Does liking shemales make you gay?

[Bionca]

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

[ila]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

Well said Bionca.

[cham]

Bionca,

What you've said sums up what many of us feel.

Cham

[Show Me Love]

ok, ok... she know all the answers but she is not a man who become t-lover so don't hides behind her, sysyadmins. yall post dozen of nasty dickaddicted screaming cumming messages and have nothing to say upfront?
there should be some difference between pleasuring your cute tgirl next to you and switch from straight to tranny porn and get into shedong dreams destinationally (virtually?). afterall, u know, dong is a dong. there is must be something serious to change your taste diametrically? isn't?

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

This is also an excellent point, Bionca. It's not at all purely sexual. It's a matter of finding respect for people who are a little bit different in their views - to truly understand them - and then to let yourself go in your appreciation.

As mentioned in my message just above I really do feel an amazing warmth when being with even just my transsexual friends - it's not sexual and it may be based on aforesaid respect and appreciation of "another kind of beauty or personality or what ever".

To me it's a feeling that I've never before felt for cisgendered women (and I admit to having been a bit of a ladies man in my time). Transsexual women bring forward in me other and deeper emotions. That's a fact... could it have to do with the often bigger fragility and vulnerability in transsexual women? The fact that they often need protection from the big, cruel and not-understanfing world? Does that make transsexual women even more feminine than cisgendered women who today are emancipated and strong and running for president? I don't now - but transsexual femininity is in a class of its own...

And it's highly satisfactory :-)

Peace!

Hank

[Show Me Love]

well i'm not trying to insult anybody here
i'm pretty sure i'm still way more sexually mutated than most of you so i have virtually full tolerance for almost everything
yea, sometimes i could be offending, blame on me. mood breaks you know. i'm fighting myself. don't mind. i luv you all.
H, you definetly got talent expressing your thoughts. i think i'm going to print your posts and stack it on bright place. i can sign up your every post, lot of sense.
Justme, i can relate to what you say too
peace

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

well i'm not trying to insult anybody here
i'm pretty sure i'm still way more sexually mutated than most of you so i have virtually full tolerance for almost everything
yea, sometimes i could be offending, blame on me. mood breaks you know. i'm fighting myself. don't mind. i luv you all.
H, you definetly got talent expressing your thoughts. i think i'm going to print your posts and stack it on bright place. i can sign up your every post, lot of sense.
Justme, i can relate to what you say too
peace

We're here to share our personal thoughts and experiences - at least that's why I'm here. Don't worry about being offending - express your feelings as you have them. If people get offended that's their problem.

I've been an insider for three years and I find transsexuality extremely beautiful. It's the essence of "being who you are" and I find that totally fascinating. I'm completely open about who I am and about my love for transsexual women - however, I wonder how courageous I'd be if I were actually a transsexual myself. I understand the pain and all the hazzle, that's why the term "admirer" has a bit of meaning. Admiring people who have the guts to be whom they truly are in spite of all the evilness in a basicly heterosexual socalled democratic society.

So be proud of who you are!

Peace!

Hank

[mrtrebus]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

Wonderfully put. I am new to this forum & that sums up my feelings better than I could haved wrote.

[sulka]

For me a shemale/transsexual girl represent the ideal woman.They use be more feminine and sexy than manny real women these days.

Interesting to see how old these posts are! I remember reading Bionca’s response to “ShowMeLove” long before I was a member here and I thought what she said was right on. I know that it helped me to better understand my own feelings and what I was going through in my life at the time.

We are about to enter a new decade--hopefully this will at last be the start of the “21st century.” The last two centuries have been largely about physical, mechanical, and electronic discoveries. Human beings are amazingly complex and we are only just beginning to understand some of the events that occur as we develop. I have always believed that our next real breakthroughs will occur as we look inward. The Human Genome project was just the start.

I have only been aware of my attraction to trans women for about two or three years now. Although “open minded” I too have gone through the same questioning of my sexuality that others have gone through. I read the posts in the “If U Like Shemales R U Gay?” thread and find myself hoping that these individuals will come to understand their feelings just as I have mine and realize that the beautiful “shemales” they are attracted to are indeed women--as are their trans co-workers or friends. Is it really so hard to accept that a person could be born female and yet have external male genitals or vice versa? Science is only now learning what goes on during those nine months and I believe that someday we will come to a more enlightened view of human sexuality and not be so quick to place labels on who or what we are.

As the year ends I find myself doing quite well; I have a terrific career, a beautiful new ladyfriend, and of course my many new friends on this forum with whom I have been able to share something very special.

Happy New Year to all!

[obinn]

Here is my long, highly personal and slightly boring answer. I guess I'm just expressing myself for the sake of it as I think we all realise that the OP is suffering from minor embarrassment and mild self-disgust because he enjoys something that he was brought up to disapprove of. Looks like natural attraction is a stronger force that cultural prejudices!

Drugs, sex, relationships - we all grow up with ideas about these things without having experienced them ourselves. We have learnt, from family, peers, or the media, particular prejudices against certain things and against certain members of society, who are stigmatized. I think virtually everyone would agree with that as it seems self-evident.

Like many people, I have tried to flush those prejudices from my mind. I try to question everything I hear and reach a conclusion on my own. If I lack the experience to form a conclusion, I rely on a trustworthy source until I can attain that experience.

Strip away your prejudices and everyone is equal.

If everyone is equal, the question isn't why do some people like TS girls; the question is why doesn't everyone like TS girls?

Actually, the real question is why do many people actively dislike and ridicule TS girls? What have the girls done to deserve it except to simply be themselves?

I grew up being attracted to girls. Some TS girls look exactly like genetic girls, so I am attracted to them. That seems perfectly natural - only the prejudices of society make it seem otherwise. In my case, that's why a straight man can become a TS girl lover. It broadened my horizons; I woke up to myself. Now a TS girl doesn't have to look exactly like a genetic girl (with one obvious difference) to be attractive to me.

Why should I be turned off because TS girls have a penis? Penis' aren't disgusting - I have one!

For reasons I don't understand, I don't seem to be attracted to men, sexually. I like the idea of it, so I guess that in the right circumstances I could go all the way with a man. I hope so - I want to experience everything life has to offer.

I don't want to limit my experiences because of the prejudices of my society. Doing that would reinforce those prejudices, and I'd be disappointed with myself if I did that.

TS girls are individuals, so I'm not attracted to all just as I'm not attracted to all women. And it's not because they have or don't have a penis that I am attracted to someone.

[pretty_ladyboy]

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its the case of "discrimination" I guess...

but for me as long as I live well I dont mind them