New and Looking

[Bionca]

Maybe he did have problems with being seen with a TS, maybe not - I don't know. It sounded like he was just after some sex and when he started having feelings he freaked out. The crazy thing is I wasn't really even trying to have a serious relationship this time.

Even though he said he wasn't gay, he did say he had been with a few guys. His standard of being "not gay" was that he didn't feel anything for the guys- it was just sex. He assumed being with me would be the same as being with a guy.

He should have known I wasn't like a guy when I had him ... oh nevermind *evil grin*

[sesame]

He should have known I wasn't like a guy when I had him ... oh nevermind *evil grin*

Rawrrrrh! You naughty lustful "" !
Practically he IS gay, whether he imagines himself straight or not. Some people are really complicated, you know? Who is simple in this world? People have scores of hidden emotions, sometimes pushed back into the subconscious unknown to themselves!
And nowadays, everyone is looking around for some hot action. Just dry action, emotions securely locked up elsewhere. Strange!

[Bionca]

Well, everyone should be free to define their sexuality as best they understand it. As we all know there is gay and straight and a whole lot in between, just as there is man and woman and lots and lots in between as well. So, his definition of himself isn't a problem. His definition of ME was a problem.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

Rawrrrrh! You naughty lustful "" !
!

Now, I wouldn't want to post something that could be considered pornographic here.. it wouldn't fit the general theme of the forum.

[sesame]

Huff-puff
I get the picture, Yeah

[Bionca]

I have been thinking about the last guy, and I have to say I'm partly amused and partly a little angry that he was surprised that he liked me the way he likes women.

While I do have some typical "man" physical traits (aside from the crotch) I don't think I'm particularly "manish" in either my appearance or my manner or even in my personality (if a gender can be placed on personality).

Back to being completely baffled by guys I guess...

[sesame]

As far as your personality goes, you are a woman without a shred of doubt. I have never seen you apart from your avatar (plus those 2 imgs). But you look quite feminine in the photo.
What are your manly features? Let me guess... adam's apple perhaps, a small pelvis and a penis with nuts. You told us that you had facial reconstruction and got your body hairs removed. So, where is the "man" hiding?
We humans are social animals, we have our own idiosyncrasies. One of the human traits is, the need we feel for reaffirmation from our fellow humans, of the facts we already know as true. Call it mental weakness burned into our genes or collective psychology. If you look for assurance from outside, chances are you will be left wanting.
You have become a woman. You know it. But people of the world will always doubt it, once you reveal your secret. Make peace with this issue.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

As far as your personality goes, you are a woman without a shred of doubt. I have never seen you apart from your avatar (plus those 2 imgs). But you look quite feminine in the photo.
What are your manly features? Let me guess... adam's apple perhaps, a small pelvis and a penis with nuts. You told us that you had facial reconstruction and got your body hairs removed. So, where is the "man" hiding?
We humans are social animals, we have our own idiosyncrasies. One of the human traits is, the need we feel for reaffirmation from our fellow humans, of the facts we already know as true. Call it mental weakness burned into our genes or collective psychology. If you look for assurance from outside, chances are you will be left wanting.
You have become a woman. You know it. But people of the world will always doubt it, once you reveal your secret. Make peace with this issue.

adam's apple - yes. I'm tall for a woman 5'9". I have larger than normal feet. and manish hands. ugh my secret it out now.

You are correct I nee to make peace with the issue tha people with have an issue.