would I marry a TG lady ? Thats a really difficult question for me. It's the person I fall in love with and not the gender. Guys bore me compared with females and gay guys fall into a category that actually makes me uneasy despite my acceptance.

From the posts on this forum TG ladies seem incredibly feminine, but absolutely not gay, that means it might be possible to have that level of relationship (if I wasn't already in a great relationship with my wife, I mean cheating is cheating). It's such a rare thing that finding true love amongst a tiny percentage of the population makes the chances of success far less.

I cant say that I would go out to date only TG Ladies though and I am certain that if my experience was only with TS ladies then I would soon be considering the possibilities of straight females.

[etnies]

i have the same fear and don't know what to do...

[dolphinlion]

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All you fears were learned or programmed into you by your parents, family, school, church etc etc etc.

When you were a baby you had no fear of anything as everything was a brand new experience. The problem with humans is they keep thinking that someone else knows what is best for them. What a crock of shit. You know you better than anyone else. Forget what everybody else says, follow your heart and do what you want to do. The current belief systems on this planet are in need of great change, for centuries people have cried and hined for change, now it is here and some of so called society don't like it. When was the last time you seen a baby come with an operators manual? Just follow what cums natural. Go for it, if you don't like it, don't do it. If you like it, good for you. Just look at the name of this forum and remember that as a baby you were curious about everything. You are still that baby, but now trapped in an adult body. yourself, go for it.