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#1
06-01-2008
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Wow
"My only really carved in stone expectations are respect, understanding, and honesty. Ideally one would play around with the particulars of personality during the dating part."
"Personally, I'd rather be treated like a person you want to impress (on the first few dates). Not like someone you are obligated to take out for drinks just so you can get in her panties." The first thing I quoted there is, in my eyes, absolutely true for any relationship. Your three minimum requirements are very feasible, which when coupled with the fact that you don't have a preconceived notion of personality makes your search seem headed in the right direction. The second quote just makes me tingle. You are a person first, a woman second. Anyone who bypasses the first is not worth your time nor energy. And probably would be too self obsessed to do anything worthwhile were they to get into your panties. In reading the previous posts, it's obvious that many think that you are beautiful. I agree. But your inner beauty is what really shines after reading this thread. Though you may not know who, and he may not know yet at all, I'm sure that you will find someone to love and cherish you for who you are, and not what you are. (Physical) beauty is only skin deep and I am convinced from the intelligent, honest and overall realistic way that you have described yourself that yours goes far, far further than a few layers of skin. I wish you all the luck in the world, though with your impressive list of activities (what guy wouldn't want a beautiful girlfriend who loves to play video games?) and that beautiful smile, I'm sure my well-wishing will not be what gets you where you're going. 
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#2
06-02-2008
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Well, what are the odds...
I went to a gay club with my gayboy friends. I have no intention of meeting anyone, just having a good time with fun people and good music. Well... I met a fella  Total Straight friend of a friend thing. He was in the club with a couple of his pals who had dated a couple of my friends. We all hung out and he finally told me he had never seen such a natural looking Drag Queen. After I composed myself after nearly falling over laughing, I thanked him for the compliment and told him I was a Transsexual. He asked about my operation status (no op as yet and maybe never) along with some "get to know" conversation. He was funny charming and ... CUTE! We went to breakfast (all of us) and he offered to take me home. Now momma didn't raise no dummy, and I have been sex-less for the better part of a year. I also kinda liked him since he didn't focus on my crotch in conversation and was really silly (humor really turns me on). We went to his place... and talked more and watched the sun rise. He confessed that he was curious about "special girls", but wasn't gay. He was shy and awkward and there was a mixture of eagerness and apprehension. Here I had a 28 yearold ex-marine acting like a smitten schoolboy. After some reassurances on my part and some gentle coaxing kisses I allowed him to explore my body with his hand and lips. We found ourselves eventually quite compatible sexually. We spent the rest of Sunday together drinking coffee and generally "hanging out".
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#4
06-02-2008
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 that's HOTTTT. So what does "with his hands and lips" mean hahah. Great post
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#6
06-02-2008
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I think I might be getting the hang of the way this works inasmuch the way the thread works. I'm bright but I'm not real smart
 Very intersting line of dialogue... from physics to relationships. I guess you can't have one without the other. I have to say I'm relieved to have found this forum because now I can see that there is a clear yet un-defined group of people who appreciate and are attracted to, whether sexually or not, transgender people. By un-defined I only mean that I know people who are gay and I know people that are bi and when I tell them I'm attracted to a woman with a penis, it kind of confuses them and although they obviously don't judge me... it's still different to them where their lifestyle would be considered alternative. Hmmm... I think that made sense!  I'd like to hear thoughts on that because if I need to be corrected in my terminology or attitude, I'd like to know. I've always tried to live my life with an open mind but amazingly ignorance will rear it's ugly head and I'll say something stupid and offend someone. So my apologies... your welcome to blast me if you want.
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#7
06-02-2008
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Each time we moved from one part of the body to the next, he was calmer. Between each pregression I gave him a long soft kiss to punctuate that nothing hapening was the least bit homosexual. Except the part where half my lipstick rubbed off on his lips. I find that some teasing and coaxing with kisses tends to put guys at ease 
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#8
06-03-2008
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 Thats sounds really funny; Like watching a film with Woody Allen in it.The coaxing and relaxing part is understandable. Have more fun!
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#10
06-04-2008
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well congrats Bionca. Hope you have found something there.
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