To Hell with all of It

[randolph]

Dear Bionca,
There seems to be a long line of guys that would like to love you. You are intelligent and beautiful yet there is this continuing line of sad events in your life. What gives?

[smc]

Bionca, no one ever achieves happiness by putting their dreams on hold or settling for what someone else tells them is the best they can achieve. You come across as a thoughtful, caring, and strong woman who is facing adversity. Please don't let yourself down by settling for anything less than you deserve.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by randolph

Dear Bionca,
There seems to be a long line of guys that would like to love you. You are intelligent and beautiful yet there is this continuing line of sad events in your life. What gives?

Well... there is a line of guys who THINK they MIGHT want to love a gal like me. Once the novelty wears off and the idea that dating a Trans*woman is a little complicated and tends to mess with one's sexual identity, not to mention the social issues with family and friends when/if they find out.

Then there are guys who aren't exactly honest and make promises they don't intend to keep, or are married or in a relationship and forget to mention that. While not exclusive to Trans*gals, it appears to happen more often to my Trans friends than my bio-girl friends.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Well... there is a line of guys who THINK they MIGHT want to love a gal like me. Once the novelty wears off and the idea that dating a Trans*woman is a little complicated and tends to mess with one's sexual identity, not to mention the social issues with family and friends when/if they find out.

Then there are guys who aren't exactly honest and make promises they don't intend to keep, or are married or in a relationship and forget to mention that. While not exclusive to Trans*gals, it appears to happen more often to my Trans friends than my bio-girl friends.

Dear girl, you seem to be caught between a rock and a hard place, I guess that's the fate of transsexuals. Jen took the extreme way out and I sincerely hope it works for her. Otherwise is there some solution to being trapped in the wrong body? Biology has dwelt a cruel blow to you and society makes it worse. Gays and lesbians seem to have a better chance of having a life. We all support and love you on this forum but I know you need more than that. Please love yourself, eat lots of blueberries and wear sexy clothes.