Does liking shemales make you gay?

[jiiyze]

Yea. Sometimes. Im 24, really starting to come to terms with it, have to really. Was kind of a problem before. I make myself paranoid about it sometimes. Like "what if they knew" sort of thing when I interact with people. Really does my head in sometimes, like I get all nervous and stuff. Doesn't add to my confidence put it that way..

[trekkie]

I never feel guilty liking a hot girl with a nice cock.

[الدكتور العراقي]

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

[Ogryn1313]

I used to but have come to accept how I feel. The guilt feelings were stemming from society imposing its values on me. But we are are own people and we shouldn't feel guilty for a thing such as who we are attracted to.

[mrtrebus]

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say.

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

This is an interesting thread, and the original question ALWAYS comes up in tgirl forums. It's all to do with how you see yourself, not whether you're "gay" or not. (Also, the definition of "gay" becomes so personal in discussions like this that it comes to a point where it doesn't even matter). Some people will say, there's a cock attached to that person, so it's male regardless of any other physical, emotional, or mental characteristics of said person. Others will say, well yes, there's a cock, but if you didn't see it you'd never know it was there because the rest is so feminine. Others, like myself, will say, my god she's so feminine but has a hard cock...that's just beautiful!

For myself, I answer this question like this: I am not at all attracted to other men, and I have never been with a tgirl, but I do consider myself to have bisexual leanings because if I were lucky enough to get to be with a tgirl I would definitely want to suck her cock and have her fuck me in the ass. (And I have never even so much fingered my own ass so I realize I'd have to "warm up" first!) But when I watch tgirl porn I love how it looks when the girls are on "top." And the fact that they are so beautiful, I'd really get off myself knowing I was getting them off. (If that makes sense). I guess, as a tgirl admirer from afar, I tend to put tgirls on a pedestal, but that's part of the fantasy for me. I'd treat her like nothing but the lady she is, while hoping she'd get turned on enough to give me a good "seeing to." All this to reiterate my original point, such labels should only matter to you, and you are the one who needs to come to terms with your own psyche...sexual and otherwise. If we all lived our lives worrying about what others thought of us we'd be miserable indeed. Cheers. (And hopefully this is halfway readable!)

well put, im a confused guy that has just got into shemales.

[funky57]

Originally Posted by mrtrebus

I do. Im new to the whole shemale thing, it just turns me on but im afraid of what my family & frends would say

same here I am also new but hey you have to otherwise what is life all about

[Demonic shemale licker]

Originally Posted by guest

recently,not really.. but yes very rarely i do feel guilt. and not because i am ashamed of liking these beutiful people, but because i think of my family. my dad is very macho, and i dont know what he'd do if he knew about my interest in ladyboys..

I feel the same way, my mom would not take it 2 well if she found out i was a shemale lover or if she found out that i'm an atheist, my friends in school would probably look at me differently.

Originally Posted by spike_40

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.

Thanks i never looked at it that way.

Originally Posted by musclelover

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

Long mint does have one of the most glorious peanuses i have ever seen on a man or a t girl, it looks yummy.

[ila]

I don't feel guilty at all for liking transwomen. If anyone can't accept me or any transwoman that I might be with then that would be that person's problem and not mine and definitely not the lady's problem. I will also not tolerate any disparaging remarks about transwomen. Anyone that shows any intolerance for transwomen (or transmen) or makes disparaging remarks about transpeople in front of me will get an earful of abuse from me. In conclusion I would like to say that I do not feel guilty for liking transwomen and I would be pleased and proud to have a transwoman beside me.

[eireannach]

No. I have never had the opportunity to be with one yet though. I live in a place where there are only a couple and they have lines of suitors lined up so ya. Someday though.

[just102]

nope

I just want to fulfill my fantasy and actually be with one!

[zman]

I dont feel guilty. But, the big problem for me right nowis this. I'm into Genetic girls and transexuals. I've never been with a transexual before, and I really want to. However, the girl I'm dating is amazing, but not so amazing as to just let me have sex with someone elde. We've been together for 4 years now, and I'm feel pretty confident I want to marry her. But, the thing that keeps holding me back is that if I do, I'll prolly never get to fulfill my fantasy...

[2WayStreet]

I have no such problems, as I feel just as comfortable with a real girl or a LB. It is just a matter of getting used to it and prepare yourself for the role ahead.

[shemaleslave]

I do feel some shame, But in a way i get off on it.

[dolfan72734me]

Originally Posted by zman

I dont feel guilty. But, the big problem for me right nowis this. I'm into Genetic girls and transexuals. I've never been with a transexual before, and I really want to. However, the girl I'm dating is amazing, but not so amazing as to just let me have sex with someone elde. We've been together for 4 years now, and I'm feel pretty confident I want to marry her. But, the thing that keeps holding me back is that if I do, I'll prolly never get to fulfill my fantasy...

The way I feel about it is, whether it is a hot girl with a vagina, or a hot girl with a cock, it is the girl I am wanting, not so much of what she has down there.
Seems to me we should feel lucky either way.

[sephpeaches46]

Originally Posted by SweetCharmer

same here i don't see why we would have to feel guilty at all its a passion and they're normal right?

When i had my first session with A ts i felt guiklty later. After a while that stopped. Now i'm fully into beautiful shemales and love them.
I'm in my 50's and have had a lot of sex over the years . I must say shemales are the best,sexy,sluttty horny.
I've even started swallowing cum for my bets partners..they lOVE it!

[ila]

No, I never feel guilty for liking tgirls. Nor will I ever feel guilty for liking tgirls.

[british_boy]

I have an Asian TS girlfriend and we adore each other - she's the best girlfriend and lover I've ever had.

I don't feel guilty or ashamed in the slightest, and since I don't want kids, there's no barrier to us being together for the long term. However, I do worry about other people's reactions if, as planned, we get "married" (civil partnership in the UK) and she comes here to live. I haven't got much family to speak of, but I'm pretty sure some friends will be weird about it.

In fact, does anyone have any advice in this area?

[threnn00]

No, I do not feel guilty. I like what I like. A friend of mine says that no one can help what turns them on, and tgirls sooooooo turn me on. I know most of my friends wouldn't understand, but that's why sites like this are so important, filled with people who DO understand.

[redjaan]

i've been into shemales since i was 18ish, i would not say i feel guilty about liing these beautiful t-girls but it does anoy me that its taboo and its fround apon, people see it the say as being gay but me personaly i do not find men attractive nore to i find men in drag attractive but shemales and females i do... however like after watching any porn once i cum i feel a lil guilty no matter what im watching lol but i havn't stoped nore do i plan to ...