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#1
07-31-2008
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Jim's Dilemma
What is this Psychodrama? Role playing?
Example: Jim is a son to his father Mathew (my boy) Jim is husband to his wife Sweetie (C'mon honey!) Jim is a father to his son Jack (dad!) Jim is a buddy to his friend Jacob! (dude) Again, Jim is an employee to his boss Jaguar (Idiot!) Jim is "sweetheart" to his secret love, Janet (Aaaaaha!) Jim is "bastard" to his ex lover Amanda! (that lying scoundrel) If Jim is so many, then who is he to himself?  Just me???How does he manage or handle so many roles?
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Your life is unique, cherish it. Do something with your life. Last edited by sesame; 07-31-2008 at 07:31 PM. 
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08-01-2008
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i am new to this page too and looking for man woman or tgirl lol
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#3
08-01-2008
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There is some role-playing involved - yes. Most of Jim's roles are probably in harmony with eachother, so his conflict and anxiety would be found within the roles that are not in harmony (like husband and secret lover). Having a dialogue in a safe place between the two roles can help to twease out an authentic relationship between the two, or help to better define one or the other, or even help to end a role that is causing problems. This absolutely helped me to integrate my past as a boy/man and my life as a woman as well as figure out how I internalized being a "boy" with the identity of a "girl".
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08-01-2008
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U guys are light years above my "pay grade"... cannot follow all that psycho therapeutic stuff... but that's just ME! To me transsexual issues have always been and will always be what I can relate to on a personal level / and to me that's "hands on" literally. When I let my fingers run over her back in the morning and she turns in bed, opens her eyes and smiles at me, opens her arms and we kiss for ever...
Sure, let me at some time do my PhD in all this, but the important thing to me is all the love I meet. Blended in with all the pain. The combined beauty of transsexuality as I've met it. Less than three meters from here lies the most amazing woman - so excuse me for not just dealing with academics :-) Her pleasure and smile is 1000 times more important ;-) Gotta run... Peace! H
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- I cherish the fact that the girls I date are braver than I Last edited by hankhavelock; 08-01-2008 at 04:26 PM.
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08-01-2008
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I adore you Hank
 It's rather like when your friend said she needed to accept her masculinity first. I just did mine with a therapist.
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#7
08-01-2008
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Hanky the happyboy
Hank is the happiest man that ever walked on earth.
He is full of joy, most of the time. It seems to me that happiness is spreading from him like fragrance in all directions. 
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#8
08-02-2008
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 Who prescribes the 'mones? Is it the therapist or some other doc? A therapist is some sort of a psychiatrist, I think?
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