Are shemales more sexualized than either their male or female counterparts?

[raiedefesse]

transgendered people more sexually charged? I don't know. I'm not transgendered. And even if I were, it might be the experience of one person, you know, one human being. Stress on the human being part.

I can't imagine what being transgendered would be like, just as I don't know what it would be like to be female in general. I AM, however, a bisexual male and I greatly distrust anyone deciding from outside what I am inside. I know how angry I get when people make sweeping generalizations about bis, even to the point of them "not existing".

All that being said, I hope I meet a lady someday who is indeed sexually charged.

Originally Posted by raiedefesse

transgendered people more sexually charged? I don't know. I'm not transgendered. And even if I were, it might be the experience of one person, you know, one human being. Stress on the human being part.

I can't imagine what being transgendered would be like, just as I don't know what it would be like to be female in general. I AM, however, a bisexual male and I greatly distrust anyone deciding from outside what I am inside. I know how angry I get when people make sweeping generalizations about bis, even to the point of them "not existing".

All that being said, I hope I meet a lady someday who is indeed sexually charged.

Care to elaborate on your bi-ness. So's we don't get confused.

I'll start. I am bi, but I only use that because the more appropriate term is not widely known. Witch being pan-sexuality. So I much prefer a persons personality over their looks... Meaning I could be attracted to someone who wasn't a beauty, but had an awesome personality. And not be attracted to someone who is drop dead gorgeous, but be a total douche or ct.

But if it's just physical attraction we are talking about. I like cis men and women, and non-op transsexual women. Oddly enough I'm not into trans men.

I know, I know... This is a digression.

[raiedefesse]

I think "bisexuality" as a word is a misnomer. I think I'm pansexual too, but not in the same way. I really think of my sexuality as a work in progress...it changes from day to day, as do my desires. I fluctuate. I've been called a bit of a chameleon and I guess that's true.

I like women of all "types"...the most important thing being that they have a good mind and are interesting personally. I've always been very impatient with the general male "impress your buddies" standard...you know, going after the woman you think will impress your male friends. I've dated blondes, brunettes, big girls, skinny girls, short girls, transgendered girls, tall girls, girls other people consider "beautiful" and girls that they don't but there's always been a common thread between the girls that only I can see.

Regarding men, I feel a little guilty that I haven't been able to fall in love with a man. I feel shallow, overly focused on the physical regarding men. Maybe I don't trust men. I don't know. It's mostly sex with men. Most of my close trusting friendships as well as sexual friendships are with women. I thought I met a man last year that I could get to that territory with. I really wanted to do so. I haven't accepted yet that I can't be in love with another man. I firmly believe that I'm a work in progress. I don't know who is going to cross my path, I don't know how I'm going to change in the future. I guess that's what makes life interesting.

Originally Posted by raiedefesse

I think "bisexuality" as a word is a misnomer. I think I'm pansexual too, but not in the same way. I really think of my sexuality as a work in progress...it changes from day to day, as do my desires. I fluctuate. I've been called a bit of a chameleon and I guess that's true.

I like women of all "types"...the most important thing being that they have a good mind and are interesting personally. I've always been very impatient with the general male "impress your buddies" standard...you know, going after the woman you think will impress your male friends. I've dated blondes, brunettes, big girls, skinny girls, short girls, transgendered girls, tall girls, girls other people consider "beautiful" and girls that they don't but there's always been a common thread between the girls that only I can see.

Regarding men, I feel a little guilty that I haven't been able to fall in love with a man. I feel shallow, overly focused on the physical regarding men. Maybe I don't trust men. I don't know. It's mostly sex with men. Most of my close trusting friendships as well as sexual friendships are with women. I thought I met a man last year that I could get to that territory with. I really wanted to do so. I haven't accepted yet that I can't be in love with another man. I firmly believe that I'm a work in progress. I don't know who is going to cross my path, I don't know how I'm going to change in the future. I guess that's what makes life interesting.

Honestly... I felt the same way you do towards men before I transitioned. But now I do believe I can love a man. Don't know if it's because hormones increased my attraction towards more masculine men (witch it has), or that it's because I'm now representing my true self. I'm more inclined to believe it's the latter.