Would a TS escorting rule out romance?

[sweetshemale18]

Melissa it is a valid question..and I think you should just let ppl give their answers.
They may be right or wrong according to you. But you need not correct them.
Infact you could be happy that so many ppl actually wanted to answer the question.
Besides you got to know about the opinions of so many people thats awesome right..

Originally Posted by sweetshemale18

Melissa it is a valid question..and I think you should just let ppl give their answers.
They may be right or wrong according to you. But you need not correct them.
Infact you could be happy that so many ppl actually wanted to answer the question.
Besides you got to know about the opinions of so many people thats awesome right..

Yea I wanted opinions to the question. When I hear judgments on what I do with my life they will get corrections, as you put it.

[randolph]

Dear Melissa.
As a male I hesitate to get involved in this discussion. However, I think the issue goes beyond tgirls. As a working tgirl, I suspect most of your clients are actually married men who are not getting what they want at home. how would there wives respond if they knew their husbands were being pleasured by you? I suspect they would want a divorce. Knowing their husband was paying for sex would be intolerable. We all know that when it comes to, sex men are idiots. Imagine Kennedy, Clinton and now Spitzer, the limbic system rules. Wives want to own their husbands and most men want to own their wives. I think possesion would also apply to a tgirl relationship.
I am ready to be flamed.

Those are excellent points and right on the money.

Most men are married and cheat but that's their business not mine. They get the erotic experience they yearn for with me and often come back for more.

As for my current bf he has no problem with what I do.

Let me also add these are the types of comments I was after not a moral indictment or personal attack on what I do.

Its pathetic that someone would view a person as less than a doctor lawyer or any other professional simply because she is an escort. Even more pathetic when it comes from anonymous sources.

[smolderingtemptress]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

Its pathetic that someone would view a person as less than a doctor lawyer or any other professional simply because she is an escort. Even more pathetic when it comes from anonymous sources.

And even more pathetic yet that someone who was once in a successful, legitimate career threw it all away to prostitute.

More comments from the man behind the curtain.

I traded in a dead end job for a true career I have thousands of fans who adore me as a woman artist and writer. Its comical you can't fathom that go ahead retort with some personal insult you only look more pathetic.

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

More comments from the man behind the curtain.

I traded in a dead end job for a true career I have thousands of fans who adore me as a woman artist and writer. Its comical you can't fathom that go ahead retort with some personal insult you only look more pathetic.

LMAO!!! Wait...wait...I have to come to Smoldering's defense because once again this is just TOO good to pass up. Tell you what, Ms. Ego Head Case, here's what no one can comically fathom...

If you actually have "thousands of fans" who adore you AS an artist and a writer (your exact words), then WHY the hell would you even NEED to work as an escort? Seriously, if you're a REAL writer or artist with "thousands of fans" then WHY do you need to have sex with strangers for cash? Not to mention, if you have such a large and committed fan base that is SO dedicated to following your creative work -- which in turn MUST give you some economic freedom -- then WHY would you also possibly jeopardize any loving relationship that you could pursue by being a sex worker?

Me, I just ask speaking as someone who actually HAS written things that have sold in the thousands (and thousands and thousands on top of that) and who HAS made a living as a professional writer. But a funny thing, while I was out at the bank cashing my checks, I don't recall ever needing to work as an escort on the side. Nor do I recall suddenly feeling an urgent need to screw around on someone that I was currently seeing. Why? Gee, maybe because actually having thousands of people purchase my work actually did allow me to pay the bills, which in turn allowed me to center my romantic focus on whoever I was seeing at the time.

So, who exactly are these "thousands of fans" adoring you? I just ask (and openly mock) considering that each of your posts contains the link to your web site, which in turn leads to your online blog. Yet I see that your latest blog entry generated a whopping ONE guy posting in the comments section.

Better still, if you have "thousands of fans" that adore you... I mean, that's a helluva lot of people who would DEFINITELY jump at a chance to see you or be with you... then why don't you explain to us all why you wrote in your blog only 3 weeks ago (quote):

My trip to Boston was so-so. The trip was loaded with guys jerking me around in one form or another, and this continues even back home in New Jersey. I have generally seen an increase in guys playing games, which as you know I call the dickhead factor. The dickhead factor (the ratio of people who call with impure motives, that is they have no real intention of dating) which I originally set at 50% and then adjusted to 75% is now at an all-time high of 90%.

Gee, claiming to have "thousands" of fans versus ONE guy visiting your blog and people now not even booking you.
Yeah, those numbers balance out... in a Twilight Zone dimension!

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

That's why this board is lame, because it tolerates this kind of conduct towards an established and revered member of the TS world.

LMAO!!!!!! Now you're a "revered" member of the TS world? You're suddenly a perceived LEADER in the TS world? Gee, that's rather laughable since it's coming from the very same person who previously has ranted that she would NOT help anyone coming up behind her or be supportive with advice or offer any help to a fellow TS. So, with an attitude as self-serving as yours, now you think you're "revered" by your fellow TS?

Well, why not?
Since you have imaginary fans, you might as well believe in imaginary adulation TOO

Originally Posted by smolderingtemptress

And even more pathetic yet that someone who was once in a successful, legitimate career threw it all away to prostitute.

Take note how this douchebag disappears on weekends. He will return on Monday, no doubt chime in from behind his anonymous profile on his work computer and assault me with More denigrating remarks. That's why this board is lame, because it tolerates this kind of conduct towards an established and revered member of the TS world.

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

Its pathetic that someone would view a person as less than a doctor, lawyer or any other professional simply because she is an escort.
Even more pathetic when it comes from anonymous sources.

LMAO! Wait, this is just TOO good to pass up!!!
"As less than a doctor, lawyer, or any other professional simply because she is an escort."

Melissa, I know you love to boast about what you do. I came to realize a while back that it's basically impossible to take anything you say serious simply because it's always just SO ridiculously "out there". But let me get this latest Melissa-ism straight: In terms of the working world... in terms of being recognized as a "professional"... NOW you are actually trying to rank being an escort side-by-side with being a DOCTOR???

Tell you what, let's run this one off, shall we?

To be a DOCTOR...

1) While everyone else is taking average High School classes,
you have to take A.P. (advanced placement) college level classes instead.
And you have to do well in them and then nail your SATs, scoring in the upper level,
to get yourself into a good Undergraduate College...

2) You then have to go through 4 years of Undergraduate College
(all the while making sure you still get nothing but TOP grades)...

3) You then have to pass the MCATS
(which are among the hardest exams on the face of the Earth)...

4) You then have to go through further years of Medical School...
(again making sure you get nothing but TOP grades)...

5) You then have to do Residency work at an established hospital,
working long and sleepless shifts around the clock...

And once you've done all of that and spent (on average these days) anywhere
between $225,000 to $250,000 just to get through the educational phase...

...Only then can you actually start doing your job, which is regarded by essentially every civilized culture in the world as one of the highest callings that any person could possibly pursue since your career is now centered on HELPING, PRESERVING, AND SAVING HUMAN LIVES.

Meanwhile, on the other end of the scale, to be an ESCORT...

...The ONLY job skill you need to know is how to lay in bed.
Which last time I checked, we all learned as infants.

So, you have GOT to be kidding me. In the most laughable moment yet, your king-sized ego is actually going to try and claim that being an escort ranks equal on the "professional" scale -- in terms of intellect, schooling, training and, perhaps most important of all, purpose in life -- to being a DOCTOR? You're actually going to try and claim that being an Escort deserves the same kind of "respect" from people you pass on the street as a DOCTOR?

You know, I had another post, but it will have to wait. That's because right now I can't see my keyboard and type because I'm wiping too many tears from my eyes from laughing sooooo hard over this one!

I can always count on you for an hour long diatribe on nothing. In reality, you want to kiss my lucious ass and suck my cock.

[fatbloke]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

I can always count on you for an hour long diatribe on nothing. In reality, you want to kiss my lucious ass and suck my cock.

seriously,i don't think he does,on the other hand i think you do

Originally Posted by CreativeMind

LMAO! Wait, this is just TOO good to pass up!!!
"As less than a doctor, lawyer, or any other professional simply because she is an escort."

Melissa, I know you love to boast about what you do. I came to realize a while back that it's basically impossible to take anything you say serious simply because it's always just SO ridiculously "out there". But let me get this latest Melissa-ism straight: In terms of the working world... in terms of being recognized as a "professional"... NOW you are actually trying to rank being an escort side-by-side with being a DOCTOR???

Tell you what, let's run this one off, shall we?

To be a DOCTOR...

1) While everyone else is taking average High School classes,
you have to take A.P. (advanced placement) college level classes instead.
And you have to do well in them and then nail your SATs, scoring in the upper level,
to get yourself into a good Undergraduate College...

2) You then have to go through 4 years of Undergraduate College
(all the while making sure you still get nothing but TOP grades)...

3) You then have to pass the MCATS
(which are among the hardest exams on the face of the Earth)...

4) You then have to go through further years of Medical School...
(again making sure you get nothing but TOP grades)...

5) You then have to do Residency work at an established hospital,
working long and sleepless shifts around the clock...

And once you've done all of that and spent (on average these days) anywhere
between $225,000 to $250,000 just to get through the educational phase...

...Only then can you actually start doing your job, which is regarded by essentially every civilized culture in the world as one of the highest callings that any person could possibly pursue since your career is now centered on HELPING, PRESERVING, AND SAVING HUMAN LIVES.

Meanwhile, on the other end of the scale, to be an ESCORT...

...The ONLY job skill you need to know is how to lay in bed.
Which last time I checked, we all learned as infants.

So, you have GOT to be kidding me. In the most laughable moment yet, your king-sized ego is actually going to try and claim that being an escort ranks equal on the "professional" scale -- in terms of intellect, schooling, training and, perhaps most important of all, purpose in life -- to being a DOCTOR? You're actually going to try and claim that being an Escort deserves the same kind of "respect" from people you pass on the street as a DOCTOR?

You know, I had another post, but it will have to wait. That's because right now I can't see my keyboard and type because I'm wiping too many tears from my eyes from laughing sooooo hard over this one!

You prove my point exactly, CreativeMind. You see me, and I assume any other woman in the sex industry, as a less valuable human being than a doctor. It took you an hour to make your fascist long-winded point, but you made it. Congratulations, you are part of the problem.

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

You prove my point exactly, CreativeMind. You see me, and I assume any other woman in the sex industry, as a less valuable human being than a doctor. It took you an hour to make your fascist long-winded point, but you made it. Congratulations, you are part of the problem.

Did you ACTUALLY read what you wrote?

Okay, let's run through these scenarios and try...TRY, Melissa...to actually imagine how the VAST majority of people and society as a whole would look at this.

1) You live in a small town, population a few thousand. People get sick all the time -- that's fact of life. So WHICH do you think the few thousand people want more of in their town? Doctors they can visit in an office or sex workers parading on the local street corner?

2) You live in a major city where (due to the sheer number of people that live tightly together in a close proximity) diseases -- as mild as a cold or flu or possibly something far more contagious and serious --can spread like wildfire. So which do you think a city needs more of? Doctors or escorts?

3) You're on a small tropical island. Seasonally they have to deal with assorted illnesses due to the tropical weather or they need medical assistance from when a bad storm hits and injures large numbers of people. Or just being an island paradise, they have tourists who accidentally give themselves a nasty cut on some coral while snorkeling, a cut so bad it requires stitching. So pop quiz again - which do you think the Island populace would rather have on hand? A Doctor or a hooker?

You want me to go on with examples?

Please, Melissa, you're just making this laughingly TOO easy now and just making yourself look TOO ridiculously stupid now...

[randolph]

Originally Posted by CreativeMind

LMAO! Wait, this is just TOO good to pass up!!!
"As less than a doctor, lawyer, or any other professional simply because she is an escort."

Melissa, I know you love to boast about what you do. I came to realize a while back that it's basically impossible to take anything you say serious simply because it's always just SO ridiculously "out there". But let me get this latest Melissa-ism straight: In terms of the working world... in terms of being recognized as a "professional"... NOW you are actually trying to rank being an escort side-by-side with being a DOCTOR???

Tell you what, let's run this one off, shall we?

To be a DOCTOR...

1) While everyone else is taking average High School classes,
you have to take A.P. (advanced placement) college level classes instead.
And you have to do well in them and then nail your SATs, scoring in the upper level,
to get yourself into a good Undergraduate College...

2) You then have to go through 4 years of Undergraduate College
(all the while making sure you still get nothing but TOP grades)...

3) You then have to pass the MCATS
(which are among the hardest exams on the face of the Earth)...

4) You then have to go through further years of Medical School...
(again making sure you get nothing but TOP grades)...

5) You then have to do Residency work at an established hospital,
working long and sleepless shifts around the clock...

And once you've done all of that and spent (on average these days) anywhere
between $225,000 to $250,000 just to get through the educational phase...

...Only then can you actually start doing your job, which is regarded by essentially every civilized culture in the world as one of the highest callings that any person could possibly pursue since your career is now centered on HELPING, PRESERVING, AND SAVING HUMAN LIVES.

Meanwhile, on the other end of the scale, to be an ESCORT...

...The ONLY job skill you need to know is how to lay in bed.
Which last time I checked, we all learned as infants.

So, you have GOT to be kidding me. In the most laughable moment yet, your king-sized ego is actually going to try and claim that being an escort ranks equal on the "professional" scale -- in terms of intellect, schooling, training and, perhaps most important of all, purpose in life -- to being a DOCTOR? You're actually going to try and claim that being an Escort deserves the same kind of "respect" from people you pass on the street as a DOCTOR?

You know, I had another post, but it will have to wait. That's because right now I can't see my keyboard and type because I'm wiping too many tears from my eyes from laughing sooooo hard over this one!

Com on man. Regardless of their "training" most of the time doctors are guessing how to treat someone. They are not much more that witch doctors.
A good escort knows how to treat her client. I suspect escort clients feel a lot better after wards that doctors clients.
We all know that the worlds oldest profession is.

Originally Posted by randolph

Com on man. Regardless of their "training" most of the time doctors are guessing how to treat someone. They are not much more that witch doctors.
A good escort knows how to treat her client. I suspect escort clients feel a lot better after wards that doctors clients.
We all know that the worlds oldest profession is.

More to the point, one's vocation does not define their worth. We are all equal in the eyes of the Lord.

However Hitler, and apparently CreativeMind, think otherwise.