Can a shemale be too beautiful?

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by twistedone

Since I'm a submissive, I can't think of anything more fun or humiliating than having "performance anxiety" around a beautiful shemale.

Just my kinky side talking.

Performance anxiety; so that's what you call it. I've had that happen to date before. I thought he got turned off by me. Now you are telling me I look too good? Which is it?

[randolph]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Performance anxiety; so that's what you call it. I've had that happen to date before. I thought he got turned off by me. Now you are telling me I look too good? Which is it?

Well, I guess there are various forms of performance anxiety. My anxiety is holding on until I get her panties off!

[suebone]

Drop dead - gorgeous , totally feminine
This is what some of us are working to become , born with the wrong tools on the outside with a different inner sole.
Wanting to be a woman.
One should be accepting of the person within,not what you see on the outside.
Life's a journey and some have a way too go.
I'm okay, you're okay. Let me (us) be me (us)

sue b
(short & sweet)

[The_Void]

I understand your point, but I prefer the feminine look.

There are many things that can make someone attracted to another. It is totally subjective and unique. In general, I have a pretty good idea of what I like--but that does not mean that someone who does not fit my ideal is any less beautiful. I am always uncomfortable with these sort of questions because it implies that those who don’t meet some kind of ideal standards aren’t acceptable.

Jenae is right: “I’m OK, You’re OK”--hey I’m a 70’s kid, I remember that saying! (Wasn't it a book?) The important thing is to be happy with who you are.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

NO!

JohnDowe.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by johndowe

Hi there.

NO!

JohnDowe.

Is that a "no" to "can a shemale be too beautiful?"
or a "no" to his question," make any sence?"

[JonFrum]

Originally Posted by aw9725

I am always uncomfortable with these sort of questions because it implies that those who don't meet some kind of ideal standards aren't acceptable.

No it doesn't. Any more that someone who likes Chinese food implies that any other kind of food isn't acceptable. You're making much more of the question that I asked. I'm not the beauty police, and I didn't claim to be. Don't assume the worst of people - most of us arent' that bad.

Originally Posted by JonFrum

No it doesn't. Any more that someone who likes Chinese food implies that any other kind of food isn't acceptable. You're making much more of the question that I asked. I'm not the beauty police, and I didn't claim to be. Don't assume the worst of people - most of us arent' that bad.

Jon,

OK. Then I would say that I am very attracted to transwomen that appear very feminine and would be considered "passable." If you follow my posts you will see who among popular models I like in particular--to say I "have it bad" for Kelly Shore would be an understatement! Coming in a close second would be Camila Saenz and Yeidi Collins (tied). My ex-wife was very beautiful and a former cheerleader. Most people would say I was "well built" and even "good looking." I am also a successful professional (University Professor). I had put some pictures of myself in my profile and Avatar.

You look like you are new to this forum--I have been here a month or so and have really enjoyed being a member. Most here are very "open minded" and for me it has been a great place to discover more about myself and my own sexuality. I have shared quite a bit of personal information (not sure that was wise) and because of a recent incident have changed my profile to silly pictures and info. I feel bad that I had to do this because I felt I could trust others on here. I'm also disappointed because one of my original postings was not well received and the thread has since gone wildly off track--but that is another story.

More than likely going to take some time off--but I'm sure I will be back in time.

Anyway, nice to meet you...

Andy

[JonFrum]

Originally Posted by suebone

Drop dead - gorgeous , totally feminine
This is what some of us are working to become , born with the wrong tools on the outside with a different inner sole.
Wanting to be a woman.
One should be accepting of the person within,not what you see on the outside.
Life's a journey and some have a way too go.
I'm okay, you're okay. Let me (us) be me (us)

sue b
(short & sweet)

Sue

One should be accepting, but that's missing my point. Men don't post pictures of "shemales" with erections here because they respect the person within - it's all about appearance. Of course I respect and understand the difference between the interests of transgendered people in being themselves, and my interest in their appearance. I'm talking strictly about appearance. Being white, I happen to be more sexually attracted to white women than black. That doesn't mean I couldn't vote for a black woman for president - I just grew up around white girls, and now I'm hard-wired with a preference for white skin. That's not absolute, just a preference, just like a preference for redheads.

When an m2f person becomes so pretty that I can't distinguish her from a GG, then she turns me on as a women - and hot women are a dime a dozen, after all. They're not any less attractive because they're genetic boys, they're just not attractive in the "shemale" style to me any more. That doesn't prevent me from respecting their own wishes for themselves - that's another kettle of fish entirely.