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Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.
Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.
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Old 07-25-2012
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Thanks for all the responses and advice guys! I appreciate it. I'm going to keep it to myself for now. If this is something I need to hide my whole life to stay with this girl then I think I can do it. I'll stick to my hardcore she male porn for now
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Thanks for all the responses and advice guys! I appreciate it. I'm going to keep it to myself for now. If this is something I need to hide my whole life to stay with this girl then I think I can do it. I'll stick to my hardcore she male porn for now
That's how I started. Discovered transsexual images on the internet & was hooked. Thought I could control my curiosity & desire by masturbating to these collected precious pictures but eventually overcame my conscience and fear and visited an escort. That was 15 years ago and now I am utterly obsessed with transsexual m2f girls, preferably Asian. I pay escorts/prostitutes for sex whenever I can no longer satiate my desire by jerking off alone.
It's really quite pathetic in my case as my self worth is shattered and I cannot control this overwhelming intoxicating physical desire that is getting stronger with each clandestine liaison.
And they say heroin is addictive...... Fucking hell, I am surely doomed.
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Guiltydreamer, you’re on a sad path by your own admission. You also admit to feeling guilt and your very nick name affirms it. You even go as far as calling it pathetic. Why would you encourage Dean, the OP, to follow the same route?
Dean, keep in mind how much of a fantasy this all is. It’s not worth destroying your relationship if it works. Be open with your partner. You don’t have to throw everything in her face: just start talking to her gradually about your feelings, be patient and take a year if you need. Exchange with her on desire, on sexuality, on the complexity of desire. Talk to her about transsexuals in a general fashion. Open doors for her first. I’m telling you: in all probability, you will be surprised…
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Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.
Don't hold back - post what's on your mind. I am not proud of my actions & behavior ( far from it) but am honest about it. I love my wife and care for her deeply but sexually my desires are not compatible with hers. I see TS girls for sex and only sex. I pay the requested fee happily. I am not looking for a LTR of any kind with any other person.
From my own experience, my wife is more hurt by her perception that I have been having sex with men ( her term, certainly not mine) and cannot begin to understand that I am physically attracted to a female with a penis. It is for this reason that I advocate secrecy and lying. It's totally fucked up I know, but it's done and I cannot undo it now.
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Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.

Don't hold back - post what's on your mind.
Okay, you asked for it. Firstly, I don't know how many times I've said that I can't stand guys who cheat on their wives. It's a matter of trust and sex is all about trust. If a guy is going to break his sacred vows and trust with his wife, how can I ever trust him to be honest with me. If he's so willing to throw his commitments to his wife away, then what would stop him from doing the same with me. Which is why I don't play with married guys.

"see the transsexuals for sex" I get a little tired of guys seeing me as a sex toy. Don't get me wrong, a little NSA fun can be nice, butt I'm at the point where I want something more. I want a guy who can see me as a person, an actual living breathing human being. While I like mind-blowing sex, I also enjoy having an actual conversation and having a fun time with a guy. Many guys (by no means all) are only interested in sex, they don't want any kind of relationship. Whereas they usually at least take a GG out for a dinner and show, and at least pretend to talk, with her while trying to steer the conversation towards the beedroom. They think I'll just automatically melt into their arms with that terrific thong-cracking line, "Hey, I've got a big cock." So, all I ask is a little consideration. Remember, just as with GGs, a little charm can take you a long way.

Further more, you shouldn't "see transsexuals for sex". That is a very terrible thing to say. Now I know there are a number of "working girls", butt still they deserve some respect too. I know that I'm probably just some sort of porn fetich to you (that's what I take away from you're statement). I you meet with a transsexual, it shoul be because you are attracted to her. If that leads to sex, then that's nice, butt sex should not be the only reason you want to see a girl like me.
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Old 07-29-2012
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Okay, you asked for it. Firstly, I don't know how many times I've said that I can't stand guys who cheat on their wives. It's a matter of trust and sex is all about trust. If a guy is going to break his sacred vows and trust with his wife, how can I ever trust him to be honest with me. If he's so willing to throw his commitments to his wife away, then what would stop him from doing the same with me. Which is why I don't play with married guys.

"see the transsexuals for sex" I get a little tired of guys seeing me as a sex toy. Don't get me wrong, a little NSA fun can be nice, butt I'm at the point where I want something more. I want a guy who can see me as a person, an actual living breathing human being. While I like mind-blowing sex, I also enjoy having an actual conversation and having a fun time with a guy. Many guys (by no means all) are only interested in sex, they don't want any kind of relationship. Whereas they usually at least take a GG out for a dinner and show, and at least pretend to talk, with her while trying to steer the conversation towards the beedroom. They think I'll just automatically melt into their arms with that terrific thong-cracking line, "Hey, I've got a big cock." So, all I ask is a little consideration. Remember, just as with GGs, a little charm can take you a long way.

Further more, you shouldn't "see transsexuals for sex". That is a very terrible thing to say. Now I know there are a number of "working girls", butt still they deserve some respect too. I know that I'm probably just some sort of porn fetich to you (that's what I take away from you're statement). I you meet with a transsexual, it shoul be because you are attracted to her. If that leads to sex, then that's nice, butt sex should not be the only reason you want to see a girl like me.
Thank you for your post. I trust that you feel better now having got that off your chest.
Whilst I respect your right of reply and opinion ( which I did invite after all), your post is rather self obsessed.
Whilst my initial response to this thread does seem rather blunt and cold hearted, I am confused how you manage to interpret this as my having no respect for TS girls whom I choose to pay for sex. How do you know what level of respect I hold for someone - you base this assertion on a very brief statement.
You clearly do not approve of my behavior and choices. Fair enough, but please do not judge the full depth of my personality based on my sexual preferences alone.
I am not Proud of cheating on my wife, but hey, this real life not a work of romantic fiction and relationships fail - for a variety of reasons and it is very easy and rather lazy to single me out for lacking moral fibre. Check the statistics and see how many marriages fail. We have had 22 happy & good years together and both now realize that we want different things in our lives.
I wish you well with your life and search for a loving respectful life Partner, basically we all are looking for the same thing.
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Old 07-30-2012
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"Further more, you shouldn't "see transsexuals for sex". That is a very terrible thing to say...."

Why not FFS?? and what is so terrible about it??

The girls I see get paid the rate they stipulate. I go willingly, accepting their advertised offer of sexual services in exchange for money.

I am courteous, punctual, clean and respectful. Many times the sex is sensational, some times less so, but life is a lottery they say.

I am not looking for a TS life partner, but am highly attracted to a girl with a penis. I do not seek a loving relationship with a TS partner as I know for me this will not work (as far as I can speculate).

Just because my preferences and wants and needs do not correspond with yours does not mean that I am disrespectful to working girls, or any other girls whether TS or GG, so climb down off your high horse before you get a nose bleed.

And have a nice day.
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Old 07-30-2012
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I am not looking for a TS life partner, but am highly attracted to a girl with a penis. I do not seek a loving relationship with a TS partner as I know for me this will not work (as far as I can speculate)
May I ask why you think a relationship with a trans girl won't work?

I mean the only difference between us and cis women, is they are able to give birth, but we are not. So if that's your reason, than yeah I can sort of understand that, though there's always the option of adoption.
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Find the girl ( TGirl ) that is the biggest turn on to you, and one day call her into the room and show her. Just say look what I found. Make sure at some point she realizes that you are turned on. ( an erection at this point would be good ) Dont make a big deal out of it the first time. Then later show her another and make sure she sees you are turned on. Then one day tell her about a Dream you had and describe the dream. See how she reacts.

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...though there's always the option of adoption.
Having studied genetics for a while, I could tell you that through recombinant DNA, adoption will not be your only option in the near future! The Science is advancing so fast, that it's possible for you to get a donated non-fertilized egg, remove it's DNA material (nucleus), and place your desired DNA material, in this case the tgirls. You'd then proceed to fertilizing the egg with the male gamete, and you'd need to find a surrogate mother of course! This has all already been possible for many years, but the ethical implications are numerous unfortunately.

It's also relevant to note, that cis women are at a clear advantage here, because even if men ceased to exist, women could live on by cloning themselves in this manner. Men would always need a surrogate mother of some kind!

I in fact I remember seeing such a society in one of the Cpt. Kirk's Star Trek episodes from back in the late 60's, not the best of references but it does prove that the theory is not new! Sci-fi's are great btw, first time I saw anything similar to ipads/mobile phones was on a Sci-fi (but I digress).
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