The transsexual paradox...

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Hank,

I suppose it goes without saying that I agree with you 100%. The downside to being Trans is we are held to be *more* women and genetic women, with no room for "error".

You know what, Bionca? You most likely ARE more woman than women! The highest degree of femininity I've personally encountered has been in trans-women. Total and utter femininity!

Even the "traditional" masculine attributes that are still present in most transsexual women are turned around and suddenly become feminine attributes. I wish I could explain better what I mean, but that's how I feel it. That's also why I guess it's always my approach to convince trans-women who may be a bit shy, that they don't have to be shy at all. Their femininity is defined by their whole personality - that's why a rock hard penis (excuse my lingo) placed on a sweet transsexual woman becomes the most feminine attribute one can imagine!