Early Experiences - What turned you on?

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Originally Posted by Boner

She is cute. I can't say I ever paid much attention to Paramore but I like the girls of Fifth Harmony a lot, especially Normani. It makes me feel like a dirty old man

Yes, I know Fifth Harmony. They were in one of my classes last semester… Sorry, bad joke…

Seriously, it’s OK to like whoever. Fifth Harmony ARE really cute. I looked them up and they are all over 18. Normani is 21. I bet most of the women we post pics of on this site are like 18-25. Do a search for “celebrity age differences” and you’ll find that it’s not uncommon for there to be a 20 year or greater age difference for couples. Often the man is older but not always. Demi Moore, JLo, and Madonna immediately come to mind. One who surprised me was Dick Van Dyke (45 year age difference). My feeling is if both partners are over 18 and there’s no sort of “influence” or “coercion” (like that teacher who ran away with his student earlier this year) it’s nobody’s business.

There’s someone I workout with now and then who’s well into his 50’s. He’s in great shape, a really nice guy, owns a company, and looks 20 years younger. He used to be a bodybuilder. His girlfriend is 25.

Anyway, regarding celebrities, literally anything goes because it’s not a real relationship. And you can be a fan of their work or appreciate their talent. I know a woman in her 60’s that can’t stop gushing over Justin Bieber. She’s a very nice person, loves music, is happily married, and a grandmother. I think it’s harmless and cute.

The only time it’s a problem is when it crosses the line and someone becomes a “stalker.” That’s entirely different and can involve a fan of any age. I think of the murders of John Lennon, Selena (not Gomez), Rebecca Schaeffer, and last summer, Christina Grimmie. I think even David Letterman had a female "fan" that believed she was his wife or something. There was a 50 year old man that wanted to marry Miley Cyrus and kept showing up at autograph signings (she was like 14 or 15). I believe her family got a restraining order. Miley also has a “fan” in his 40’s or 50’s that has god knows how many tattoos of her and I think constantly contacts her. All of that is bad of course and not typical of how most fans are.

My wife’s “celebrity crush” is Jason Statham. I’m sure she would leave me for him…

She’s also a fan of Paramore. When they were on James Corden earlier this summer, I was in my den working. She said “Your girlfriend’s going to be on…”

[Boner]

Originally Posted by a9127

Yes, I know Fifth Harmony. They were in one of my classes last semester… Sorry, bad joke…

Seriously, it’s OK to like whoever. Fifth Harmony ARE really cute. I looked them up and they are all over 18. Normani is 21. I bet most of the women we post pics of on this site are like 18-25. Do a search for “celebrity age differences” and you’ll find that it’s not uncommon for there to be a 20 year or greater age difference for couples. Often the man is older but not always. Demi Moore, JLo, and Madonna immediately come to mind. One who surprised me was Dick Van Dyke (45 year age difference). My feeling is if both partners are over 18 and there’s no sort of “influence” or “coercion” (like that teacher who ran away with his student earlier this year) it’s nobody’s business.

There’s someone I workout with now and then who’s well into his 50’s. He’s in great shape, a really nice guy, owns a company, and looks 20 years younger. He used to be a bodybuilder. His girlfriend is 25.

Anyway, regarding celebrities, literally anything goes because it’s not a real relationship. And you can be a fan of their work or appreciate their talent. I know a woman in her 60’s that can’t stop gushing over Justin Bieber. She’s a very nice person, loves music, is happily married, and a grandmother. I think it’s harmless and cute.

The only time it’s a problem is when it crosses the line and someone becomes a “stalker.” That’s entirely different and can involve a fan of any age. I think of the murders of John Lennon, Selena (not Gomez), Rebecca Schaeffer, and last summer, Christina Grimmie. I think even David Letterman had a female "fan" that believed she was his wife or something. There was a 50 year old man that wanted to marry Miley Cyrus and kept showing up at autograph signings (she was like 14 or 15). I believe she finally got a restraining order. Miley also has a “fan” in his 40’s or 50’s that has god knows how many tattoos of her and I think constantly contacts her. All of that is bad of course and not typical of how most fans are.

My wife’s “celebrity crush” is Jason Statham. I’m sure she would leave me for him…

She’s also a fan of Paramore. When they were on James Corden earlier this summer, I was in my den working. She said “Your girlfriend’s going to be on…”

I was kind of kidding when I said I felt like a dirty old man who liked 5H but I know there's no way I could have a real relationship with someone that young. Sure I'd like to have sex with a 21 year old and maybe we could be great friends but I'm not sure there'd enough of a common basis for a lasting relationship. The French have a rule of thumb where someone is too young for you if there less than half your age plus seven. That'd put a lot of my favorite performers out of reach

This is all in fun anyway so who cares!

Anyway, while I really like the Normani and the other girls, I've always had a thing for older women too, especially growing up. I always preferred buxom, zaftig women to young girls but it's weird because it's totally different when it comes to tgirls.

I have to say my biggest celebrity crush at the moment is Mariska Hartigay

[a9127]

Originally Posted by Boner

I was kind of kidding when I said I felt like a dirty old man who liked 5H but I know there's no way I could have a real relationship with someone that young. Sure I'd like to have sex with a 21 year old and maybe we could be great friends but I'm not sure there'd enough of a common basis for a lasting relationship. The French have a rule of thumb where someone is too young for you if there less than half your age plus seven. That'd put a lot of my favorite performers out of reach

This is all in fun anyway so who cares!

Anyway, while I really like the Normani and the other girls, I've always had a thing for older women too, especially growing up. I always preferred buxom, zaftig women to young girls but it's weird because it's totally different when it comes to tgirls.

I have to say my biggest celebrity crush at the moment is Mariska Hartigay

Mariska Hargitay is the reason I used to watch "Law and Order SUV."

Did you know Mariska is the daughter of Jayne Mansfield and bodybuilder Mickey Hargitay? Tragically Jayne was killed in a car crash in 1967. A baby Mariska was asleep in the backseat and lived.

If you haven't ever heard of Jayne Mansfield, I think you would like her. She really epitomized the "retro" look of the 50's and 60's that we both like.

There is a pretty good TV movie starring Loni Anderson ("WKRP in Cincinnati") and Arnold Schwarzenegger. I've seen it on cable. It's an interesting look at 60's glamour and "Hollywood." Long before "Arnold" was "The Terminator."

Yes. I have heard of that "rule" but as you say it's all in fun. I did a little reading up on it and I hope people don't take it too literally. Although as a "guideline" for dating it's probably fine--at least for having common interests. I read that it goes back to the 50's. I am not sure it would apply to most couples today. They also used to say that people of "different races" shouldn't date and marriage was only for a "man and a woman."

I think age in a relationship is one of those things that "just depends." Besides being over 18 of course. My first wife was 6 years older than me. My current wife is five years younger than me. I've never dated anyone outside of a 10 year age range. But I can't say it would never happen (if I wan't married).

I read somewhere recently that Kate Beckinsale was dating a 21 year old. Lucky guy. And Arnold doesn't seem to be letting an almost 30 year age difference bother him in the picture below. It's all good...

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For Boner. One final post for tonight. Jayne Mansfield, Mariska's mom.

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Three women that I would leave my wife for...

Aubrey Kate

Nicole Ferri

Taryn Elizabeth

[Boner]

Originally Posted by a9127

For Boner. One final post for tonight. Jayne Mansfield, Mariska's mom.

Thanks Andy

I knew about Jayne Mansfield before I knew Mariska Hartigay was her daughter. She was iconic. Mariska is beautiful too but in altogether different way.

When it it comes to the age thing, when I was kid I remember being more interested in older women than girls my own age. I always fantasized about being a virginal teenager seduced by an experienced older woman. I still have fantasies like that.....except now she has cock

These pictures of Renee, Elizabeth, and Tara sort of go with that thought......

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...When it it comes to the age thing, when I was kid I remember being more interested in older women than girls my own age. I always fantasized about being a virginal teenager seduced by an experienced older woman. I still have fantasies like that.....except now she has cock...
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My "older women" to have been seduced by would of course be these three: Loni Anderson, Heather Thomas, and Farrah.

Do you know how old Renee, Elizabeth, and Tara are? Just curious. As you know I'm also a fan of all 3. My guess is they would be considerably younger than my three below. Farrah passed away in 2009 , Loni is 71, and Heather will be 60 in September. By the way I personally think that picture of Farrah may be the most beautiful picture of anybody, ever. RIP Angel.

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Hayley in concert with Paramore earlier this summer when they played the Royal Albert Hall.

[Boner]

Originally Posted by a9127

My "older women" to have been seduced by would of course be these three: Loni Anderson, Heather Thomas, and Farrah.

Do you know how old Renee, Elizabeth, and Tara are? Just curious. As you know I'm also a fan of all 3. My guess is they would be considerably younger than my three below. Farrah passed away in 2009 , Loni is 71, and Heather will be 60 in September. By the way I personally think that picture of Farrah may be the most beautiful picture of anybody, ever. RIP Angel.

I used to love Loni Anderson on "WKRP in Cincinatti". Do you remember the episode where she was photographed while changing by a sleazy photographer? Farrah was iconic.

I don't know how old these ladies are and would never ask

I just think of them as mature women and when I fantasize about them I picture myself as the virginal, lust filled teen I used to be and them as sexy, seductive, older women who sympathize with my plight, like my Spanish professor.