Sad transexual on HBO's Taxicap Confession

[Bionca]

My ex and I had an open relationship. It made sense since he was 10 years older that I, his job made him travel all over, I was in school just beginning my transition, and I hadn't really experimented with dating/flirting/being sexual as a woman.

He did break two of the important rules for the relationship: Always practice safer sex and don't fuck people we both know (he messed around with a co-worker who had met me in passing.

To bring this back to the first post. This is the kick in the gut for me. I know lots of women don't have children, don't want children, can't have children and that this is not what being a woman is any more than liking pink or having long hair.

Knowing all this, it still feels like a slap when someone brings it up. It is the one thing that no surgery, no pills, nothing will be able to fix. It's the single slippery rug under my feet that can be pulled out at any time to justify why I'm not a "real *enough* woman".

Sometimes I am ashamed of my fellow “brothers” out there. My fianc?e cannot have children but that does not make her any “less of a woman” to me. That someone would use this excuse to break off a relationship is despicable. As Shadows said:

Doing something like that shows how much of a man he really was...which is to say not very much of one. For me, a relationship should be based on love, and if you love that person you don't let anything get in the way of that love. You love that person unconditionally.

Maybe some “ass kicking” is in order… I can do that.

[sosed]

In my opinion majority of people, males and females, wish to have their own families and children. But sometimes happened, that someone could not have his/her own children because of many reasons. In that case partners must take a decision and stand behind their decision.

Even to be in couple with genetic girl doesn't mean you will have for 100% children. Could happened, that girl could not have children or that I could not have children. In that case if we love each other and together decide to stay together, than this is our decision and we must stay behind it.

The same is to be in couple with trans girl. In that case we both know, that we could not have our own children. If we decide to stay together in relationship or marriage, than this is our own decision and we must both stay behind it.

Breaking your own decision and searching for excuses is very unresponsible to yourself and to your partner. This actually show what personality someone have.

[JodieTs]

I've never been maternal.
Though after my transition {A few years after, & on-going}
I've been feeling a deep sadness that I can't bear children.
This is only a small thing in comparison to a couple of friends {Ts history},
whom it really bites deep if they dwell on it too much.

[locco86]

Originally Posted by Bionca

My ex and I had an open relationship. It made sense since he was 10 years older that I, his job made him travel all over, I was in school just beginning my transition, and I hadn't really experimented with dating/flirting/being sexual as a woman.

He did break two of the important rules for the relationship: Always practice safer sex and don't fuck people we both know (he messed around with a co-worker who had met me in passing.

To bring this back to the first post. This is the kick in the gut for me. I know lots of women don't have children, don't want children, can't have children and that this is not what being a woman is any more than liking pink or having long hair.

Knowing all this, it still feels like a slap when someone brings it up. It is the one thing that no surgery, no pills, nothing will be able to fix. It's the single slippery rug under my feet that can be pulled out at any time to justify why I'm not a "real *enough* woman".

bionca..... you don't need to be sad about this thing... sincerely, i don;t want to have kids, i dont; why but i don;t. A tranny or a transexual is someting special, out of the pattern so why start thinking in the pattern that society teach us? during time human thinking evolved from what bible said to us to the free judgement! i think u just met the wrong person! i can;t say that i'm with you because i'm hundreds miles away.... but i feel ur sadness!
and one more thing.... all that sh#t you have been trough made the wonderfull person u are now!