is flirting with a shemale same as flirting with a girl??

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by racquel

But if you go will you stand on your own, and leave on your own, and go home and cry and want to die?

That's how a night on the town usually pans out for me! It's as if you know me...

[baasje43]

Being happy to have met with several tgirls in my life, I can say that there are fundamentally two types of tgirls. And as it seems not much in between.

The first group is assertive and will immediately respond to any interesting smile, and come over to you in order to hunt you down. Sometimes they even are no real tgirls but crossdressers. They always are well endowed and functionally good sex.

The second group is shy. You sometimes find them just outside the special pubs, and they are blushing as soon as you look at them. Most of them are exquisite slender and some do not have a big cock, some do have one though. But they are unsecure of your reaction on the fact that they have a penis, wanting to be seen as a real girl. Just try to reassure them as soon as possible. Just say: "I know..." can do it.

The two tgirls I live with now are both of the second category. But I had extatic experiences with some of the 1st one (TY Bianca...)

Bottomline is: show your appreciation, and love them the way they feel good by.

[racquel]

baasje43 -

So you're saying that all tgirls are either super-horny or super-shy?

I have met a lot of crossdressers who fit into those categories, but even then it's going too far to generalize them all like that. I know plenty of non-shy tgirls and crossdressers who are pretty horny and far from shy, but they're certainly not "responding" to everyone and "hunting people down" in clubs. They're just out being social.

And about the OP, it sure would be nice if more people treated us like girls and talked to us like girls. Apparently there is some kind of stereotype that trannys are just horny guys in skirts and it's OK to walk right up to them and say you want to fuck. It's sad, and the last thing we need is people giving out advice that half the tgirls out there are super-horny and you just need to make it known that you're ready for action.

I would have to say that the average tgirl is even more complex, difficult to understand and unpredictable than the average GG.

[rockabilly]

Hi Racquel , Tgirls may be more complex but i think in the end they want respect and love and above all acceptance. Some of guys can be pretty complex too Talk to you later

[racquel]

That's true. I just meant that most guys understand that they don't have girls completely figured out, and it's just as silly to assume you have tgirls completely figured out and can distill their feelings/motivation down to two fundamental types. I'm not one of those people who thinks profiling is terrible -- to the contrary, people can be extremely predictable and to deny that is ignorant. But you can certainly go too far.

And the bottom line is that most tgirls will be pretty offended if you're treating them as less than a GG.

[rockabilly]

If you can't understand that Tgirls feel that they ARE GIRLS and treat them accordingly then maybe you shouldn't aproach one . If all you want is a quick lay get an escort and leave the tgirls to those that really love them. Nobody likes to be used and heartbroken.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by racquel

That's true. I just meant that most guys understand that they don't have girls completely figured out, and it's just as silly to assume you have tgirls completely figured out and can distill their feelings/motivation down to two fundamental types. .

Gee Raquel, I'm still waiting for the guy that has me figured out. Maybe my expectations are too high?
Take it easy on this newbe. I think he shows promise.

[rockabilly]

Thanks , I'm just looking for Ms. Right... the tgirl that i can love and be loved by. I enjoy posting here and flirting It was nice to hear from you.

[Darha]

All of yours are lucky, I really want to meet a shemale in person; i waste an opportunity to meet a trasvestite; and my wacky hobbies are blocked my chances to meet hers.

I recopilate all your experience and when i have the chance, i suppose that the shemales feels the same that girls, or not?¿?