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Originally Posted by Cadian122
Also, I'm not sure how I can have a lasting relationship with anyone I picked up from a nightclub and how all my mates would respond if I said "here's X she's my GF, and a T-girl" the words, leave town spring to mind.
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People online are much more creepy than the people you meet in clubs. People who have the guts to go out at least have a little bit of backbone and are at least sane enough to feign normal social interaction. Your excuses for not wanting to go out and your fear of what your friends would think really imply that you are not comfortable with your own sexuality and are not ready to date a t-girl.
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Originally Posted by Cadian122
I've tried Dating sites, but the free ones are rather crap, and I can't afford the pay sites (I'm at Uni and spending upwards of $350aus on books)
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You want to date a t-girl, but you don't have enough money to join a dating site? I'm not saying you need to pay for everything every date, but if $30/mo for a website is out of your budget how do you expect to ever go out?
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Originally Posted by Cadian122
I find also, I am a plasma (Blood) donor, and I don't want to go, "yeah, I'm screwing a t-girl" mainly beacuse I'm not sure weather I'd still be able to donate blood, mainly beacuse of quote: have you had male to male sex in the last x months? and I don't want to compromise what I see as a social responsibiltiy for a one nighter. 
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Don't kid yourself. You're not donating; you're selling. You sell your plasma because it's an easy way to make a little cash, not because you think it's a social responsibility. Just admit that you'd definitely never tell anyone you were with a t-girl.
One nighter? What happened to you wanting a lasting relationship? Now the truth comes out that you just want to fuck a t-girl and you would never actually date one.
A lot of people are in the closet. It's hard to sweep a girl off her feet if you're obviously ashamed of her. Whatever, I can blame social pressures for that. But at least have some respect. What do you think t-girls are? Some lower form of life that will fuck your brains out if you only get the guts up to go to talk to one and get past your fear that they all have HIV?