Two part question for t-girls and admirers alike.

Originally Posted by mrrickers

I have dated 2 women in my life and both hurt me both financially and emotionally. I gave everything I could.

One girlfriend I got her into college, did her homework, basically everything. She then started asking out other guys. Done!

Last girlfriend took my money, time, house and just abused me. She still does.

So, is it sexual? I would say no because they are a combination of both a female and make and I get along with guys, but love the look of a female. I would really like to talk to one getting to know about her, what she dreams, what she wants.

Would sex be nice? I never push sex because that is only a small part of life.

I am just looking for better and with women, I strike out and just do not like what they are all about. I emotionally moved on to these ladies.

Well that pains me to hear that you've been so used and mistreated by two trans women. I don't know why some women feel they have to manipulate others instead of creating true bonds.
I for one will never use anybody as I've been used in the past myself. And one of those women was ex room mate & best friend, who also happens to be trans. I can't even describe the betrayal I felt. And the worst part is, she didn't even realize that she was using me. :/

Though I wish you, mrrickers, luck in finding someone who deserves your attentions.

And thank you for your input.