Does liking shemales make you gay?

[kilgoretrout]

I did not realize this site existed. I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused. While I love giving oral to a shemale, I am not interested in other males at all. I am still interested in females too.

It has caused some conflict for me.

I am not really sure what I am asking here as much as just putting forward a statement.

Thanks

[jared]

no. i'm straight

[Bionca]

This gets asked lots. So much so I have 2 brief answers...

1) Does it matter if it makes you gay? If so, why?

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

[kilgoretrout]

Bionca
I have run into transvestites in New Orleans. They do not appeal to me. I think I am attracted to the very feminine shemales.

I have no interest in dating a guy. But I am fascinated by ts girls. I have had the fortune to have three encounters - one with two. I immensely enjoyed it.

I have had a fear of going back to it. I don't know why. As I said, I did not have anything but the most positive of experiences.

And while I could never imagine myself unzipping a guys pants and taking him, there is something exciting about that surprise in the panties of a shemale lover.

But I am confused by it.

[ashenhurst]

i love t-girls but have never been with one yet
i think i will have to see an escort t-girl this year tofulfill my fantasy
i don't think it is gay as i don't fancy men i just like the idea of playing with cock on a girl that's all

[Amy]

To be gay you need an openly recognisable sexual attraction to male characteristics. And I mean the whole nine yards. A gay man won't be attracted to mtf transexuals because of the female characteristics they openly display. A BISEXUAL man may do, because he finds female and male characteristics sexually attractive.
Whether you consider yourself straight or bisexual also can tie in to how much respect you show for trans women as well. If you think of them as women, respecting their sense of gender identity, then you think of yourself as straight. if you think of them as something in-between, then you most likely at least partly see yourself as bisexual, whereas if you see them as men, well, I don't think anyone fits that definition of both being attracted to them and seeing them as men.

[kilgoretrout]

I think I fall into the camp that sees them as mostly females, but a bit different on at least one characteristic.

[TigerDragon]

Originally Posted by Amy

To be gay you need an openly recognisable sexual attraction to male characteristics. And I mean the whole nine yards. A gay man won't be attracted to mtf transexuals because of the female characteristics they openly display. A BISEXUAL man may do, because he finds female and male characteristics sexually attractive.
Whether you consider yourself straight or bisexual also can tie in to how much respect you show for trans women as well. If you think of them as women, respecting their sense of gender identity, then you think of yourself as straight. if you think of them as something in-between, then you most likely at least partly see yourself as bisexual, whereas if you see them as men, well, I don't think anyone fits that definition of both being attracted to them and seeing them as men.

Amy, you have described it, the way I view transexual girls. In their heart, mind and soul, they are without doubt a woman. I was so confused for so long, being attracted to a t/g?!! But, you are so right. You know within yourself if you are bi, gay, straight or a t/g lover! And, if it is not hurting yourself or anyone else...so what? Live and love.

[mrallen9898]

Originally Posted by Bionca

This gets asked lots. So much so I have 2 brief answers...

1) Does it matter if it makes you gay? If so, why?

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

You tell the truth; I've always felt a ladyboy, Tgirl, or shemale was 100% mentally a woman and treated them that way with respect and kindness just as you would a "so called" normal woman. Speaking frankly I've felt more loved by my Tgirl then by any woman.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Bionca

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women.
Are they women who have/had a penis,
or are they men with tits?

• You men will look at us as women who have/had a penis
• Your wife/girlfriend will look at us as men with tits

[i_love_shemales]

Originally Posted by kilgoretrout

I did not realize this site existed. I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused. While I love giving oral to a shemale, I am not interested in other males at all. I am still interested in females too.

It has caused some conflict for me.

I am not really sure what I am asking here as much as just putting forward a statement.

Thanks

I'm bi-sexual and I adore sucking cock so much and drinking cum but most of all and this might sound silly, one day I want to settle down with a woman. No, I won't get any cock behind her back because I'd never betray whoever I'm with. For some odd reason, when I'm in a relationship, I lose interest with porn because I feel as if that's another way of betrayl unless I know she likes porn. This has happened to me before, one relationship, I wasn't sure if she liked porn and I was afraid to ask and I never went near the stuff until after we broke up. That is why I know I'll stay away from cocks while I'm in a relationship - and other pussies as well.

Sorry to go off topic for a bit but I thought you might be interested in another way how the mind works for some people in a sexual manner.

[randolph]

It seems to me, that to be gay, you need to be attracted to someone that looks like yourself. Men attracted to men, women attracted to women. If a strait man is attracted to a transexual, its because he perseves her as a women. I doubt that gay men are attracted to transexuals, they want a man.
The fact that transexuals may/not have a penis seems secondary to the perception . This is similar to what Amy said.

[triumph65]

I just don't get this "Am I gay" feeling. Personally I try not to live my life as a label. I'm attracted to women and transsexuals and yet I don't see myself as gay, straight or bi, I just like who I like.

Just think how much better the world would be if we cut out all the bullshit.

[Dougcair]

I am straight and I love shemales! Thank god for these lovely ladies!

[diknut]

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

[smc]

Originally Posted by diknut

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

Now that's an unadmirable response to attention -- "knock them out" -- if ever I saw one. Beware!

Originally Posted by diknut

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

"Knock them out"? Why would you want to hurt them? I obviously can’t speak for everyone but I workout a lot and I am not offended if a gay man admires my physique. Last night my GF and I went to a bar with a gay and a lesbian couple and I had quite a few “admirers.” Of course it could be the Harley...

[The Conquistador]

No. A lady with a cock is like the embodiment of "opposites attract". It should not be there, but it is and it is very pleasing to look at. Think like magnetic levitation or a platypus. Or even an intricate animation with psychadelic colors like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCqZC...eature=related

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by kilgoretrout

I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused

It has caused some conflict for me.

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

But Jodie, you're presuming the OP reads, or reads the entire post. Meanwhile, other people read it and it spurs these inane threads.

[ila]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies.

Thanks.
I'm happy to give my perception and to entertain,
roughly in equal proportions!

[J Dizzle]

Hell no it's not gay, maybe a littlebi but thats just fun.
I lady

[alyssaluxor]

you are Gay! lol

uhmmm!



kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[smc]

Originally Posted by alyssaluxor

you are Gay! lol

uhmmm!



kisses
Alyssa Luxor

If I had the delightful opportunity to be in bed with you, Alyssa, and someone burst in and yelled, "smc, you're gay!," I would gladly embrace the label (assuming I was even paying attention to anything other than your absolute deliciousness). Who the hell cares about labels?!