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Old 08-19-2007
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or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?

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:D hi my friend, for me the same feelings are same with you. i like a hard cock on the feminine body and i love to be with ladyboys. but non of my friends like ladyboys, they think that ladyboys are gay and who likes ladyboys are gay too. but i don't think so we are gay i like girls but i like cocks on a girls. both make me crazy and i am not gay i don't like boys or men. but i don't talk about this with my friends.
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:D hi my friend, for me the same feelings are same with you. i like a hard cock on the feminine body and i love to be with ladyboys. but non of my friends like ladyboys, they think that ladyboys are gay and who likes ladyboys are gay too. but i don't think so we are gay i like girls but i like cocks on a girls. both make me crazy and i am not gay i don't like boys or men. but i don't talk about this with my friends.
thanks for sharing, i'm glad you feel the same way.

i just joined this site a few hours ago and i don't know why but i feel really safe and at home here.. i guess i'm glad theres other people like me.

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mate, dont worry too much about the gay/straight issue!
What ever you do, is fine if it make's you happy,
and does'nt harm anyone. I know you are confused now
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your friend's think, wont be so important. Enjoy!
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Hi mate, welcome to the site.
My advice would be don't waste your life worrying about what other people think, I've done that too many times in the past and missed out on some good experiences, life's too short mate.
Go with your feelings enjoy the moment, you will probably go through different fazes in your life, this infatuation with shemales might be one, or it might last.
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Hell NO....when I go on tour, I definitely get my more that fair share of pussy, BUT, if a TGirl or girls are there, and liked the show and wanna chill...they are always welcome on our bus!! They are by far some of the coolest chicks to hang out with. I would rather have a Tgirl on the bus to ride with us than a regualr clingy, wishy washy groupie type whore; ya know? The shemales are always beyond cool, give great head and never want anything in return, other than maybe a cold brew or shot!!! Have fun dude. NOW, I usually don't get too involved with them, for me it is an occasional taboo type thing, the funny thing is, there are a lot more dudes into them than you think!! Its all good.
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Hell NO....when I go on tour, I definitely get my more that fair share of pussy, BUT, if a TGirl or girls are there, and liked the show and wanna chill...they are always welcome on our bus!! They are by far some of the coolest chicks to hang out with. I would rather have a Tgirl on the bus to ride with us than a regualr clingy, wishy washy groupie type whore; ya know? The shemales are always beyond cool, give great head and never want anything in return, other than maybe a cold brew or shot!!! Have fun dude. NOW, I usually don't get too involved with them, for me it is an occasional taboo type thing, the funny thing is, there are a lot more dudes into them than you think!! Its all good.
thanks for sharing, appreciate it. hey you mentioned being on tour or something? what did you mean if you don't mind?
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i am a musician......get to see a lot of the world, all the time!!
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i am a musician......get to see a lot of the world, all the time!!
if you don't mind again, what kind of music do you make? how popular are you?
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rock and roll bud......played with some major acts. Not reallly at liberty to say who, but,if you have a radio, you have heard my work!!
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I agree with tlover, I'm not one who cares much about others. I don't advertise or anything, either.
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Hell no. If you are gay, you would be seeing muscular man flexing.
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Don't know if that makes me gay or not. Don't care. Just like being with a t-girl so much better than the women. Wish I had been more open earlier on.
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This question arises quite often among shemale-lovers. And there's NOT a single answer covering us all. It depends:

1. Some of us (probably most) are straight with no attraction to men

2. Some are bisexual (me for example - I've turned more "gay" recently and also like socalled femboys - very feminine gays - simultaneously my interest in genetic girls has diminished)

3. Very few are gay (gays in general like men and not shemales - I don't think I've ever met a gay who liked shemales - but surely there are some)

So don't worry, being a shemale-lover does NOT make you gay per se (some homofobics might LABEL you gay, but who cares? ;-)

Just enjoy it!

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I know exactly what your trying to say, you want someone who you see as female but is male ? well it does get confusing to say the least.
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pal, you're normal, dude. I am the same way as you. I'm probably a little bit older than you, I'm nearly 25 years old, and just discovered I love shemales in the last year. I've always loved women, I admire their beauty, but I just don't get turned on by pussy. I love cock and cumshots, but I hate the "manliness of men" - I can't stand their face and bodies. I consider myself straight as a board. Nothing turns me on more than a beautiful woman with a raging hardon accompanied by a pair of huge balls. There's just something about it, the way a cock swings, the arch of a cumshot as it goes through the air, I don't know. But I do know, you're not gay. And neither am I, we are just sexually advanced, we know what we want. There's no shame in it man...it's all good.
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dude honestly every guy has a bit of gay and may not be attracted to men they might just like the idea of some cock but still want to be straight and see a chick honestly i love women cant get enough of them but sometimes i wish some had cocks so i could suck some cum fromt hem
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hi friend it's also same with me sometimes even i fell that i m bisexual or gay. none of my friends knows that i m after shemales i be with them and comment on every cute gals. even we go to gals to some brothels once in a while . i m sure i m not a gay. but sometimes it comes in to my mind .but atlast i lust for shemales only shemales evenly with the women with out dicks. i love em both.
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Not that it matters too much, but I think of myself as 80% straight and 20% bi. I enjoy cocks whether they are on men or women. However, I don't care if the guy I'm giving head to or a handjob to comes. With the girls, I want them to come all of the place. Why? The feminity aspect I suppose. It still a cock, but I appreciate the person more than just some dude.
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I don't care if I am gay or not. Let other's judge about that if the want too. I know that I love ladyboys and that ladyboys make me happy. That's the important thing.
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I've went through that in my head a few times for sure. Was strange for me to compute at first, but inside i knew what a felt and what i wanted and stopped caring. Finding this site and reading the post and stories from others truly helped. asian_ladyboy_lover's post pretty much describes how i feel too. Couldn't have said it better myself.
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Gay/lesiban/bisexual i feel are pretty black and white defintions, Gays like only guys, lesbians like only girls, and Bisexuals like everyone . But unfortuantaly that doesn't work well with a ladyboy, because its hard to define them, and frankly they shouldn't. Sexuality is a free and open thing, where anyone can find anything a turn on, just look on the interent for that . I Love women (JLH is the only reason i watch Ghostwhisper) and i love ladyboys. And that should be enough.

This is a really great thread, and i love the other replies, keep them coming.
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I agree. Sexuality isn't black and white, there arent any yes or no answers here. I firmly believe everyone has his own scale of sexual preferences. It's like requiring that you choose to eat only meat or be a vegetarian. Some people are extremes at either end, but most (and I think like nearly all) experience some variations toward one end of the spectrum or the other. I was brought up in a strictly straight family, but as a child of the '70s was exposed to other sexual preferences. I used to share a bed during sleep overs with my best friend in 9th grade and after her parents went to bed, we made out and got into some really great sex without even knowing what we were doing. The thing is, don't worry about it. It's just sex. Do what feels good and say "fuck off" to those who would judge you.
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What does it matter? Seriously, its all about enjoying what your doing, and the other person enjoying it too.

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I think being pure straight or pure gay is rare comparing to middle ones. Like Kinsey once described on scale 1..6 where 1 is heterosexual and 6 is homosexual, most of us are in 2..5 range. See the film Kinsey, you'll like it.
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hmm.. i dont think i'm gay at all.

the way i see it kinda is..the concept and actuality of a shemale is probably a pretty recent thing, however the concept and words gay/lesbian have been around for a loooong time. i think once it becomes more widespread/accepted (it will..) i feel a new 'word' may emerge that defines us correctly

feel free to correct me if im wrong, factually, this is just the way i see it atm
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At least I don't consider myself gay, anyway. There certainly is something to the almost independent sexuality TGirls that doesn't seem to bother when I see them and feel attracted to them. Doesn't seem to challenge my perceptions of my sexuality. Haven't shared this with anyone though. Does this make me a hypocrite? I don't know. But I just started checking out this are of sexuality. I'll see where it goes. But for now, I'm enjoying it.
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I dont feel totaly gay but i must admit i go weak at the knee's when i see a nice cock
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youd be gay if you liked guys and girls. ts arent men.
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or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?
easy answer. no we aren't gay cos we're attracted to the femininity of ladyboys/shemales/dickgirls/whatever. basically, they're just a girl with a living strap-on dildo that can produce cum.

in other words, unless you feel the same about guys then no you're not a homosexual. technically, on a site called www.reneereyes.com we are 'paratrexual' cos we are nature's parallel to transexuals
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Actually, it was last year, that someone posted a picture of a beautiful girl in a forum. Then I realized it came from a shemale site, so my brain told me to be turned off, although my "other brain" got turned on. I did not want to admit
the picture turned me on. That would make me a queer. (pardon the expression)

But as time went by, I got tired, and could not get turned on much anymore, I thought my sex drive was gone. I look at porn and jerked off all the time (I was never lucky getting laid, except a few times) but then I got tired of porn. I had no interest in sex. And I felt bad, because it would suck if my equipment died.

Then I was looking at porn again, and was directed at a shemale site. I was going to close the window, but one "girl" looked really cute, and I thought "if only she didn't have a dick" But, she had such a sweet face, and I guess I quit letting the fact she had a dick bother me. In fact, I wanted to suck it, to make her happy. Who cares if it's gay?? I still like pussy, don't get me wrong, but if the person turns me on, (feminine and pretty and sweet looking) I'll do them if given the chance.

What amazes me is that these shemales look so much like women, you would swear they were, until you saw their penises.

Now, if i had a hot shemale, ladyboy, etc, I'd suck them dry all of the time, just to hear them moan and groan in ecstasy, because to make them cum would get me off. I'd even fuck their ass, and maybe, let them do me. As long as they did not tear up my ass (oh, how embarrassing to go to the hospital like that)
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easy answer. no we aren't gay cos we're attracted to the femininity of ladyboys/shemales/dickgirls/whatever. basically, they're just a girl with a living strap-on dildo that can produce cum.

in other words, unless you feel the same about guys then no you're not a homosexual. technically, on a site called www.reneereyes.com we are 'paratrexual' cos we are nature's parallel to transexuals

Sorry, friend, but i disagree totally with you. Your definition of shemales as "girls with a living strap-on dildo than can produce cum" is ridiculous, offensive and fully wrong. I've known many ladyboys and ensure you that, in spite of the appearance, a lot of shemales are androgynous. Many shemale-lovers project on ladyboys their desires, dreams and fantasies. They see only the feminine side of shemales, and don't look at the masculine side, what is less showy but more deep. After some months of relationship with a ladyboy, the masculine side becomes more and more evident, and you understand that she's at the meantime female and male.
I disagree also about the "gay-question". Love for shemales can have different causes, motivations and origins and shemale-lovers can be straight, gay and bisex ( the most are bisex). Recently i've devoted a poll to this subject. As you can see a close majority of the members (11) is looking for a complete femininity, but many (10) want a preminent femininity mixed with a bit of masculinity, and a few (4) are looking for an androgynous. I adore the androgynous-type, am totally passive and repute myself virtually gay.
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well everyones different is my philosophy and generalisations are meaningless unless they spare one a headache from thinking too much
i like girls and am exploring this side of myself because i guess my personality s anarchic in some ways. the day i actually meet a ts is the day i can maybe answer some of the questions posed on this forum
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I know I like shemales because of their cocks. Couple that with their female beauty! I know I only want to be with someone who has a real cock. I have finally realized I am on the all male team but in the shemale league. If that makes gay so be it. I know I have no use for a "real girl"
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easy answer. no we aren't gay cos we're attracted to the femininity of ladyboys/shemales/dickgirls/whatever. basically, they're just a girl with a living strap-on dildo that can produce cum.

in other words, unless you feel the same about guys then no you're not a homosexual. technically, on a site called www.reneereyes.com we are 'paratrexual' cos we are nature's parallel to transexuals
very well said...
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I agree that ladyboy lust is a way to get in touch with ones inner female side. Ive tried to turn it off, but i cant help but to find my fingers typing ladboy on searches. And it just really rocks me to the core. The more feminine the better. Exspecialy all shaved and little cocks,mmm. Heaven would be to find a women that understands this and wants to share in this turn on.
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think about it from the transexual's perspective. she considers herself a woman. we call her a she. society calls her a she. if you're a man..is that really gay? it's more a very kinky woman. if your girlfriend likes to use a strapon with you..are you gay?
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thanks for sharing, i'm glad you feel the same way.

i just joined this site a few hours ago and i don't know why but i feel really safe and at home here.. i guess i'm glad theres other people like me.
It seems there are a lot of us about............I still love women, and shemales really excite me.......but being with a man..................nah mate, not for me.......
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or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?
Ive felt the exact same way 4 tha longest i love pussy so much but at tha sight of a shemale such as Areeya, Mint, or Jade im hard as a rock but im 7000% sure i am not gay because a dick in my ass is simply repulsive atleast a guys dick and i dnt get turned on or find guys attractive at all
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All these answers prove that love for ladyboys can have 1000 different causes and origins. Nevertheless, i think that if you love the cock more than the pussy you are virtually gay. Even if the cock is inserted in a feminine body.
I'm crazy about ladyboys and like very masculine, dominant girls using a strap-on dildo. I'm a cock-addicted. I adore the cock and don't like the pussy. So i repute myself gay.
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I have always loved shemales and femboys, even when with real girls. Now after 3 or so years I have been pussy free. I have totaly seen the light. I only want to be with cock and have no interest in pussy. I just want to suck it and get fucked by a beauiful shemale or femboy. I know this makes me gay, but it is what I enjoy.

PS this site is awesome! The shemale is the new third sex. More men need to see the light of the shemale/femboy. Pussy is very overrated! When compared to a shemale! Play with a joystick, it is more fun!
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Cool question -- I like the detail you went into, dude. The very fact you're asking and went into that detail shows you're a sensitive soul in tune with life at a deeper level than most. But I believe that it's also a pointless question in light of sexual attraction. The problem is that people are keen to label things. Labels make it easier to "explain" something, but things just aren't easy to explain. We all think in stereotypes because it's the quicker and safer thing to do; stereotypes even have elements of truth to them (more often than not). But stereotypes never tell the full story and neither do labels. "Gay" sounds like a very inadequate label for anyone, especially a shemale lover. However, in terms of neurological "wiring" or whatever, we must invariably have some level of "gayness" in us, if we desire various degrees of feminised males with penises, which we clearly all do.

I'm the sort that analyses and obsesses a lot, but the more I look back, the more pointless it all seems. Of course, I'm not saying that things shouldn't be examined and explored; we'd never be able to advance, artistically, socially, economically, morally, technologically, scientifically or spiritually without people pushing the existing boundaries, looking deeper and really making a go of life. pal, my friend ... I'm 24. From the sounds of it, you must be younger. Quite how much younger I don't know. But don't beat yourself up over anything. In fact, I wish I was back in my late teens. I discovered my love of shemales a couple of years ago. It's been growing since that time. Today, I get so aroused just thinking about them; it's now gotten to the point where it's become easier to become aroused thinking about shemales than females. I don't know if that's good or bad; I think it simply "is". It's reality, whether I care to try and make moral sense of it or not. Life favours diversity, so it's probably a "good" thing, if you want a hard and fast moral answer -- but there probably isn't one.

Enjoy yourself, dude! And enjoy being here. I'm glad I found this place. And remember: the Internet is growing all the time. Five years ago, we didn't have YouTube. Ten years ago, we didn't have Google. Fifteen years ago, virtually none of us had internet access. It blows my mind to think of that. The world is changing so much. Be excited that you're part of a new dawn in the era of humanity. And try not to obsess too much. It's only made things worse for me. Too much guilt and self-analysis will remove you from society and put you into depression -- and trust me, you can be guilty over more than just sexuality. But think of all the people that don't care; the people who wear their likes and dislikes and beliefs and foibles loudly and proudly. History demonstrates one thing above all else: if we can conquer fear, we can achieve almost anything. And the most important thing never to fear is being yourself.

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All these answers prove that love for ladyboys can have 1000 different causes and origins. Nevertheless, i think that if you love the cock more than the pussy you are virtually gay. Even if the cock is inserted in a feminine body.
I'm crazy about ladyboys and like very masculine, dominant girls using a strap-on dildo. I'm a cock-addicted. I adore the cock and don't like the pussy. So i repute myself gay.
hmm its weird but I would swear its like theres a feminising force field surrounding a transgirl which makes the cock a feminine thing
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i am not a gay i am a ladyboy slave
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I don't think we are gay. The fact that shemales are people who feel like and consider themselves women makes me think that we are attracted to femininity and just like the possibilities that a shemale offers that biological women don't.
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I don't think we are gay. The fact that shemales are people who feel like and consider themselves women makes me think that we are attracted to femininity and just like the possibilities that a shemale offers that biological women don't.
My thoughts exactly
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in short it's all down to different perspectives i mean some people that it's still being gay but to me its not coz its still a female body others will disagree but i can't really change their opinions so i'll just stick to mine
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I don't think were gay, I just can't see them as being anything but women & I'm sure I'm not just trying to convince myself of that. I have just joined this forum & I am finding this so liberating talking about something I have kept secret for several years now, not because I am ashamed of it but because I just know none of my friends would understand it.
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that would interest me. I love Ladyboys more than Girls but I cannot have Sex with a man. This is impossible.
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