Does liking shemales make you gay?

[mrtrebus]

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say.

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

This is an interesting thread, and the original question ALWAYS comes up in tgirl forums. It's all to do with how you see yourself, not whether you're "gay" or not. (Also, the definition of "gay" becomes so personal in discussions like this that it comes to a point where it doesn't even matter). Some people will say, there's a cock attached to that person, so it's male regardless of any other physical, emotional, or mental characteristics of said person. Others will say, well yes, there's a cock, but if you didn't see it you'd never know it was there because the rest is so feminine. Others, like myself, will say, my god she's so feminine but has a hard cock...that's just beautiful!

For myself, I answer this question like this: I am not at all attracted to other men, and I have never been with a tgirl, but I do consider myself to have bisexual leanings because if I were lucky enough to get to be with a tgirl I would definitely want to suck her cock and have her fuck me in the ass. (And I have never even so much fingered my own ass so I realize I'd have to "warm up" first!) But when I watch tgirl porn I love how it looks when the girls are on "top." And the fact that they are so beautiful, I'd really get off myself knowing I was getting them off. (If that makes sense). I guess, as a tgirl admirer from afar, I tend to put tgirls on a pedestal, but that's part of the fantasy for me. I'd treat her like nothing but the lady she is, while hoping she'd get turned on enough to give me a good "seeing to." All this to reiterate my original point, such labels should only matter to you, and you are the one who needs to come to terms with your own psyche...sexual and otherwise. If we all lived our lives worrying about what others thought of us we'd be miserable indeed. Cheers. (And hopefully this is halfway readable!)

well put, im a confused guy that has just got into shemales.

[funky57]

Originally Posted by mrtrebus

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say

same here I am also new but hey you have to otherwise what is life all about

[Sparky]

Welllll for me!!

I wish I had as much guilt and shame as I used to because that feeling of having to wait for my parents to sleep and somehow secretly watch and wack off to this great new world of pornography I had discovered with no lock on my bedroom door and a huge family!!!!!......really, really turned me on!

Now before the grand realm of the shemale, I had lesbians which I felt no guilt at all for the whole world to know how drained I would get watching them...oh this began when i was 9 and first found out about my new best friend at the time, the internet!!

Maybe I felt a little shameful after awhile cuz all I could think of was lesbians....then I for some reason prayed to stop thinking of them.....and thats when my prayers were answered...but tragically for my soul, it was a twisted and grotesque revelation ().....:dr ool:

Since then, 2 girl friends...and no ts experience...and Im currently engaged...soooo sadly, all I got now is a few good websites when she aint looking.....buttttt, :D that wonderful feeling of shame may finally return when we move in together


Sometimes I feel guilty when I go to sleep with a boner...and not do anything about it......just shameful....but sometimessss....I still get wet dreamz so its coool

[Molag Bal]

I don't feel guilty personally but still I don't go around telling people I like t-girls. There's nothing to be gained by it, and a lot of hell to receive for it.

[Talvenada]

If you lived for everyone else, you'd have no life.

The fantasy to reality can lead to another guilt issue, like am I gay?

It can lead to another road, depending on who and what.

[chelsea]

I dont feel guilt

I have no reason too

[Jenae LaTorque]

No, you should not feel guilty at all. Robert Heinlein said that the only sin was hurting others unnecessarily and all other "sins" were invented nonsense. Also that hurting yourself was not a sin, just stupid.

So it is no sin for you to be attracted to Tgirls. However, it may be a sin to allow others, including your family, to know of this. And like some of the members urged above, it is a passion best kept to yourself. Like the old saying says: "what they don't know, can't hurt them."

Can it hurt you? That is only a question you will be able to answer. If you keep this passion where it belongs and do not allow it to rule your life you will be okay. You might meet a Tgirl you fall in love with or you might not. You may only love from afar. While sex is certainly a driving force in most humans, especially the young with their raging hormones; it is not the most important thing. As you grow older, you will find that it becomes less and less important. Life is too short to be feeling guilty about anything as trivial as sex.