Am I bisexual?

Personally, I've no problem with you asking as many questions - and opening as many threads - as you like. Just don't be surprised if somebody drops by to point out there's already a 15-page thread where the fat has been chewed at length on the same subject - or one of our ever-smiling mods decides to merge the whole lot together anyway.

[Smoothie]

I think you are either or both Heterosexual/bisexual. Your attraction to TS does not make you "gay", but lets be honest it's a girl with male genetalia instead of female.
Most if not all guys I have questioned are into ladyboys, which makes me temporarily conclude that most men are indeed hetero but are also attracted to what they intimately & comfortably know the most.

So, Your attraction IS normal.

[tslust]

I don't really get hung on labels. Only you can truly define who you are.

[TimCarpenter]

Thanks for all the replies friends!

[mabedzaqueen]

Hi Tim... hope you're still with us! As other members have mentioned, there's been lots of research/study about bisexuality and at least 2 of 'em have pointed out that it was easier for women to acknowledge (and live with) being sexually attracted to both genders. Apparently, guys feel bothered when they discover they have such an attraction and won't tell a soul about it, especially not their wife or gf... Therefore i believe that, at least for some guys, forums of discussion (like this one) can turn out to be a helpful place; hearing from people who may be going through things similar to their own situation; chattin' about human feelings which may be difficult to express without the use of familiar words...

Our friend Tim, among many other OPs, was only seeking advice - oh and perhaps a little warmth - when he opened this thread. I wonder if we could just use some labels as a sort of "vehicle" to make the connection with new members easier?? Sometimes i can feel the confusion while reading their posts... I see an often-inadequate choice of words that betrays their haste to understand what's happening to them; i suppose it can be pretty unsettling when one's sexual desires begin to drift into uncharted territory, especially if one feels uncomfortable just fantasizing about it

Sure if i were this other type of guy, you know, replete with self-confidence and in absolute control of his sex life, i might be tempted to tell you to ?do a search? or to ?fuck the damn labels?, but i won't... Why? Simply because i've also been through times of deep confusion a decade ago and when i tried to seek for help, nobody "had time to spend" with someone they saw as a sort of deranged, borderline pederastic boy-lover So even if we're not in the same situation Tim, i'll try to offer a reply to your first post: You may fall into the ?latent bisexual? category; what this means is an attraction to male genitalia was like "hidden" in your mind and this recent sight of gorgeous women with throbbing penises acted as a type of vector which "awoke" said attraction in a very unexpected way, as you were totally unaware you had this, in a "dormant state", deep inside you...

Conclusion: look Tim, if the idea that you are perhaps bisexual kinda puts you off, simply think of it like you're going through an unforeseen-but-very-pleasant initiation that will last as long as all these gorgeous transwomen out there will turn you on
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Dennis.

[arnepers]

To be or not to be... Of course wee are all Bi. Some feel guilt others enjoyes.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Personally, I've no problem with you asking as many questions - and opening as many threads - as you like. Just don't be surprised if somebody drops by to point out there's already a 15-page thread where the fat has been chewed at length on the same subject - or one of our ever-smiling mods decides to merge the whole lot together anyway.

I agree totally with Natalie and SMC - so dig in to the old threads. They cover this tenthousandfold...

But to clear the air: No, you're most likely not bisexual. You're "trans-oriented". That's a sexual orientation in its own right. And, as I have argued numerous times before, even her penis (if she still has it) becomes an attribute of her femininity. So please, follow the good advice and research the matter by reading what has already been written.

Peace

Hank

[Demonic shemale licker]

Personally, i identify as pansexual/gueer.

[Artiste426]

I understand everyone can have their own definitions, but for me Hetero guys are attracted Women, gays are attracted to men and bi's are into both. I am Hetero, and attracted to women. A ciswoman is no more naturally and completely a woman than a transwoman. They are both women.