New and Looking

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

Keep up the search. It'll happen when it happens. Thats the only way things ever do work out. And a little more focus on your expectations are needed.

I guess like most women, I'm more aware of what I don't want than what I do want. My only realy carved in stone expectations are respect, understanding, and honesty. Ideally one would play around with the particulars of personality during the dating part.

One thing that does kinda irritate me about other transwomen looking for a relationship is that they want to be treated like "a lady" (doors held open, stuff like that). Personally, I'd rather be treated like a person you want to impress (on the first few dates). Not like someone you are obligated to take out for drinks just so you can get in her panties.

[belfagar]

Originally Posted by Bionca

One thing that does kinda irritate me about other transwomen looking for a relationship is that they want to be treated like "a lady" (doors held open, stuff like that).

My attitude is you drop it, you pick it up. LOL

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

My attitude is you drop it, you pick it up. LOL

Good policy!

As an aside, picking things up in a skirt is one of those things you don't think about until you have to do it. Growing up I'd bend at the waist, slight bend at the knee. In even a mid length skirt you need to fully bend at the knee unless you want to give a free panty show to your neighbors. Ahh the lessons learned.

[belfagar]

I'm sure some people enjoyed what they got to see.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

I'm sure some people enjoyed what they got to see.

Hmm.. probably

[sesame]

Just trying to imagine, these down to earth admissions!
Ummm, "seeing is believing" or "To see or not to see, that is the question"
Will Shakes.

[cham]

Well, Good Luck to you Bionca, too bad you are in the US :-)

Cham

[belfagar]

Your eyes rarely ever show you the truth anyhow. To not see is to believe, for if one is left blind one has to find another way to believe. So i say i wish society would just climatize.