Married but into shemales?

[frenchie]

Am I glad I found this board...

It can be a tad lonessome out there...for a man with such delicate and peculiar tastes...

but one cannot escape or hide from what one is...or becomes...

and since there is no easy way out...

one might as well enjoy the ride, because a journey it is... with no certainties, no assurances, no results guaranteed, and in the end with no other purpose ou anything in particular to be achieved or conquered, just a journey, a ride of self awareness...

There is no beginning or ending point, each one to deal with the choices made, taylor made challenges, action, reaction...

like an 8, the journey is endless


thank you all for your insight, thank you beckett20, Vanillas, racquel...


as for me, I recently came out of a relationship, the leitmotif being me coming clear about my love and fascination with transsexualim, transgenderism, androgyny... but was it the main reason? doubtfull, although it certailnly did play a role... In my opinion, based on the outcome of this experience, secrets help killing a relation, particularly because they undermine the emotional strings, or strenghts that bond two people together...maybe after marriage bonds become somewhat different, sturdier, where a lie, even a white one cannot breach... we never got that far.


Can it be denied that desire, sex, even it's abstinence... are a structural driving force? I don't think it can... so for a heterossexual surely a fantasy with a transexual involves or represents to a greater or lesser degree a sexual experiment... could it be otherwise? doubtfull, can it go beyhond that, YES ... at least it does for me.



can we escape or hide from what we are...or became?

like an 8, the journey is endless...

[charlietwobeans]

It happened to me. I have been married for some time, but I could never shake my desires for shemales. I strayed (as my other posts will attest) and my wife found out. Betrayal is an ugly think - I hate myself for what I've done, and try every day to re-commit myself to her.

So, I am trying very hard not to stray anymore, and I am thankful for this forum to re-live my good times, recall my bad times, and try to strike an appropriate balance between my loves and my desires.

[tamar]

I have a married man for one of my lovers, he gets away when he can, i have to share him with his wife.

[SheMustBeDirty]

Well I do not know how open minded your wife is but if you love her and she loves you, maybe you two can indulge in it together.

Who says a nice shemale can't spice up your sex life with your wife. You can have the best of both worlds, your tgirl fantasy and the love of your wife and support of knowing you still have your fantasy.

My boyfriend likes tgirls and I think it's hot too. I think we're going to try a threesome soon.

You never know. Eventually though, she is going to find out. When she does it's going to hurt more than you may be able to imagine. If you love her, be honest.

That's just what I would do.

[tamar]

I would like to share my bf with his wife but she is such a bitch. One of my great thrills was meeting at party when I still had her husband's cum inside my puss, and she never knew. I wonder if she knows what he is thinking about when they have sex!

[charlietwobeans]

Originally Posted by tamar

I would like to share my bf with his wife but she is such a bitch. One of my great thrills was meeting at party when I still had her husband's cum inside my puss, and she never knew. I wonder if she knows what he is thinking about when they have sex!

Reminds me of the time I was speaking to my wife on the phone, lying to her and telling her I was at a "friendly meeting in town". She asked to speak to the person I was working with, so I rolled over in bed and handed the phone to my Tgirl lover who handled it like a pro.

Whew!

[gugnius]

I would like to have a date with TS... Write me if you are interested.. I'm tall, 24yo brown eyes and hair...Please contact with me

[knewbi]

Married here too. I am Bi and love the way women look and feel But I do love a nice cock and a shemale would fit my fantasies perfectly. Have had a number of guys to play with but always feel that I am missing out without a shemale experience. I will some day. That is a given. And perhaps the fantasy is better than reality but I really would love trying the reality of it all.

[jo1079]

Originally Posted by tamar

I would like to share my bf with his wife but she is such a bitch. One of my great thrills was meeting at party when I still had her husband's cum inside my puss, and she never knew. I wonder if she knows what he is thinking about when they have sex!

Ok im married and have a idea my husband is msging a ladyboy in thailand and is keeping it from me and i really welcome the idea because i love him and want to see him happy and it kinda turns me on thinking of having a 3some with him and a shemale. but if i was to approach him what should i say?? how would u like to be approached?? honestly i dont like being lied to and his gonna loose me if he keeps being so secretive about his mobile phones... can u help me please??

[Translover Jonny]

I have been interested in shemales for at least 15 years but i was stupid enough to think that i would pass. So what did I do I married a girl like we guys are supposed to do. We lived together for many years but i was never really happy because i couldn?t let go of my fascination for shemales. The other stupid thing i did was that i never told my wife about it, I?m divorced today and now I can at least be honest with my self. I regret that I wasn?t honest to my self right from the start it was not very nice against my wife either! So be honest thats my advice to you