Married but into shemales?

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by silverback

I'm very grateful to have found this forum, as it has helped me see that I'm not a total freak for loving shemales.

I'm straight, married with a son, but have been into shemales for the last 10 years or so, since long before I met my wife.

She doesn't know, and neither does anyone else....and they never will if I can avoid it.

I fantasize about meeting the TS of my dreams one day, but don't really want to cheat on my wife - in short I'm a bit conflicted. How many other guys are in my situation? Do you have any advice for me?

Fortunately I live in a place where the only shemales around are some not very attractive 'professional girls' so I haven't been tempted to stray and I'm still a virgin (so to speak).

I know everyone comes here to vent...but if you ever want a female pov on anything, feel free to ask me...you have all helped me out a bunch and I appreciate it so much

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

I know everyone comes here to vent...but if you ever want a female pov on anything, feel free to ask me...you have all helped me out a bunch and I appreciate it so much

You should make a thread for questions to you imconfused, mabey - Your questions a female point of view on shemales. - just a suggestion.
I have one - how would my gf feel if she found out i like shemales, how would she or her feelings change towards me.
I now you cant really answer for my gf but maybe you would have an idea, since you've been through it yourself.

[shemalesurgeon]

Maybe this will help buddy! The fact that im not bad looking and that i live in south florida where there are lots of shemales, i have been fortunate to meet many shemales. What i have realized over the years is that the real life experiences were dissapointing next to what i had fantasized behind the computer screen! Ofcourse not everyone will be the same as me but just keep that in mind!
My next goal is to go to Thailand so i can experience a ladyboy!

[tlover]

Originally Posted by shemalesurgeon

Maybe this will help buddy! The fact that im not bad looking and that i live in south florida where there are lots of shemales, i have been fortunate to meet many shemales. What i have realized over the years is that the real life experiences were dissapointing next to what i had fantasized behind the computer screen! Ofcourse not everyone will be the same as me but just keep that in mind!
My next goal is to go to Thailand so i can experience a ladyboy!

Your right there ive been with some normal girls were ive fantizesd about them for ages and when it came to the real thing it was a big let down.
Sometimes the fantasy is much bigger and better than real life, no doubt its the same with tgirls.
However the fantasy for me is now so great i need to try it, i cannot go to my grave without the expereance, life is for living, if it's not so great in reality so what, at least i can say i gave it a go.
The only regret in life ive ever really had is to regret the things i haven't done, not the things i have.

[Imconfused]

I don't know how "into" shemales my boyfriend is but if he fantasizes about being with one someday, I can tell you this...I know he would take the chance to do it because one...well He got a letter from an ex girlfriend about 5 months ago and also a porno dvd ( not shemales it was called back door bangers though) so anyways Being at home during the day, she had left it between the screen door and the door and she didn't seal it all the way. I saw her put it there and when she left I looked at it. Well when my boyfriend got home (I was sleeping) he opened it and obviously read it because the number she left in there, was then on the cell phone bill...several times. Then once while he was trying to call her..I over heard..I asked him about it and he said she had left a note blah blah blah and no name so he wanted to know who it was. I don't believe his excuse, (plus he has a pic of them kissing under lock and key) so I feel that if he ever did come across a shemale, if he hasn't already, he would take the chance...If that ever becomes the case, Yes I will leave him. I can accept that he has fantasies about shemales and he jerks off to shemales, but I can not accept him physically being with one. (as that would be cheating on me ) I love Nicholas Cage but if he ever came to my front door naked the most I would do is ask for an autograph maybe say damn then move on. but not before I got my camera...lol
Where we met there were a few shemales in the area...so he could have already... that's different we weren't "together" yet.

[mobiryder]

all in due time my friend... dont do what you dont want to do.. its perfectly healthy to fantasize... life is short, enjoy it to the fullest!

[Studio Audience]

i think about this a lot. i want to have an experience (no real penetration, just sucking and jerking) but im conflicted morally and emotionally.