Are we willing to settle for less - just because she happens to be trans?

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

It is. But I find attraction radically drops when this happens. So, as much as I may admire and desire a gorgeous body and complexion, the personality can kill objectification in seconds.

I TOTALLY agree. Hot looks + lousy personality = no interest for me.

And I'm not saying that to be politically correct or to come off sounding like "the nice guy". The truth is looks are a turn-on for all of us. I think no one is denying that. We all can point to particular movie or TV stars or models or porn starlets or people we know in our daily lives and say "Yeah! Now THAT is hot to ME."

But in the end who REALLY wants to be with someone you can't TALK to? That you can't share COMMON interests with? That you can't just be around for a length of time and find comfort and fun simply by being in each other's company?

So, Skronk is right with a brilliant summation.
A bad personality absolutely can kill objectification in a second.