Dislike of smales after masturbation?

[pickseed]

didn't read the other posts in this thread, fyi.

i've been in the same boat as you my friend. been with a shemale, and once i cum i've felt the feeling of.. what the fuck am i doing here with this person?
however. over time i've come to realize that it doesn't have anything to do with the 'type' of person you're with, and simply with the person you're with. "heterosexual" sex is just something that's been passed down over time because it's the only way to reproduce, and is totally natural. enjoying sex with someone of the opposite gender, while totally natural, is 'frowned' upon in normal society. just like many other things in life, things that you are 'supposed' to do, such as get married, have kids, etc.. are not actual life rules. they are man made rules that have been imposed upon everyone, and anyone who feels even the slightest differently is prone to succumb to shame and guilt. I am not in anyway different than you, in the sense that i am able to enjoy sexual pleasure with someone of the same sex (which is not 'normal', albeit i don't treat or imagine the other party as a 'man'.) while these facts remain, there is no ACTUAL reason to feel guilt/shame other than those imposed upon you by society in general. now, there are people who care enough about what others think of them to attempt to abolish any such thoughts and try and live a 'normal' life.. while others, accept who/what they are and embrace the things they truly care about and are passionate about. if you think about it, having a cock instead of a pussy is really not a ' BIG DEAL ' in terms of difference of sexuality. society (likely due to religion( different topic)) simply tells us so.

tired of typing, may add more later. also not proofread so i apologize for any retardedness in that paragraph.

[Percival]

Jeffery,
Ever since I was 12 I noticed a temporary low feeling after ejaculation, never understood it. With time you begin to remind yourself that it is merely for five minutes or so. As far as feelings of regret after an encounter, be it female or shemale, in my opinion it always depends on who the girl is. When it's a girl you adore, even though you're drained (and I hate that feeling!) you long to hold her and talk and laugh and share things for hours. When you don't care for her, instantly you realize what an idiot you've been and you want to leave---what my friend Lenny used to call a "runaway case." That's why it's really important to think your encounters through beforehand. I've noticed that my shemale experiences (which have been few) have been identical. I felt great with the ones I was proud to have been with and really liked and foolish after the ones that were obviously poor judgement on my part. I've found that shemales can really genuinely like you (and vice verse) in spite of the dubious way that you may have met them, and I think that keeps that "low feeling" to a minimum.

[sowman]

I was the same way. Its totally normal but you do become more comfortable over time.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by sowman

I was the same way. Its totally normal but you do become more comfortable over time.

Sure, we have probably all experienced post-orgasmic regrets... how ever, if it consistantly is when with a transsexual woman, a pattern is emerging that should be taken seriously. I never had any such feelings when with a T-girl. I had it on other occasions, though.

My point is pretty straight-forward, and I sense that the initial poster has a problem with his attraction to T-girls that he needs to deal with before engaging in further sex with them - both for his and her sake.

It cannot just be explained away as a matter of no consequences.

Unless we're talking of pro-girls here (hard as it sounds, since they have feelings as every one else - but they chose a path) I totally believe that we socalled T-girl lovers have a particular obligation to honesty - to our partners and to our selves.

Transsexual women again and again meet emotional disappointment, so the least we men can do is to at least know our selves before we engage in intimate activities with the ladies.

Peace!

H