Worst.Date.Ever.

[Bionca]

It really seems to be a hard idea for some guys to grasp. My transition wasn't so I could have sex with men. Cripes.. I was a hot little gay boy, if it was sex I could have just used my gay boi wiles to get laid any night of the week. It sure as heck wasn't to have sex with straight guys... PUHLESE..

Q What's the differance between a gay guy and a straight guy?
A A Six pack and an out of town girl-friend

So, yeah, doing this not so much for the sex. The sex and the relationships are good.. but not the primary reason. More like an irritating, yet fulfilling secondary.
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Dang finding work stinks... I have interviews the nexy few days and it seems like there is lots of competition. Can't wait for THE conversation ...

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Can't wait for THE conversation ...

What's THE conversation?

[marlowe]

Oh... I think I may have just clocked what you mean.

[Bionca]

Haha the one that starts.. "It says here that you used to go by the name of..."

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Cripes.. I was a hot little gay boy, if it was sex I could have just used my gay boi wiles to get laid any night of the week. It sure as heck wasn't to have sex with straight guys... PUHLESE..

This is an encouraging statement, Bionca. Quite often, I've met the attitude among primarily Western transsexuals, that they dislike guys who actually like transsexuals. A little bit like the good old Groucho Marx statement: "I'd never wanna belong to a club that would accept me as a member..."

Even here in Asia you do come across an "obsession" with socalled "straight guys" - a transsexual woman will say: "No way I'll ever do a little gayboy..." (not that I've ever met a gay who would be particularly interested in a trans-woman).

Obviously, it has to do with some sort of insecurity in her gender identification (or it could be so), that a "real man" who HATES trannies will prove to her that she's a "real woman".

Well, in the end it's all sorted out when we get a chance to get to know each other and our motivations... I have no clue about my motivations, but it always gets sorted out satisfactorily any how...



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[Bionca]

This may sound weird.. but.. I'd totally love getting down with a gay guy. To borrow from my genetic girl sisters... "All the good ones are taken or gay". Gay guys DO tend to take better care of themselves.. and no gay guy I know would have met a date in scrubby sweat pants and a t-shirt... oh the humanity of it all.

On that note.. my phone has been ringing off the hook from loser-man. I've been busy, so haven't answered him. But.. It seems his gf is out of town this weekend and he'd like to "make it up to me". I'm tempted to accept just to see if he puts on proper pants this time and maybe gets carry-out or a pizza delivered .. schmuck.

[GRH]

Originally Posted by Bionca

This may sound weird.. but.. I'd totally love getting down with a gay guy. To borrow from my genetic girl sisters... "All the good ones are taken or gay". Gay guys DO tend to take better care of themselves.. and no gay guy I know would have met a date in scrubby sweat pants and a t-shirt... oh the humanity of it all.

You are quite right, it's no wonder that GG's tend to make friends with gay men. In many ways they are superior to straight men.

that note.. my phone has been ringing off the hook from loser-man. I've been busy, so haven't answered him. But.. It seems his gf is out of town this weekend and he'd like to "make it up to me". I'm tempted to accept just to see if he puts on proper pants this time and maybe gets carry-out or a pizza delivered .. schmuck.

Don't even waste your time on some asshole like that.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

This may sound weird.. but.. I'd totally love getting down with a gay guy. To borrow from my genetic girl sisters... "All the good ones are taken or gay". Gay guys DO tend to take better care of themselves.. and no gay guy I know would have met a date in scrubby sweat pants and a t-shirt... oh the humanity of it all.

It makes a lot of sense.

Originally Posted by Bionca

On that note.. my phone has been ringing off the hook from loser-man. I've been busy, so haven't answered him. But.. It seems his gf is out of town this weekend and he'd like to "make it up to me". I'm tempted to accept just to see if he puts on proper pants this time and maybe gets carry-out or a pizza delivered .. schmuck.

Yes, hehe, that could be intereresting. Maybe we should make a little bet on it - how he treats you this second time. My bet is probably slightly better, but again, I wouldn't put my money on it :-)

[Bionca]

Well I answered his call, just to hear him grovel. I coyly asked him what his plans were ... *wipes eyes from laughter* ... ordering some Chinese take out, watching a "special movie on DVD" and seeing where that leads...

Oh what a turd

I sarcasticly told him he was the most romantic guy I knew.. he caught the sarcasm (points for him). Then he told me that "romance was for 'real girls'". Then he called me a bitch and dropped the "C" word (boggle). I laughed in his ear and told him I was too much woman for him. I fear I may have closed the door on another fantastic opportunity

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Well I answered his call, just to hear him grovel. I coyly asked him what his plans were ... *wipes eyes from laughter* ... ordering some Chinese take out, watching a "special movie on DVD" and seeing where that leads...

Oh what a turd

I sarcasticly told him he was the most romantic guy I knew.. he caught the sarcasm (points for him). Then he told me that "romance was for 'real girls'". Then he called me a bitch and dropped the "C" word (boggle). I laughed in his ear and told him I was too much woman for him. I fear I may have closed the door on another fantastic opportunity

OMG... what a complete jerk... I really can't believe he said that to you. Yes, you bet, you're too much woman for him. I hope you pissed him off real good - well, I sense you do have the verbal ability to do just that :-)

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[sesame]

I think he is a peevish crackpot.
A frustrated angry man who lives on the edge.
Stay well away from his like.

[Bionca]

I have a feeling he understands that I won't be visiting him. I should totally take some cheesecake pics and email him.... mwahahahaha... real woman indeed