New and Looking

Originally Posted by Bionca

Well, what are the odds...

I went to a gay club with my gayboy friends. I have no intention of meeting anyone, just having a good time with fun people and good music. Well... I met a fella

Total Straight friend of a friend thing. He was in the club with a couple of his pals who had dated a couple of my friends. We all hung out and he finally told me he had never seen such a natural looking Drag Queen. After I composed myself after nearly falling over laughing, I thanked him for the compliment and told him I was a Transsexual. He asked about my operation status (no op as yet and maybe never) along with some "get to know" conversation. He was funny charming and ... CUTE!

We went to breakfast (all of us) and he offered to take me home. Now momma didn't raise no dummy, and I have been sex-less for the better part of a year. I also kinda liked him since he didn't focus on my crotch in conversation and was really silly (humor really turns me on).

We went to his place... and talked more and watched the sun rise. He confessed that he was curious about "special girls", but wasn't gay. He was shy and awkward and there was a mixture of eagerness and apprehension. Here I had a 28 yearold ex-marine acting like a smitten schoolboy.

After some reassurances on my part and some gentle coaxing kisses I allowed him to explore my body with his hand and lips. We found ourselves eventually quite compatible sexually.

We spent the rest of Sunday together drinking coffee and generally "hanging out".

that's HOTTTT. So what does "with his hands and lips" mean
hahah. Great post

[milesfink]

Way to go....I am thrilled for you to find someone...must be great!

[LoverofShemales]

I think I might be getting the hang of the way this works inasmuch the way the thread works. I'm bright but I'm not real smart

Very intersting line of dialogue... from physics to relationships. I guess you can't have one without the other.

I have to say I'm relieved to have found this forum because now I can see that there is a clear yet un-defined group of people who appreciate and are attracted to, whether sexually or not, transgender people. By un-defined I only mean that I know people who are gay and I know people that are bi and when I tell them I'm attracted to a woman with a penis, it kind of confuses them and although they obviously don't judge me... it's still different to them where their lifestyle would be considered alternative. Hmmm... I think that made sense!

I'd like to hear thoughts on that because if I need to be corrected in my terminology or attitude, I'd like to know. I've always tried to live my life with an open mind but amazingly ignorance will rear it's ugly head and I'll say something stupid and offend someone. So my apologies... your welcome to blast me if you want.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by Ayo4Yayo

that's HOTTTT. So what does "with his hands and lips" mean
hahah. Great post

Well inshort.. he kept bringing up how he "wasn't gay". We'd kiss and he'd pause because he "wasn't gay". Finally, I took his hands and ran them across my face and under my chin and asked if he was feeling a man's face, then to my breasts, then my stomach, then my hips, then my inner thigh.

Each time we moved from one part of the body to the next, he was calmer. Between each pregression I gave him a long soft kiss to punctuate that nothing hapening was the least bit homosexual. Except the part where half my lipstick rubbed off on his lips. I find that some teasing and coaxing with kisses tends to put guys at ease

[sesame]

he kept bringing up how he "wasn't gay". We'd kiss and he'd pause because he "wasn't gay".

Thats sounds really funny; Like watching a film with Woody Allen in it.

The coaxing and relaxing part is understandable.
Have more fun!

[oldawg]

bionca, you are a very pretty girl, best of luck & keep us posted!

[curiousguy51973]

well congrats Bionca. Hope you have found something there.

[Bionca]

Well things aren't working out with the new guy. It seems that he was looking to play around, which is fine. I was planning to move out of state soon, so wasn't looking long term either.

I just got off the phone with him and his problem is.. he likes me TOO MUCH !!
He likes me too much and can't deal with it. He's didn't seem too worried about people knowing about me, and didn't seem to have a problem with my body (at all). He just wasn't expecting to have feelings for me - he "just wanted to get off regularly".

[sesame]

Hi Wisey,
Ah! I was hoping this ex-marine guy to fulfil your wishes. Darn! Dont get too upset, though. He seemed to be a nice man with good taste.(you described him to us)
He "liked you too much"? There's no surprise, you are Absolutely Likable!
But I didnt get one thing straight. Since he was in for you so much, and not bothered about what people will say, why did he have to run? Some deep rooted psychological phobia implanted by the society perhaps?

"just wanted to get off regularly"

Now what in sweet heaven does that mean?