Femboy to Translady

[racquel]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

The transsitional period is the one of total vulnerability. This is where the major step is taken. This is where the angst is enormous. And bear in mind that many transsexuals do this at a rather young age where they don't have the stamina, the wisdom or the thick skin needed to cope with all the hate they meet.

I've got plenty thick skin, and I've got pictures of me when I was 20 as a regular guy with a ponytail and a sad excuse for a goatee, and I've got pictures from 18 months ago before I started getting the weird pre-boob-job tranny tits. I'm not going to post them, just because this is a largely porn-driven forum and not a TG support forum with me and my gal-pals, and I don't have any reason to put something personal out there to be objectified.

But look at what the OP said: "starter femboy"

The reality is that a lot of tgirls didn't start off as the femme boys at all. Some were horribly depressed and let themselves go completely -- check out Riftgirl on YouTube:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0H44PZFKxOI

She's totally hot, and used to be one fat bastard. That video's adorable, but you'd have to be some kind of sociopath to be turned on by it.

Some of us were depressed and had a bad home life and really got into sports. Seeing me as a regular kid would probably freak the hell out of a lot of people who like rubbing one out to tgirls. A young, super-skinny femme boy in panties might be exciting, especially the Asian ones that are naturally androgynous, but how many people really want to face the reality that a normal guy who set half his high school's track records in 1996 -- a guy who they probably would've hung out with and talked about what chicks they wanted to bang -- that guy was a total emotional disaster who had been crying himself to sleep since he was 3 praying to wake up as a girl. Reality can be a real downer, ya know?

Originally Posted by Arthur

Do the ladies out there like to be called TS/Transexual/Shemale/Ladyboy whats the preference as sometimes it almost seems like I might being slightly insulting ?

People just call me by my name. Actually, a lotta my gay friends call me "tranny" -- which is nice as long as it's coming from your friends (kinda like black guys calling each other n_____). But every label will insult someone unless it's ambiguous like TS or TG. I think pre-op is annoying because it implies that my lifelong goal is for someone to carve a vagina into me. Many TS girls dismiss me because I don't, though. Besides, isn't a boob job an "op"?

[Veronick]

I am very supportive to your opinion, Dear Racquel !

12-01-2008
racquel
Senior Ladyboy Lover
M2f Tgirl

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by racquel

Some of us were depressed and had a bad home life and really got into sports. Seeing me as a regular kid would probably freak the hell out of a lot of people who like rubbing one out to tgirls. A young, super-skinny femme boy in panties might be exciting, especially the Asian ones that are naturally androgynous, but how many people really want to face the reality that a normal guy who set half his high school's track records in 1996 -- a guy who they probably would've hung out with and talked about what chicks they wanted to bang -- that guy was a total emotional disaster who had been crying himself to sleep since he was 3 praying to wake up as a girl. Reality can be a real downer, ya know?

I truly adore and respect you, Racquel. You are a rocking woman! You are the kind of woman that I hope I eventually will settle down with in a blissful relationship... you are the true essence of transsexuality in all its pain and glory and controversial beauty. You are the kind of woman who dares to discuss all this. You are a true YOU!

So all hats off for YOU, Racquel! I sense you are a girl that it will be very easy to fall in love with.

H

[ubernothingness]

I have seen ftm and mtf transitions first hand, very stressful and EXPENSIVE.

[brutusbum]

I think one of the most extreme transformations was Holly Sweet. I have to dig it up to post here, but it's startling how different she was at first.

B

[Mel Asher]

Hank

I have read the posts in this thread, and I have to say how immensely moved I was and so relieved that there exist on this forum individuals of all sexual persuasions who have such deep compassion and insight into the pain and courage of those prepared to face up to their need for sexual fulfilment and identity, and to swim against the tide of prejudice. It is people like yourself, Bionca, Fran, Racquel and others who make this forum an inspiration and hope for so many readers who feel lost and afraid.

[laura.trivulzi]

GREAT POST!!! I LOVE THE SAME TOO

for who don't know, also the beatiful Harley Quinn / Bailey Jay had recently a breast implant
of course, now is... is... I can't find the words!!!

[ila]

Originally Posted by laura.trivulzi

GREAT POST!!! I LOVE THE SAME TOO

for who don't know, also the beatiful Harley Quinn / Bailey Jay had recently a breast implant
of course, now is... is... I can't find the words!!!

I'm sure quite a few on here know about her implants since it was posted in a thread about her. Seanchai from Grooby also posted some pictures, from one of his sites, shortly after Bailey Jay had her implants done.

[laura.trivulzi]

hope it's ok