Top or Bottom

[Budge15]

I am a total bottom when it comes to t-girls. I've met a number of providers and have always asked them to top me. The funny thing is that I find getting fucked to be somewhat painful/uncomfortable. But getting fucked is what I fantisize about and what I mainly think about when jerking off.

[Anonymou]

First at all, I want to say that my english is not good, I've learning It by myself, so I'm able to make some mistakes which may confuse you.

I'm a begginer member here, and I'm really enjoyng the forum
because there is a lot people here who likes the same thing of me (shemales, *Oh really?! ) and it's have been a new experience to me, because for 4 years I've been with this fetish only in my head, I haven't knew anyboby who shares this same fetish, thus I used to feel weird everytime I jerked-of watching the beautys shemales pics/video, once I'm not gay, I like womans! ( I'm not calling gay who likes shemale, But I used
to think like this ).

Since then I'm totally involved by shemale's world, I see
them like a different sort of woman with amazing traits to appreciate. In the
beginning I was gaffed by their asses and butties, what makes me wonder
how could a man become this perfect thing! I used not to like the cock, but I've learned with the time to appreciate It too, And now I cofess: Nothing's like a cock between her legs =] however Its just a visual appreciation, I don't feel like sucking or be penetrated by one. I just like to bang and lick her asses( I already had sex with 2 and I didn't even touch their cocks. not that's
be a problem, dont get me wrong )

I've realized the most guys here like to suck and beeing on bottom, so
I'd like to know if this has been aways there, or It rised-up after a long time?
And if the answear is the second option, how did you started to feel like it?

I'm a heterosexual male (no matter how strangely subjected to uncertainty the term seems to apply at times, if we listen to certain people). To me it's very simple: t-women ARE women. I have done, i want to, i fantasize about, doing to them exactly what i do to genetic women, which is to caress, kiss and lick them all over, then fuck them, generally tenderly and deep, but at times like a fucking animal. If i might step into this mini, tiny debate between two members here, i would say that not unlike ThirdEyeGirl, i was somewhat surprised when i got to this site to realize how much of a minority was the "group" to which i belonged. I was a bit naive, i suppose, since transsexual pornography presents so much topping by trans over men. As far as i'm concerned, it has always disapointed me. I rent or buy a DVD and most of the time, only half of it is of any interest. The rest rebuff me. This being said, yes, ila, you're right and even more right to repeat it: everybody is entitled to his or her type of pleasure and no one has any right to judge as long as it is legal and consensual. I hope by the way that i'm not offending anyone; like ThirdEyeGirl i am just expressing my opinion. Still... i'm again a bit surprised by the results of the poll...

Anonymou, i would like to commend you on your efforts. Your english is not that bad at all. English is not my mother tongue either and yet i can pretty well follow what you're saying. If you don't mind me advising you: keep on writing posts, a good dictionary in hands and you'll improve rapidly ! Incidently, i suggest to you on the other hand that you use the word "transsexual" rather than "shemale", and refer to them more as a "fantasy" rather than as a "fetish", before someone here justifiably looses her temper.

Originally Posted by danthepoetman

I'm a heterosexual male (no matter how strangely subjected to uncertainty the term seems to apply at times, if we listen to certain people). To me it's very simple: t-women ARE women. I have done, i want to, i fantasize about, doing to them exactly what i do to genetic women, which is to caress, kiss and lick them all over, then fuck them, generally tenderly and deep, but at times like a fucking animal. If i might step into this mini, tiny debate between two members here, i would say that not unlike ThirdEyeGirl, i was somewhat surprised when i got to this site to realize how much of a minority was the "group" to which i belonged. I was a bit naive, i suppose, since transsexual pornography presents so much topping by trans over men. As far as i'm concerned, it has always disapointed me. I rent or buy a DVD and most of the time, only half of it is of any interest. The rest rebuff me. This being said, yes, ila, you're right and even more right to repeat it: everybody is entitled to his or her type of pleasure and no one has any right to judge as long as it is legal and consensual. I hope by the way that i'm not offending anyone; like ThirdEyeGirl i am just expressing my opinion. Still... i'm again a bit surprised by the results of the poll...

Anonymou, i would like to commend you on your efforts. Your english is not that bad at all. English is not my mother tongue either and yet i can pretty well follow what you're saying. If you don't mind me advising you: keep on writing posts, a good dictionary in hands and you'll improve rapidly ! Incidently, i suggest to you on the other hand that you use the word "transsexual" rather than "shemale", and refer to them more as a "fantasy" rather than as a "fetish", before someone here justifiably looses her temper.

Why would you think that anything you wrote would be offensive to me or any other women on this site.

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Why would you think that anything you wrote would be offensive to me or any other women on this site.

Yes ! Respect ! and admiration , desire , love , fascination, affection, protective feelings, attraction, tenderness... i could go on all night, ThirdEyeGirl. Do you want me to, or are you gonna get tired of me ?

[Kitten]

I haven't read every post in this thread. It's way too long, and I've had one too many beers. But, for anyone who wants to know, here's where I stand:

In my heart, I'm a bottom. I want a cock in me; I want my whole body to tingle as a massive dick is throbbing inside me...

...but I've never gotten the hang of anal. My butt hole is just too tight, and it wont relax. I've tried and tried, really I have. I've got a massive butt plug (one-and-three-quarter-inches diameter is massive to me), but it's no good. It still usually feels uncomfortable for me.

I tried to be a bottom for two years, adamant that I couldn't be a top. But all that time, I only ever had good anal sex one time in ten at best.

Then, a few months ago, one thing led to another, and I found my cock up my ex-boyfriend's arse. Okay, it didn't happen quite as simply as that, but I truly never intended to fuck him. It just kind of happened, and it was bloody good. In fact, it was some of the best sex I've ever had, so we did it again!

What you have to understand - something I only recently learned myself - is that the set-up of our genitals did not dictate the sexuality of the act. We were just two sexual energies coming together. I still felt female, despite having my cock in an arse.

I wont be part of the top/bottom debate for long, so I thought I'd chip in while I still can.

Originally Posted by Kitten

I haven't read every post in this thread. It's way too long, and I've had one too many beers. But, for anyone who wants to know, here's where I stand:

In my heart, I'm a bottom. I want a cock in me; I want my whole body to tingle as a massive dick is throbbing inside me...

...but I've never gotten the hang of anal. My butt hole is just too tight, and it wont relax. I've tried and tried, really I have. I've got a massive butt plug (one-and-three-quarter-inches diameter is massive to me), but it's no good. It still usually feels uncomfortable for me.

I tried to be a bottom for two years, adamant that I couldn't be a top. But all that time, I only ever had good anal sex one time in ten at best.

Then, a few months ago, one thing led to another, and I found my cock up my ex-boyfriend's arse. Okay, it didn't happen quite as simply as that, but I truly never intended to fuck him. It just kind of happened, and it was bloody good. In fact, it was some of the best sex I've ever had, so we did it again!

What you have to understand - something I only recently learned myself - is that the set-up of our genitals did not dictate the sexuality of the act. We were just two sexual energies coming together. I still felt female, despite having my cock in an arse.

I wont be part of the top/bottom debate for long, so I thought I'd chip in while I still can.

WOW! If one an a quarter inches is big to you, no wonder receiving anal hasn't been to comfortable with you. And sadly I don't have any advise for ways of relaxing. Because being able to relax just came natural to me.

Though I will add that I do have to be fully aroused before my rectum is ready for entry.

And I know topping does feel good. I just can't keep a woody when it comes to topping masculine guys. I can only top feminine people.

So to each their own, I guess.

P.S. Perhaps someone else has better advise for you on receiving anal.

[trannylvr66]

Originally Posted by danthepoetman

I'm a heterosexual male (no matter how strangely subjected to uncertainty the term seems to apply at times, if we listen to certain people). To me it's very simple: t-women ARE women. I have done, i want to, i fantasize about, doing to them exactly what i do to genetic women, which is to caress, kiss and lick them all over, then fuck them, generally tenderly and deep, but at times like a fucking animal. If i might step into this mini, tiny debate between two members here, i would say that not unlike ThirdEyeGirl, i was somewhat surprised when i got to this site to realize how much of a minority was the "group" to which i belonged. I was a bit naive, i suppose, since transsexual pornography presents so much topping by trans over men. As far as i'm concerned, it has always disapointed me. I rent or buy a DVD and most of the time, only half of it is of any interest. The rest rebuff me. This being said, yes, ila, you're right and even more right to repeat it: everybody is entitled to his or her type of pleasure and no one has any right to judge as long as it is legal and consensual. I hope by the way that i'm not offending anyone; like ThirdEyeGirl i am just expressing my opinion. Still... i'm again a bit surprised by the results of the poll...

Good post. I only watch t-girls doing each other, women, or solo. I never watch the stuff with guys in it.

[LibertyHarkness]

i top females , i top transesxuals but also bottom for transsexuals ..

with men my preference is for me to bottom only ... but i can and do top men when i am getting paid to do it , be it in shoots or escorting ,, though i personally get not sexual excitemnet from it ...

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i top females , i top transesxuals but also bottom for transsexuals ..

with men my preference is for me to bottom only ... but i can and do top men when i am getting paid to do it , be it in shoots or escorting ,, though i personally get not sexual excitemnet from it ...

And I for one must say, lovely Libby, that I enjoy every last second of seeing you with guys, and that I enjoy seeing your beauty in general just like the most beautiful twilight ever.

[I_leash_You]

First Post.

I'm Top.

Woman gets my cock.

Woman eats my cock.

That's how I like my good girl.