To Hell with all of It

[smc]

Originally Posted by Bionca

He followed up with essentially a statement that not only should I want this, I should be grateful since it's the best offer I'll have.

For what it's worth, it is difficult to imagine that anyone who would suggest such a thing to someone about whom they purport to care is worth caring about back. This is a man who is counting on diminishing your self-esteem.