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[sesame]

To Bionca:

...and reading the comments has been helpful
(a little discouraging, but helpful)

Helpful I understand. But why are you discouraged? Please dont be.

To Sml-seeker:

mental struggle is an indicator that you have a brain and it works and that you are more determined than others.....

Well said indeed. That is an epical statement worthy of praise.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

To Bionca:

Helpful I understand. But why are you discouraged? Please dont be.

Comments on the site in general, rather than on this thread specifically. Discouraging, because guys are both more and less honest with eachother about sex. They will be more willing to discuss what they like/want and more likely to exagerate what they have done or would do.

So, it's a little strange being a woman reading what is in essence "locker room talk". I just need to switch my frame of referance, and not try to compare myself to a fantasy.