Does liking shemales make you gay?

[trannycrazy]

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

[maximilian]

No. I like what I like.

[jiiyze]

Yea. Sometimes. Im 24, really starting to come to terms with it, have to really. Was kind of a problem before. I make myself paranoid about it sometimes. Like "what if they knew" sort of thing when I interact with people. Really does my head in sometimes, like I get all nervous and stuff. Doesn't add to my confidence put it that way..

[trekkie]

I never feel guilty liking a hot girl with a nice cock.

[الدكتور العراقي]

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

[Ogryn1313]

I used to but have come to accept how I feel. The guilt feelings were stemming from society imposing its values on me. But we are are own people and we shouldn't feel guilty for a thing such as who we are attracted to.

[Demonic shemale licker]

Originally Posted by guest

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

I feel the same way, my mom would not take it 2 well if she found out i was a shemale lover or if she found out that i'm an atheist, my friends in school would probably look at me differently.

Originally Posted by spike_40

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.

Thanks i never looked at it that way.

Originally Posted by musclelover

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

Long mint does have one of the most glorious peanuses i have ever seen on a man or a t girl, it looks yummy.

[eireannach]

No. I have never had the opportunity to be with one yet though. I live in a place where there are only a couple and they have lines of suitors lined up so ya. Someday though.

[just102]

nope

I just want to fulfill my fantasy and actually be with one!

[zman]

I dont feel guilty. But, the big problem for me right nowis this. I'm into Genetic girls and transexuals. I've never been with a transexual before, and I really want to. However, the girl I'm dating is amazing, but not so amazing as to just let me have sex with someone elde. We've been together for 4 years now, and I'm feel pretty confident I want to marry her. But, the thing that keeps holding me back is that if I do, I'll prolly never get to fulfill my fantasy...

[sephpeaches46]

Originally Posted by SweetCharmer

same here i don't see why we would have to feel guilty at all its a passion and they're normal right?

When i had my first session with A ts i felt guiklty later. After a while that stopped. Now i'm fully into beautiful shemales and love them.
I'm in my 50's and have had a lot of sex over the years . I must say shemales are the best,sexy,sluttty horny.
I've even started swallowing cum for my bets partners..they lOVE it!

[ila]

No, I never feel guilty for liking tgirls. Nor will I ever feel guilty for liking tgirls.

[british_boy]

I have an Asian TS girlfriend and we adore each other - she's the best girlfriend and lover I've ever had.

I don't feel guilty or ashamed in the slightest, and since I don't want kids, there's no barrier to us being together for the long term. However, I do worry about other people's reactions if, as planned, we get "married" (civil partnership in the UK) and she comes here to live. I haven't got much family to speak of, but I'm pretty sure some friends will be weird about it.

In fact, does anyone have any advice in this area?

[hector.hector]

Some times I do feel little ashamed from it, but i can't help it, I love it

[CuriousGirl]

I've come to an "understanding" with myself about my interest in T-girls, much the same as I did about my first heterosexual encounter; The guy was attractive, a gentleman, and was fun to be with in or out of bed. "OK", I said to myself, "This went better than I had been told to expect." Of course, multiple orgasms during one's first time MIGHT have contributed to the "OK!" There was some guilt after we parted that night but my Irish Catholic grannie had planted that seed from my childhood. Take THAT, Grannie!
The venture into sex with another female was more difficult to reconcile (Grannie again!) but as with my first guy the experience with the girl was romantic, sensual, and orgasmic to boot. I remember thinking to myself "Well, this may take a little more time to get used to." but that first time had been nice in every way so it was easier than I thought to admit to myself that I am bisexual. Now I have a lusty relationship with a wonderful guy as well as one with the girl referenced in this post. I guess at that point I was "Bisexually Monogamous",
Then....Ruh Roh! I was introduced to T-girls via the internet, guided into it by the same girl with whom I first sampled Sapphic love. She, by the way, is still my best friend and lover.
I'd known that T-girls existed and had even been introduced to one in a bar but that was a world that was poles apart from mine. Then, after seeing some truly intriguing images and vids on the 'net I had to admit that I was more than just amused or mildly curious. I was absolutely fascinated! Seeing my first castrated T-girl really made me moist and giddy.
I remember thinking "Grannie will kill me if she ever finds out." Of course, If she'd found out about my first guy OR my lesbian fun, I'd have been dead long before now.
Now that I've become involved with a true T-girl, an Asian who has been castrated as well, I feel I've reached my limit, both morally and in my "comfort zone". In a way, I feel complete.
Guilt? Yes, at every boundary crossed. Resolution? So far, in that I realize that I am what I am.
NOTE: My parents know of my heterosexual love life and my father knows, I suspect, that my GF and I do more than shop, hunt and fish, and have pillow fights but he treats her like a daughter. She adores him as well and would seduce him if she thought she could.
If, however, either parent learned of my Asian "Ladyboy" and the things we do, not to mention my little kink for castration, they'd probably kidnap me and sequester me in a convent located in the Alps.
"Sister Curious"...has a nice ring to it.

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!

I did feel guilt until i dated one for a year. She was a woman in every way bar the obvious, and because she was just like any of my previous girlfriends the guilt went away.
I think you need to see shemales as real women who were born in the wrong body, which is mostly the case, and dont dwell on the fact they were born men. You will be fine then.
I sense you have never dated a shemale before, you need to

[DavidQ]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

<snip>

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!

CuriousGirl, I like your style :D

Your phrase "with every boundary crossed" is a good one. That's how I felt it - not guilt but some sense of breaking a taboo in my "regular" world. It fades quickly, though. It is a boundary thing - I'm comfortable now liking what I like. Which isn't to say I'm comfortable broadcasting things which would likely cause me difficulty in my "regular" world...

[Tsluver23]

I am exactly like u except I'm 25 now. My suggestion is go wit the flow. I'm headed to a tranny party on fri

[The_Void]

No. I learnt not to feel guilty for being who I am a long time ago.

[ButtPlug]

i understand i too feel guilty once in a while
i wont lie trannys are some of the coolest down to earth laid back people i ever met so i forget about the guilt its not like u have to fuck them u can just be frineds until u feel comfortable enough

[novicetgirllover]

I'm not in the slightest bit ashamed- in fact I can't fathom the guys who 'settle' with genetic girls when deep down they really love tgirls. I was speaking to one older guy in the Wayout club who was lamenting that he'd wasted his life trying to be 'heterosexual'. Its easier for me I suppose as i'm openly bi and everyone knows including my folks- they're ok with it too. Well they can like it or lump it! Actualy i've dropped the bi tag as I exclusively date tgirls, i'm not wasting my life with a woman who I wont be satisfied with.

All I need to do know is find the right woman.

[modman1996]

I do feel guilty sometimes. I can't stand the thought of having sex with a man but because it is a lady boy it makes it alright. twisted logic I suppose.

[Valkyrja]

Well, my opinion is, that there is no point in shame, blame or such stuff. I have simple rule. If you like something, do it. :-).

[Gor Gar]

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

[Renegade91]

I go through stages where I'll try to block them out.
Lasts for a couple weeks but I always go back, I don't know if I'll ever be able to be completely comfortable with my lust for transexuals.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Gor Gar

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

An excellent post.
I haven't thought much about why a person wants to become a tranny. I was not aware that abuse could be the cause for some cases. Some men just seem to be wired to be women. I have some erotic feelings about femaleness although I have no desire to be a female or wear female panties. I love transsexual fantasies and would like to have a tranny lover, however. I never thought about transsexuals until I discovered them on the internet. Now its almost an obsession.
I really relate to your comment about men making themselves look like women and all of a sudden they are sexually attractive, yes this is bullshit especially for the so called ladyboys in Thailand. They are "cute" boys pure and simple.
Yes the horny male mind does strange things.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Now the discsussion has shifted from self-centered concerns to those of social responsibility. There is no doubt in my mind that Gor Gar is right that some, if not many, cases of transgenderism are caused by abuse. I would like to broaden the definition of abuse to include mental abuse, and not just actual sexual abuse. I would suggest that there are many roads that lead to transgender status, and the map is far from being finished. From postings on this forum it is obvious that some members are inclined in a homosexual way in that they rave on about pics of guys butts and dicks, while at the other end of the spectrum we have guys who only like very feminine looking Tgirls. Then there are the members who are fully Tgirls, whose inputs are a very valuable asset to this forum and should be fully considered.

So...just like the Tgirls we all have pasts ( our path ) that has lead us to the present. You could just as well ask if the Tgirls are contributing or, as Gor Gar put it, "cashing in" on our behavior and fantasies. The nitty-gritty of the matter is that we all use one another. It is up to us to do so in an equitable manner. I see no reason for anyone to feel guilty about their participation in any facet of life if they are not harming others. Now that may be a very difficult thing to determine and in some cases impossible. Who can forsee every consequence of their actions? The best we can do is think (meditate, pray, etc) and inform ourselves about the matter and follow our conscience. Just remember that we all rationalize our behavior; it is your duty to get as much data as possible and never to set your conclusions in stone; more information may present itself to modify or reverse your conclusion.

For those of you who read these discussions and never comment; I, and others here, urge you to do so. Your input is valuable data and is appreciated by many regardless of your position.

[TigerDragon]

Originally Posted by Gor Gar

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

Gar Gor, you are like me and think too much. If you love the person, and 'she' was born with a bit more plumbing? So what! Does it really matter at the end of the day? I was raised a strict Catholic, right is right, wrong is wrong, no black & white...yet there is! I have found that t/g girls are what they beleive, in their minds, hearts and souls. What right have we to have our guilt trip upon them?! It is almost like judging them. Anyway, enough said. Your heart is probably in the right place, just don't think too much!

[udrees]

it is terrible
i wish i would never had experience with lb
but it is like drug, u become addicted to it

[hector.hector]

No never felt guilty...!!!

[sekretter]

I don't feel any guilt when looking at it myself, I enjoy normal porn as well, but shemales really do it for me, I don't care what people think I should or shouldn't like.

However, I don't really tell anyone about it because they'll think I'm gay or a freak, of which I am neither. Just because I like a cock on a girl doesn't mean I like a cock on a guy, by that logic if you love pussy on a girl you must therefore like a pussy on a man (think buck angel). I'm sure most straight men are definitely not into a muscular man with a vagina, that is somebody elses cup of tea. The point is that the logic behind stereotypes make no sense but you still may be ridiculed for it. Although it may be cause for ridicule, it is NOTHING to feel guilty about, there's nothing wrong about liking a chick with a dick... You just don't have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to xD

[avrilfuck]

No, never. Why? I like them, I´m happy with them. Why to be guilty?
Never must feel guilty with what gives you happines. If you feel guilty, there is something wrong with you.

[agedwards63]

Guilty? no I did for a long time think it was a "kink" or merely a passing phase, and that I was really a good old fashioned hetro boy... what I found out is if you go too far down the path there is NO turning back and it never leaves you.

[DocFeelGood]

When I was younger yes I felt guity about it but now that I older and more mature I found out there is nothing to fell guity about it, and finally I came into terms about it. Yes I like T-Girls a lot more than I like G-girls, and there is nothing wrong with it!

[tiggerme]

i dont think i feel guilty as much as confused. i haven't been with a t-women before, but when i see the pics or videos i really want to. they seem to really desire the ones there with, of course there are some who seem in pain because of the very large penis in their backside, but when there being hugged and kissed they look like they enjoy it( their large clits gets large and hard). women on the other hand, you can never tell. they can yell and scream but some times its just false. so why are they faking, what are they doing it for, they're not really enjoying themselves are they? so for me i find t-women more honest with what they want.

[RobbyPants]

Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

[valentinetabitha]

Originally Posted by RobbyPants

Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

I feel guilty, but only because I haven't told my wife. She knows I'm bisexual, but that's the extent of it. Given that she's very conservative, I've decided that this is one of those things she just doesn't need to know about.

Still, I've told friends, but only ones that live out of state.

I like T-girls. I like what I like. I can't help it. And I don't feel ashamed in the slightest. Not with myself anyway.

Sure, I might get embarrassed if my mum caught me sucking a girls dick but there you go. And I don't run around telling everyone in the world. But at the end of the day, how can you feel guilty for liking something that you like.

[Jayshawn!]

i did at first but i dont feel guilty about any of the porn i like, im not the only one who likes and i already like i cant change that so theres no point in feeling guilty about it, as long as your happy with yourself thats all that matters.

[tsluvit]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

Initially yes, but I got over it real quick when I discovered there were so many guys like me out there

[spike_40]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.

[british_boy]

I don't have any reaon to feel guilty because I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I'm wondering where other people's guilt comes from... letting down family? Offending your god? Fortunately, neither of those things apply to me. I would, however, feel guilty and ashamed if if I didn't to do what makes me happy.

[PI_Monger]

I don't feel any guilt now but the first few times I went with a TS in Thailand and the Philippines I felt like everyone on the street was watching me. Actually they probably were. ha ha.

Now I don't even notice. I'm proud to be with a TS.

[musclelover]

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

No. I feel no guilt. How could I? Guilt implies that you are doing something ?wrong? or something you are ?ashamed? of. I am not ashamed of being attracted to beautiful women or being seen with a beautiful woman.

Are you afraid of what your friends might say? Then perhaps you need to look inside yourself. Also you might want to find some new friends?

[nadiecomoyo]

No, never why i have tofeel guilty or bad for somethig that i like, or you feel guilty because you like the chocolat ice cream, or the comedy movies, while you don´t to take advantage, to hurt, or do something ilegall, i don´t have to fell guilty.

[shadows]

I don't feel guilty whatsoever. Why would I? There is nothing at all wrong with being attracted to a beautiful woman.

[Lycanthropunk]

Hi! I'm new to this forum, but i thought i'd start here in this thread. I don't feel any guilt about loving Tgirls- why should i? I can't help what i do and don't like so why should i worry about it? I consider myself bisexual. I adore how women look- no man can compare to a woman's beauty (not even Johnny Depp!), but I prefer a penis to a vagina and flat chests to big boobs, so Tgirls are perfect for me!

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on.

No guilt, only pride...

Originally Posted by Bionca

It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

Bingo! As spoken by myself :-)