Talking with sweet TS and need advice

[franalexes]

Metaphorically I was trying to tell you that you are after the benefits of a relationship without knowing the pleasure of a full one.
It is not going to be easy to have repetitious meetings and not develop some nature of bonding to the other person. Your meetings and what you expect out of them are the "jewels". What you could end up having is the complete package; a loving relationship. That is the "treasure".
I probably have a more rewarding treasure in my relationships with Jody, Tom, Mel, Randolph, Ila, CuriousJim, Jodie, SSL, TracyCoxx, Jen and others yet to appear than you will get from your jewels.
I'm not putting you down. I'm telling you that the package you are playing with is more than the fancy wrapper. You may not be seeking love, but love may find you.

[ila]

^ Very well put, Fran. I now understand what you were trying to say with your first post.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Metaphorically I was trying to tell you that you are after the benefits of a relationship without knowing the pleasure of a full one.
It is not going to be easy to have repetitious meetings and not develop some nature of bonding to the other person. Your meetings and what you expect out of them are the "jewels". What you could end up having is the complete package; a loving relationship. That is the "treasure".
I probably have a more rewarding treasure in my relationships with Jody, Tom, Mel, Randolph, Ila, CuriousJim, Jodie, SSL, TracyCoxx, Jen and others yet to appear than you will get from your jewels.
I'm not putting you down. I'm telling you that the package you are playing with is more than the fancy wrapper. You may not be seeking love, but love may find you.

Wow!
That is so well put and beautiful.

[smc]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Metaphorically I was trying to tell you that you are after the benefits of a relationship without knowing the pleasure of a full one.
It is not going to be easy to have repetitious meetings and not develop some nature of bonding to the other person. Your meetings and what you expect out of them are the "jewels". What you could end up having is the complete package; a loving relationship. That is the "treasure".
I probably have a more rewarding treasure in my relationships with Jody, Tom, Mel, Randolph, Ila, CuriousJim, Jodie, SSL, TracyCoxx, Jen and others yet to appear than you will get from your jewels.
I'm not putting you down. I'm telling you that the package you are playing with is more than the fancy wrapper. You may not be seeking love, but love may find you.

This is so true. I have found at least one such treasured bond here, that I expect to last a lifetime ... no matter what else may happen. It has nothing to do with sex. And I wasn't even looking for it.

[Be_my_nude]

Originally Posted by smc

This is so true. I have found at least one such treasured bond here, that I expect to last a lifetime ... no matter what else may happen. It has nothing to do with sex. And I wasn't even looking for it.

Like many feelings that reach deep into our inner selves, such treasures are a surprise and revelation about ourselves as much as anything else.

So much of our lives are spent frenetically on self-serving activities aimed at own own satisfaction, whether in our jobs, bank balances, or sexual relationships, that hedonism and ambition can so easily obscure all else.

It seems you have found something ( or someone ) smc, that has given you something of great worth, and I'm glad for you.

Like Love, such things cannot be found by seeking. As you said, they strangely enough seem to find you !

Take care to cherish -