Why???

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by racquel

I didn't mean it was gay. My point is that actually being with a TS hooker certainly isn't any more gay than looking at shemale porn and masturbating every day for two years. If he didn't feel bad about all that porn then why did he freak out about the hooker? How can a guy who stares at cock and touches his cock every day have such a revulsion towards cock?

Dear, I agree with you totally... I was merely trying to be a bit funny... I guess I ain't a succesful comedian :-(

But seriously, I have no idea, what's truly going on in guys' minds. In many ways I have always found it easier to get a glimpse of sanity from what's going on in the transsexual mind and I guess that's why I prefer transsexual friends... because they seem to be more logical in that special Asian emotional way that I adore so completely and that has beecome part of my own mindset.

As you said somewhere above, the fascination of cock is apparently a problem for most men. The question of being gay returns constantly, and I guess it always will. Neither you nor I can really do much more (which is important enough) than explaining the mechanisms of gender-orientation versus sexual orientation and patiently repeat the facts of all these COMPLICATED matters.

It's repetitive and tirering, but I guess it's necessary.

The gays have spent 40 years making their case - all we can do now is to start making a worthy trans*case...