Interest in trans lifestyle waxing and waning

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by valentinetabitha

Maybe I'm the only one, but I find my interest in the trans lifestyle and trans porn varies with what's going on with my life. The more frustrated I get with my lack of a sex life, the more I find myself wanting to have a big "out of the closet" moment with the wife. On the other hand, if we do fool around, I find myself feeling more straight.

I'm sure some of this is a product of my bisexuality, but I figured I'd pose the question. Does anyone else have this happen?

Well, to answer your direct question - not really. I'm trans, I'm a woman, my level of sexual activity doesn't make any difference.

To answer what I think your actual question may be - I think your level of interest in trans porn and (I assume) dressing being tied to the amount of sexual activity with your wife makes total sense. For some people trans-related interests are directly tied to their sex drives because it is a fetish.

I'm curious, do you find yourself dressing more or having the urge to dress more pronounced the longer you go without sexual contact? Do you watch more trans porn during this time and then after sex with your wife watch more mainstream hetero porn?

The reason I ask is because lots of TVs I know who have eroticized the idea of being a woman or being transsexual have expressed this in ways that sound like a cycle of behavior. The longer between sexual encounters the stronger the need/urge to express the trans part of the personality is.