Problem of what to do with my cock in bed.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm going to complicate things a little.. since that's what I do lol

There are two typs of guys who dats us. The ones who know before they meet us (like on a TS dating site or escort ad or craigslise etc.) and the guys who don't know when they meet us, but get past it and do it.

In either case the penis becomes the point of attention for the guy. Guy#1 wants to see it, touch it, and feel it. Guy #2 wants to pretend it isn't there, wants it hidden, avoids even accidental contact/exposure.

Neither of these scenarios is ideal for me (and probably most). For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe. That is to say, I'm a sexual being from head to toe, but none of it is any more/less sexual than the rest. The penis simply is... I can gain pleasure from it, but it's just not really that important.

OTOH - guy #2 makes me feel like I should be ashamed of my body and my history. Freaking out because the bits popped outta the panties during a throw-down screwing does not make me feel sexy or particularly safe. Having to be extra aware of the position of my junk is a bother during sex.

There isn't an easy answer, and probably the best thing is to go with guy #1, have him gobble it down a bit and then instruct him in the various ways your body receives pleasure. Only the thickest, most unworthy, selfish goober of a man won't get what you are doing and eagerly follow your lead.

I guess I fall in your first category, and yes, I enjoy my woman's penis - just as I used to enjoy my woman's vagina.

I don't consider it a crime to enjoy her sexual organs - I am aware, however, that for quite a few trans-girls the penis is "something not to focus on". They still scream their orgasms out, though, and when they slowly realize, that their penis is NOT a sign of their masculinity they tend to loosen up a little bit. I kid you not!

Transsexuality happens between the ears and not between the legs. And there's no need to mistake a penis for an unworthy masculine attribute. It can be just as feminine as well.

Ponder this... her penis can make her even more of a woman...

H

[ocinteeni]

ya i agree with hank, i dont feel like a girls dick makes her masculine in any way. So is the reason you dont like your dick played with, because it makes you feel masculine? (directed to Anna, Bionca, and any other tgirl)

[transjen]

Not sure i can put this in words but i'll give it a try, To start with i never felt masculine in whole life, Yes when i was born i had a penis and the DR declared me to be male but i always felt female, So having a penis and having it played with never made me feel masculine the reason i hated having one and having it touched made me feel even more like a freak it didn't belong there, I never should have had a penis to start with and the sight of it just reminded me that some where someone screwed up big time because i was a girl not a boy, So for me it was more of it didn't belong there and i shouldn't have had one to start with. Ok i probaly have everyone even more confused now Jennifer

[ocinteeni]

hmmm, alright I see where you are coming from with that, the penis just reminds you that your original body never matched your original mind, I guess?

But even with that explanation it still seems like the penis is equated to being a boy and the vagina is equated to being a girl. I'm sure we all agree that despite what you had down there you always felt feminine and people like me and hank, as well as every one else on this forum thought of you and other tgirls as feminine, with or without a dick.

So the dilema still remains, guys like us see your girls dick as adding even more to your beuty and you girls seem to maybe see it as an abnormality?

Please correct me if I am wrong in my interpretation, this really is important for me to wrap my mind around

[slipper]

Just enjoy what ya got, enjoy who you're with, enjoy the moment... AND, get on with it!!! Do what feels good that both consent to!

[new believer]

I guess I would rather be the one to be pleasured.Getting a TG off might be a little difficult , but that would depend on the individual. I admit that I would more than likely be one who would hold,squeeze and gently jerk a she male cock for a moment or so out of sheer curiosity. With one or two others,I might take it in my mouth and suck lightly for another minute or so, but I'd freeze right after having my curiosity tweeked and probably go limp. Guess I'm just a nervous nellie huh? But I know I wouldn't freak out or go ape on her. I just don't know if I could ever rod her back door.

[Naked Freedom]

i would like to play with the cock a lot but if she told me not to i can pretty well comply