New and Looking

[curiousguy51973]

well congrats Bionca. Hope you have found something there.

[Bionca]

Well things aren't working out with the new guy. It seems that he was looking to play around, which is fine. I was planning to move out of state soon, so wasn't looking long term either.

I just got off the phone with him and his problem is.. he likes me TOO MUCH !!
He likes me too much and can't deal with it. He's didn't seem too worried about people knowing about me, and didn't seem to have a problem with my body (at all). He just wasn't expecting to have feelings for me - he "just wanted to get off regularly".

[sesame]

Hi Wisey,
Ah! I was hoping this ex-marine guy to fulfil your wishes. Darn! Dont get too upset, though. He seemed to be a nice man with good taste.(you described him to us)
He "liked you too much"? There's no surprise, you are Absolutely Likable!
But I didnt get one thing straight. Since he was in for you so much, and not bothered about what people will say, why did he have to run? Some deep rooted psychological phobia implanted by the society perhaps?

"just wanted to get off regularly"

Now what in sweet heaven does that mean?

[Bionca]

Maybe he did have problems with being seen with a TS, maybe not - I don't know. It sounded like he was just after some sex and when he started having feelings he freaked out. The crazy thing is I wasn't really even trying to have a serious relationship this time.

Even though he said he wasn't gay, he did say he had been with a few guys. His standard of being "not gay" was that he didn't feel anything for the guys- it was just sex. He assumed being with me would be the same as being with a guy.

He should have known I wasn't like a guy when I had him ... oh nevermind *evil grin*

[sesame]

He should have known I wasn't like a guy when I had him ... oh nevermind *evil grin*

Rawrrrrh! You naughty lustful "" !
Practically he IS gay, whether he imagines himself straight or not. Some people are really complicated, you know? Who is simple in this world? People have scores of hidden emotions, sometimes pushed back into the subconscious unknown to themselves!
And nowadays, everyone is looking around for some hot action. Just dry action, emotions securely locked up elsewhere. Strange!

[Bionca]

Well, everyone should be free to define their sexuality as best they understand it. As we all know there is gay and straight and a whole lot in between, just as there is man and woman and lots and lots in between as well. So, his definition of himself isn't a problem. His definition of ME was a problem.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

Rawrrrrh! You naughty lustful "" !
!

Now, I wouldn't want to post something that could be considered pornographic here.. it wouldn't fit the general theme of the forum.

[sesame]

Huff-puff
I get the picture, Yeah