Loneliness

[randolph]

Originally Posted by smc

I stand by what I wrote.

This is a forum for the free exchange of ideas. My freedom is no less than yours.

Very well, I reserve the right to insult you as the occasion arises.

[smc]

Originally Posted by randolph

Very well, I reserve the right to insult you as the occasion arises.

I attacked your position, Randolph, not you. Spend your time finding something to insult me about if you wish -- I'm a grown-up and can handle it -- but take a moment first to apologize to Enoch Root for implying that he has an obsession to overcome.

I think Enoch Root has expressed the problem quite well, quite articulately. How that can be inferred as obsession is beyond me, but it does support my point about your post.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by smc

I attacked your position, Randolph, not you. Spend your time finding something to insult me about if you wish -- I'm a grown-up and can handle it -- but take a moment first to apologize to Enoch Root for implying that he has an obsession to overcome.

I think Enoch Root has expressed the problem quite well, quite articulately. How that can be inferred as obsession is beyond me, but it does support my point about your post.

Oh my, I used the word obsession to refer to my feelings regarding tgirls not Enoch or any body else. In fact, I have encouraged Enoch to seek out a tgirl and satisfy his longing. Perhaps you should do the same. A report on how it went would be most interesting.

[ila]

Enoch Root, you list your location as Puerto Rico. I would think then that you probably speak Spanish. In addition you speak, read, and write English. You have said that you recently finished journalism in college. May I suggest that you emigrate to the US, Argentina, Brazil (yes, I know the language of Brazil is Portuguese), or even perhaps to Spain or Italy. From what I've heard and read there are many transwomen in these countries and therefore your chances of meeting one will increase whereas if you stay where you are your chances are almost zero. I think that the saying "nothing ventured, nothing gained" applies to your situation.

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by ila

Enoch Root, you list your location as Puerto Rico. I would think then that you probably speak Spanish. In addition you speak, read, and write English. You have said that you recently finished journalism in college. May I suggest that you emigrate to the US, Argentina, Brazil (yes, I know the language of Brazil is Portuguese), or even perhaps to Spain or Italy. From what I've heard and read there are many transwomen in these countries and therefore your chances of meeting one will increase whereas if you stay where you are your chances are almost zero. I think that the saying "nothing ventured, nothing gained" applies to your situation.

Ah, yes, Spain: where one third of my progenitors come from. Land of the folk who arrived to the shores of Boriquen (one of several names for the island before the arrival of the Spanish) and then proceeded to enslave the native population of Tainos. And rape. Don?t forget about rape. Add a little imported African blood, courtesy of the extinction of the Tainos?but not before Spanish and Taino blood mingled?and you have me. But that was hundreds of years ago.

Still, I hear the food is amazing, the architecture superb and the inevitable pretty Spanish ladies speaking with accents that make your pants drop. I had no idea Spain was known for the transsexual ladies. I?ll keep that in mind. Lately, as I think of my circumstances I have been thinking about moving to Spain. At the very least they speak my language and cook some of my food. It is somewhere far away from all the dreary I have lived for many years. A new beginning as it were.

I went to college in the United States by the way. There it was that, during the last three months of my stay in college, I met her. I had been attracted to transwomen before that, but almost completely forgotten about it except for the occasional viewing of pornography. I?m always drowning in straight people, so I tend to forget those things that set me apart. And now I cannot forget how different I am and how difficult it would be for me to live the way I want to in my home. Now everything is different about me but the world around me refuses to change as quickly as it should.

I am in contact with another forum member who is a fellow Puertorican. I keep planning on asking more in depth about possible places to meet transsexual women, but I always forget. She has told me she has seen trans sex workers in the town of Santurce, but my interest in sex workers floats somewhere above zero. I want a meaningful relationship.

[JodieTs]

Puerto Rico...
yahoo answers
Are there any transsexual hangouts in Puerto Rico?
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
No... There are Gayclubs...
explore gay-puerto-rico

san-juan/entertainment-and-events/nightlife/gay-and-lesbian
Hum....
Ok that gets you out of your room.