i love tgirls but i love my gf. what do i do?!?!

[EdwardSinclair]

I don't know how many times I've written it by now...

I AGREE with you Dan, again and again...

Communication is everything!

I mean we are communicating too and building a relationship, so I understand absolutely!

Thank you Dan, and let's wish Dean some luck!!

[merelypink]

i would keep it your little secret!!

[belfagar]

In the last week I had the fortune of bringing my love for tgirls up with my spouse. I didnt think that it would have turned out well. It did though.

She was relieved to find i was kinky as hell. I had kept my secret for many years, I can honestly say at the time of revelation I was scared, and very unprepared.

Good luck with this.

[guiltydreamer]

My advice - dont tell her whatever you do.
Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.
Dont get caught.

I did all of the above - and now my marriage is trashed. However, on the up side, I dont have to lie anymore - which feels good.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by guiltydreamer

Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.

Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.

[deanthemachine69]

Thanks for all the responses and advice guys! I appreciate it. I'm going to keep it to myself for now. If this is something I need to hide my whole life to stay with this girl then I think I can do it. I'll stick to my hardcore she male porn for now

[guiltydreamer]

Originally Posted by deanthemachine69

Thanks for all the responses and advice guys! I appreciate it. I'm going to keep it to myself for now. If this is something I need to hide my whole life to stay with this girl then I think I can do it. I'll stick to my hardcore she male porn for now

That's how I started. Discovered transsexual images on the internet & was hooked. Thought I could control my curiosity & desire by masturbating to these collected precious pictures but eventually overcame my conscience and fear and visited an escort. That was 15 years ago and now I am utterly obsessed with transsexual m2f girls, preferably Asian. I pay escorts/prostitutes for sex whenever I can no longer satiate my desire by jerking off alone.
It's really quite pathetic in my case as my self worth is shattered and I cannot control this overwhelming intoxicating physical desire that is getting stronger with each clandestine liaison.
And they say heroin is addictive...... Fucking hell, I am surely doomed.

[guiltydreamer]

Originally Posted by tslust

Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.

Don't hold back - post what's on your mind. I am not proud of my actions & behavior ( far from it) but am honest about it. I love my wife and care for her deeply but sexually my desires are not compatible with hers. I see TS girls for sex and only sex. I pay the requested fee happily. I am not looking for a LTR of any kind with any other person.
From my own experience, my wife is more hurt by her perception that I have been having sex with men ( her term, certainly not mine) and cannot begin to understand that I am physically attracted to a female with a penis. It is for this reason that I advocate secrecy and lying. It's totally fucked up I know, but it's done and I cannot undo it now.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by guiltydreamer

Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.

Don't hold back - post what's on your mind.

Okay, you asked for it. Firstly, I don't know how many times I've said that I can't stand guys who cheat on their wives. It's a matter of trust and sex is all about trust. If a guy is going to break his sacred vows and trust with his wife, how can I ever trust him to be honest with me. If he's so willing to throw his commitments to his wife away, then what would stop him from doing the same with me. Which is why I don't play with married guys.

"see the transsexuals for sex" I get a little tired of guys seeing me as a sex toy. Don't get me wrong, a little NSA fun can be nice, butt I'm at the point where I want something more. I want a guy who can see me as a person, an actual living breathing human being. While I like mind-blowing sex, I also enjoy having an actual conversation and having a fun time with a guy. Many guys (by no means all) are only interested in sex, they don't want any kind of relationship. Whereas they usually at least take a GG out for a dinner and show, and at least pretend to talk, with her while trying to steer the conversation towards the beedroom. They think I'll just automatically melt into their arms with that terrific thong-cracking line, "Hey, I've got a big cock." So, all I ask is a little consideration. Remember, just as with GGs, a little charm can take you a long way.

Further more, you shouldn't "see transsexuals for sex". That is a very terrible thing to say. Now I know there are a number of "working girls", butt still they deserve some respect too. I know that I'm probably just some sort of porn fetich to you (that's what I take away from you're statement). I you meet with a transsexual, it shoul be because you are attracted to her. If that leads to sex, then that's nice, butt sex should not be the only reason you want to see a girl like me.