Femboy to Translady

[Arthur]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I have lots of male and bio-female friends as well as Trans* male and female friends. All of them know my status and treat me like.. well .. a friend.

An average day starts with me waking up far earlier than I want, getting ready for work, taking a bus to the job, doing research and writing for my company, bussing back home, playing video games or reading a book, talking a little to my fella, sending some email and then taking a shower and going to bed. Not very sexy I know...

I'm not a fan of Shemale or Ladyboy. Shemale has a really nasty history (Google Janice Raymond + Shemale) and Ladyboy is a term for Trans*women from Thailand - as a white woman, it would be inappropriate for that term to be used. It is also mostly used by Westerners for Trans Thai prostiutes. So, I a big fan of being called by my name, barring that Transgendered is swell.

Thanks for the reply Bionica. So are you planning to lose the male genitals ? or are you happy being a guy, looking like a woman ? If so that would make you a gay guy who likes to look feminine......is that more of a statement/lifestyle choice with little to do with sexuality?

I read parts of the Blog. It's strange because it almost reads like outlaw culture.......in a sense it used to be the same if you rode a motorcycle......something I enjoyed because it was fun and exciting, others saw it as a threat.

I think I should really open another thread in the proper place as this is off topic.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by Arthur

Thanks for the reply Bionica. So are you planning to lose the male genitals ? or are you happy being a guy, looking like a woman ? If so that would make you a gay guy who likes to look feminine......is that more of a statement/lifestyle choice with little to do with sexuality?

I read parts of the Blog. It's strange because it almost reads like outlaw culture.......in a sense it used to be the same if you rode a motorcycle......something I enjoyed because it was fun and exciting, others saw it as a threat.

I think I should really open another thread in the proper place as this is off topic.

I'm not getting rid of the penis. Not because it is particularly importat, but because it is just not at all important to me. The surgery is expensive, and IMO not needed because having a vagina won't make me feel any more of a woman. My identity is not contained in my pants, so having an expensive, potentially disasterous surgery just seems like a silly waste of time.

I'm not a "gay guy who looks feminine".

[Arthur]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm not getting rid of the penis. Not because it is particularly importat, but because it is just not at all important to me. The surgery is expensive, and IMO not needed because having a vagina won't make me feel any more of a woman. My identity is not contained in my pants, so having an expensive, potentially disasterous surgery just seems like a silly waste of time.

I'm not a "gay guy who looks feminine".

Right, that makes things slightly clearer. The risk for removal is too high compared to the limited nuisance. So getting a bit more personal, do you use your Penis for sex, or just consider it a bit of floppy, useless skin ?

I suppose this is where the complexities begin to emerge. Women have clitoris, which is erectile tissue and sensitive. So a Penis could be considered a big Clitoris. Your post has me thinking that a biological woman might be quite happy to have a Penis ? and then I begin wondering that if it boils down to the pure physical act of sex, is penetration in the Vagina any different from Anal ?

So, infact a woman with a Penis makes perfect sense. It's really just the mental position on gender.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm not getting rid of the penis. Not because it is particularly importat, but because it is just not at all important to me. The surgery is expensive, and IMO not needed because having a vagina won't make me feel any more of a woman. My identity is not contained in my pants, so having an expensive, potentially disasterous surgery just seems like a silly waste of time.

I'm not a "gay guy who looks feminine".

That's my girl! Be the strong, highly talented person you are! Love you totally!

H

[horny sissy]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm not getting rid of the penis. Not because it is particularly importat, but because it is just not at all important to me. The surgery is expensive, and IMO not needed because having a vagina won't make me feel any more of a woman. My identity is not contained in my pants, so having an expensive, potentially disasterous surgery just seems like a silly waste of time.

I'm not a "gay guy who looks feminine".

its the irony of our life, people never try to understand who we are, they just try to fit us in their stereotypical dogmas...