Problem of what to do with my cock in bed.

[Bionca]

I'm going to complicate things a little.. since that's what I do lol

There are two typs of guys who dats us. The ones who know before they meet us (like on a TS dating site or escort ad or craigslise etc.) and the guys who don't know when they meet us, but get past it and do it.

In either case the penis becomes the point of attention for the guy. Guy#1 wants to see it, touch it, and feel it. Guy #2 wants to pretend it isn't there, wants it hidden, avoids even accidental contact/exposure.

Neither of these scenarios is ideal for me (and probably most). For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe. That is to say, I'm a sexual being from head to toe, but none of it is any more/less sexual than the rest. The penis simply is... I can gain pleasure from it, but it's just not really that important.

OTOH - guy #2 makes me feel like I should be ashamed of my body and my history. Freaking out because the bits popped outta the panties during a throw-down screwing does not make me feel sexy or particularly safe. Having to be extra aware of the position of my junk is a bother during sex.

There isn't an easy answer, and probably the best thing is to go with guy #1, have him gobble it down a bit and then instruct him in the various ways your body receives pleasure. Only the thickest, most unworthy, selfish goober of a man won't get what you are doing and eagerly follow your lead.

[tim4lb]

I have definitely met a fewt-girls who didn't enjoy having their cock played with, they felt self-conscious, but the majority of ladyboys I have met really enjoyed having their cock played with, sucked etc.

[tslust]

I don't really mind if a guy plays with my cock, I'd even let him suck me off if he wants. Just as long as he doesn't expect me to top him.

Originally Posted by tslust

I don't really mind if a guy plays with my cock, I'd even let him suck me off if he wants. Just as long as he doesn't expect me to top him.

Tslust, would you give me some of your ass in my face? I hope you will top me and shove your gaping butthole into my face.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Panty Cock

Tslust, would you give me some of your ass in my face? I hope you will top me and shove your gaping butthole into my face.

mmmmmm Ya, I'd let you eat my gaping ass while I suck your cock, getting it hard and ready to go again.

Originally Posted by tslust

mmmmmm Ya, I'd let you eat my gaping ass while I suck your cock, getting it hard and ready to go again.

I could go for days with you tslust. Your open asshole tastes so good. Ican't get enough it. Lick it to the left, lick to the right. Lick it all night and stick a few fingers up your wide open back door. Come on and give my cock your good sucking. I want to feel your face and cheeks rub against my hard veiny cock. As I stick 2, no maybe 1 more finger up your ass. Yep another one fits with my tongue licking you up. I am so horny with my cock on your lips, as I finger fuck you! I am so bad.

Originally Posted by Panty Cock

I could go for days with you tslust. Your open asshole tastes so good. Ican't get enough it. Lick it to the left, lick to the right. Lick it all night and stick a few fingers up your wide open back door. Come on and give my cock your good sucking. I want to feel your face and cheeks rub against my hard veiny cock. As I stick 2, no maybe 1 more finger up your ass. Yep another one fits with my tongue licking you up. I am so horny with my cock on your lips, as I finger fuck you! I am so bad.

Do you need some dick? do you need some dick right now? Do you need me to pull my fingers out of you so we can go fuck?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Panty Cock

I could go for days with you tslust. Your open asshole tastes so good. Ican't get enough it. Lick it to the left, lick to the right. Lick it all night and stick a few fingers up your wide open back door. Come on and give my cock your good sucking. I want to feel your face and cheeks rub against my hard veiny cock. As I stick 2, no maybe 1 more finger up your ass. Yep another one fits with my tongue licking you up. I am so horny with my cock on your lips, as I finger fuck you! I am so bad.

mmmmm Your tongue feels soo good. I just can't get enough of your cock, I guess you know that already.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm going to complicate things a little.. since that's what I do lol

There are two typs of guys who dats us. The ones who know before they meet us (like on a TS dating site or escort ad or craigslise etc.) and the guys who don't know when they meet us, but get past it and do it.

In either case the penis becomes the point of attention for the guy. Guy#1 wants to see it, touch it, and feel it. Guy #2 wants to pretend it isn't there, wants it hidden, avoids even accidental contact/exposure.

Neither of these scenarios is ideal for me (and probably most). For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe. That is to say, I'm a sexual being from head to toe, but none of it is any more/less sexual than the rest. The penis simply is... I can gain pleasure from it, but it's just not really that important.

OTOH - guy #2 makes me feel like I should be ashamed of my body and my history. Freaking out because the bits popped outta the panties during a throw-down screwing does not make me feel sexy or particularly safe. Having to be extra aware of the position of my junk is a bother during sex.

There isn't an easy answer, and probably the best thing is to go with guy #1, have him gobble it down a bit and then instruct him in the various ways your body receives pleasure. Only the thickest, most unworthy, selfish goober of a man won't get what you are doing and eagerly follow your lead.

I guess I fall in your first category, and yes, I enjoy my woman's penis - just as I used to enjoy my woman's vagina.

I don't consider it a crime to enjoy her sexual organs - I am aware, however, that for quite a few trans-girls the penis is "something not to focus on". They still scream their orgasms out, though, and when they slowly realize, that their penis is NOT a sign of their masculinity they tend to loosen up a little bit. I kid you not!

Transsexuality happens between the ears and not between the legs. And there's no need to mistake a penis for an unworthy masculine attribute. It can be just as feminine as well.

Ponder this... her penis can make her even more of a woman...

H

[ocinteeni]

ya i agree with hank, i dont feel like a girls dick makes her masculine in any way. So is the reason you dont like your dick played with, because it makes you feel masculine? (directed to Anna, Bionca, and any other tgirl)

[transjen]

Not sure i can put this in words but i'll give it a try, To start with i never felt masculine in whole life, Yes when i was born i had a penis and the DR declared me to be male but i always felt female, So having a penis and having it played with never made me feel masculine the reason i hated having one and having it touched made me feel even more like a freak it didn't belong there, I never should have had a penis to start with and the sight of it just reminded me that some where someone screwed up big time because i was a girl not a boy, So for me it was more of it didn't belong there and i shouldn't have had one to start with. Ok i probaly have everyone even more confused now Jennifer

[ocinteeni]

hmmm, alright I see where you are coming from with that, the penis just reminds you that your original body never matched your original mind, I guess?

But even with that explanation it still seems like the penis is equated to being a boy and the vagina is equated to being a girl. I'm sure we all agree that despite what you had down there you always felt feminine and people like me and hank, as well as every one else on this forum thought of you and other tgirls as feminine, with or without a dick.

So the dilema still remains, guys like us see your girls dick as adding even more to your beuty and you girls seem to maybe see it as an abnormality?

Please correct me if I am wrong in my interpretation, this really is important for me to wrap my mind around

[slipper]

Just enjoy what ya got, enjoy who you're with, enjoy the moment... AND, get on with it!!! Do what feels good that both consent to!

[new believer]

I guess I would rather be the one to be pleasured.Getting a TG off might be a little difficult , but that would depend on the individual. I admit that I would more than likely be one who would hold,squeeze and gently jerk a she male cock for a moment or so out of sheer curiosity. With one or two others,I might take it in my mouth and suck lightly for another minute or so, but I'd freeze right after having my curiosity tweeked and probably go limp. Guess I'm just a nervous nellie huh? But I know I wouldn't freak out or go ape on her. I just don't know if I could ever rod her back door.