fear

[etnies]

i have the same fear and don't know what to do...

[dolphinlion]

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All you fears were learned or programmed into you by your parents, family, school, church etc etc etc.

When you were a baby you had no fear of anything as everything was a brand new experience. The problem with humans is they keep thinking that someone else knows what is best for them. What a crock of shit. You know you better than anyone else. Forget what everybody else says, follow your heart and do what you want to do. The current belief systems on this planet are in need of great change, for centuries people have cried and hined for change, now it is here and some of so called society don't like it. When was the last time you seen a baby come with an operators manual? Just follow what cums natural. Go for it, if you don't like it, don't do it. If you like it, good for you. Just look at the name of this forum and remember that as a baby you were curious about everything. You are still that baby, but now trapped in an adult body. yourself, go for it.

[jimnaseum]

I hear you uaeman, I just came from the "Animal" forum, where they talked about the joy of loving Mr. Ed, earlier I was on the Whips and Chains dating site, I may go visit NAMBLA later.
I would have to say the only reason I would want to suck a dick is because of Cathy, everyone agreed she was the nicest prostitute ever. Her blowjobs...I was jealous of how good she was and how much she must have enjoyed it, how much she aimed to please. She always talked about her three kids in California, she was trying to save up enough cash to buy a van and go out there. She ODed on Coke, her friends hit the wrong vein.
When it comes to sexual adventures, mama's boys are way down on the list.
Prostitutes, gay blades, gigalos, serial killers, pedophiles, even some jerk-offs have amazing colorful sex lives.
But don't judge a guy who loves his parents, marries his ligh school sweetheart and raises a beautiful family. Who's to say?
Sometimes fear is OK.

[Talvenada]

My biggest fear was that I would like it, and tried to avoid situations that presented opportunities. It was of being gay. Of course, I never considered bi-sexuality--practicing or not--which is what most of the guys on this board are or were.

Why are there no cries into the darkness of: OMG, I'm bi??

Once you accept being Bi as who you are, it's no biggie. Unless it's between her soft thighs.