Top or Bottom

[Kitten]

I haven't read every post in this thread. It's way too long, and I've had one too many beers. But, for anyone who wants to know, here's where I stand:

In my heart, I'm a bottom. I want a cock in me; I want my whole body to tingle as a massive dick is throbbing inside me...

...but I've never gotten the hang of anal. My butt hole is just too tight, and it wont relax. I've tried and tried, really I have. I've got a massive butt plug (one-and-three-quarter-inches diameter is massive to me), but it's no good. It still usually feels uncomfortable for me.

I tried to be a bottom for two years, adamant that I couldn't be a top. But all that time, I only ever had good anal sex one time in ten at best.

Then, a few months ago, one thing led to another, and I found my cock up my ex-boyfriend's arse. Okay, it didn't happen quite as simply as that, but I truly never intended to fuck him. It just kind of happened, and it was bloody good. In fact, it was some of the best sex I've ever had, so we did it again!

What you have to understand - something I only recently learned myself - is that the set-up of our genitals did not dictate the sexuality of the act. We were just two sexual energies coming together. I still felt female, despite having my cock in an arse.

I wont be part of the top/bottom debate for long, so I thought I'd chip in while I still can.

Originally Posted by Kitten

I haven't read every post in this thread. It's way too long, and I've had one too many beers. But, for anyone who wants to know, here's where I stand:

In my heart, I'm a bottom. I want a cock in me; I want my whole body to tingle as a massive dick is throbbing inside me...

...but I've never gotten the hang of anal. My butt hole is just too tight, and it wont relax. I've tried and tried, really I have. I've got a massive butt plug (one-and-three-quarter-inches diameter is massive to me), but it's no good. It still usually feels uncomfortable for me.

I tried to be a bottom for two years, adamant that I couldn't be a top. But all that time, I only ever had good anal sex one time in ten at best.

Then, a few months ago, one thing led to another, and I found my cock up my ex-boyfriend's arse. Okay, it didn't happen quite as simply as that, but I truly never intended to fuck him. It just kind of happened, and it was bloody good. In fact, it was some of the best sex I've ever had, so we did it again!

What you have to understand - something I only recently learned myself - is that the set-up of our genitals did not dictate the sexuality of the act. We were just two sexual energies coming together. I still felt female, despite having my cock in an arse.

I wont be part of the top/bottom debate for long, so I thought I'd chip in while I still can.

WOW! If one an a quarter inches is big to you, no wonder receiving anal hasn't been to comfortable with you. And sadly I don't have any advise for ways of relaxing. Because being able to relax just came natural to me.

Though I will add that I do have to be fully aroused before my rectum is ready for entry.

And I know topping does feel good. I just can't keep a woody when it comes to topping masculine guys. I can only top feminine people.

So to each their own, I guess.

P.S. Perhaps someone else has better advise for you on receiving anal.

[Kitten]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

I know topping does feel good. I just can't keep a woody when it comes to topping masculine guys. I can only top feminine people.

So to each their own, I guess.

I discovered this penchant for topping when I accidentally, innocently sissified my ex. We tried it once before, when he was hairy and smelly, but I couldn't keep it hard. So, each to their own indeed!

I know my bum is unusually uncooperative. I figured that out as soon as I stuck my cock in my ex! Some people just don't take to anal though. Heck, that's partly why I'm going for the old chop-off!

Thanks, by the way, for all messages of support. I can't post too much because I'm new here, but I feel touched by your kind words

xxx

Originally Posted by Kitten

I discovered this penchant for topping when I accidentally, innocently sissified my ex. We tried it once before, when he was hairy and smelly, but I couldn't keep it hard. So, each to their own indeed!

I know my bum is unusually uncooperative. I figured that out as soon as I stuck my cock in my ex! Some people just don't take to anal though. Heck, that's partly why I'm going for the old chop-off!

Thanks, by the way, for all messages of support. I can't post too much because I'm new here, but I feel touched by your kind words

xxx

Us girls got to stick together, do we not?

Also, when I said I could only top feminine people. That means they have to act, look, and sound feminine.

[Kitten]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Us girls got to stick together, do we not?

Also, when I said I could only top feminine people. That means they have to act, look, and sound feminine.

Well you can judge for yourself. I posted a link to a video here...

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showth...310#post217310

I turned him into a real girly-looking girl, and I unexpectedly became very aroused. It was quite a shock, I never even considered that he might make a pretty girl. It didn't feel wrong to fuck this cutie!

Originally Posted by Kitten

Well you can judge for yourself. I posted a link to a video here...

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showth...310#post217310

I turned him into a real girly-looking girl, and I unexpectedly became very aroused. It was quite a shock, I never even considered that he might make a pretty girl. It didn't feel wrong to fuck this cutie!

Nope, not my taste.

I see myself as an adamantine heterosexual. I'm a man, and i see t-women purely as women, they inspire me the exact, same feelings as any woman: protective feelings, galentry if not chivalry, tenderness, affection and always, somewhere allong the spine, at least a tiny bit of sexual drive. Taking it in the ass is something i can not even picture for myself.
As much as i feel for lovely Kitten , who's going to have her SRS in a few days, as she mentioned somewhere else, as much as i am with her in thoughts and in my heart, as anxious as i am to have some news from her as to how this all goes, and as to her well being during and after, i must admit that it's not my taste either...