Does liking shemales make you gay?

[الدكتور العراقي]

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

[Ogryn1313]

I used to but have come to accept how I feel. The guilt feelings were stemming from society imposing its values on me. But we are are own people and we shouldn't feel guilty for a thing such as who we are attracted to.

[mrtrebus]

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say.

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

This is an interesting thread, and the original question ALWAYS comes up in tgirl forums. It's all to do with how you see yourself, not whether you're "gay" or not. (Also, the definition of "gay" becomes so personal in discussions like this that it comes to a point where it doesn't even matter). Some people will say, there's a cock attached to that person, so it's male regardless of any other physical, emotional, or mental characteristics of said person. Others will say, well yes, there's a cock, but if you didn't see it you'd never know it was there because the rest is so feminine. Others, like myself, will say, my god she's so feminine but has a hard cock...that's just beautiful!

For myself, I answer this question like this: I am not at all attracted to other men, and I have never been with a tgirl, but I do consider myself to have bisexual leanings because if I were lucky enough to get to be with a tgirl I would definitely want to suck her cock and have her fuck me in the ass. (And I have never even so much fingered my own ass so I realize I'd have to "warm up" first!) But when I watch tgirl porn I love how it looks when the girls are on "top." And the fact that they are so beautiful, I'd really get off myself knowing I was getting them off. (If that makes sense). I guess, as a tgirl admirer from afar, I tend to put tgirls on a pedestal, but that's part of the fantasy for me. I'd treat her like nothing but the lady she is, while hoping she'd get turned on enough to give me a good "seeing to." All this to reiterate my original point, such labels should only matter to you, and you are the one who needs to come to terms with your own psyche...sexual and otherwise. If we all lived our lives worrying about what others thought of us we'd be miserable indeed. Cheers. (And hopefully this is halfway readable!)

well put, im a confused guy that has just got into shemales.

[funky57]

Originally Posted by mrtrebus

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say

same here I am also new but hey you have to otherwise what is life all about

[Sparky]

Welllll for me!!

I wish I had as much guilt and shame as I used to because that feeling of having to wait for my parents to sleep and somehow secretly watch and wack off to this great new world of pornography I had discovered with no lock on my bedroom door and a huge family!!!!!......really, really turned me on!

Now before the grand realm of the shemale, I had lesbians which I felt no guilt at all for the whole world to know how drained I would get watching them...oh this began when i was 9 and first found out about my new best friend at the time, the internet!!

Maybe I felt a little shameful after awhile cuz all I could think of was lesbians....then I for some reason prayed to stop thinking of them.....and thats when my prayers were answered...but tragically for my soul, it was a twisted and grotesque revelation ().....:dr ool:

Since then, 2 girl friends...and no ts experience...and Im currently engaged...soooo sadly, all I got now is a few good websites when she aint looking.....buttttt, :D that wonderful feeling of shame may finally return when we move in together


Sometimes I feel guilty when I go to sleep with a boner...and not do anything about it......just shameful....but sometimessss....I still get wet dreamz so its coool

[Molag Bal]

I don't feel guilty personally but still I don't go around telling people I like t-girls. There's nothing to be gained by it, and a lot of hell to receive for it.

[Demonic shemale licker]

Originally Posted by guest

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

I feel the same way, my mom would not take it 2 well if she found out i was a shemale lover or if she found out that i'm an atheist, my friends in school would probably look at me differently.

Originally Posted by spike_40

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.

Thanks i never looked at it that way.

Originally Posted by musclelover

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

Long mint does have one of the most glorious peanuses i have ever seen on a man or a t girl, it looks yummy.

[ila]

I don't feel guilty at all for liking transwomen. If anyone can't accept me or any transwoman that I might be with then that would be that person's problem and not mine and definitely not the lady's problem. I will also not tolerate any disparaging remarks about transwomen. Anyone that shows any intolerance for transwomen (or transmen) or makes disparaging remarks about transpeople in front of me will get an earful of abuse from me. In conclusion I would like to say that I do not feel guilty for liking transwomen and I would be pleased and proud to have a transwoman beside me.