Married but into shemales?

My wife knows about my desire for a shemale. She asked me if that was my ideal threesoe, myself, my wife, and a ladyboy. I said yes. She knows everything and she told me about her desire to be with another woman. I encouraged her to look into it. She even surfed the web lastnight for shemale pics. She admitted to me lastnight she had registered at a swingers site. I did not know nor did i hint that i wanted to. I was shoocked to say the least. I think this may be the beginning of a spicy new chapter in our sex life. I won't try anything unless she does it with me. It all boils down to this, she saved my life three years ago and i married her. I love her and want to have a family someday. So if she wants the two of us to have a wild sexlife, i will journey with her, hand in hand.


Bottom line, be honest, don't hide things, because trust is key to a lasting, fullfilling relationship.

[Vanillas]

I've already posted on this thread but the following comes from a different angle.

As several others have posted, EVERYBODY has sexual fantasies. One of Rodney Dangerfield's jokes involved a married couple having sex. Suddenly they stop simultaneously. Then the husband asks his wife, "What's the matter, you can't think of anybody either?".

I don't believe anything can be wrong with something so ubiquitous. I won't presume to tell you how you should view this but, for me, fantasizing about T-Girls (or sheep or circus midgets or whatever), while having sex with your wife, is NOT cheating on her. Also, not every fantasy has to be realized. It has been said that sex is more about what goes on between the ears than between the legs. It seems to me that this is one area where the fantasy may well be preferable to the probable guilt, the fear of your wife finding out, the possibility of contracting an STD, not to mention the disappointment of unmet expectations, inherent in the real thing.

[merelypink]

buy your wife a strap on!!!

[daywalker267]

i've been with my girlfriend for about two years now and she knows about my "fetish". i was just sick of hiding it, and i felt i had to tell someone - so i told her. she was surprisingly okay with it, as she normally seems kinda close minded about things.

however, we aven't talked about it since and she doesn't like it when i bring it up, so i feel i can't. i still jack off to lots of shemale porn, but she doesn't know. i've asked her to wear a strap on but she doesn't seem too up for the idea. it's hard to know how to apprach the subject because i do love her but somedays i worry that one day my lust and frustration will get the better of me - i've been into shemales since i was 16, infact the first time i ever jacked off was over a tranny.

but its good to know that i'm not the only one in this kind of situation.