Self Defense

[franalexes]

I figure there are two kinds of T-girls;
those that have been threatened and asaulted;
and those that are going to be.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I figure there are two kinds of T-girls;
those that have been threatened and asaulted;
and those that are going to be.

Yep, a few years ago here in Detroit, 2 of them got beat up when they went out on a weekend night, if my memory serves.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I figure there are two kinds of T-girls;
those that have been threatened and asaulted;
and those that are going to be.

The sad truth is that one could also accurately say
transsexual females
&
recently transitioned transsexual females,
respectively.

[franalexes]

A few days ago a fellow member (TS) asked me why we are here on a porn website full of perverts? ( Yes, her actual words.)
Not sure why but I want you guys to know that not all aspects of our lives are as glamorous as your fantasies would have you believe.
Jodie, if I didn't use the right words, feel free to add to them.

[ila]

Originally Posted by franalexes

A few days ago a fellow member (TS) asked me why we are here on a porn website full of perverts? ( Yes, her actual words.)

Help me understand this. Transwomen want to be accepted, but yet if a guy likes transwomen then he is a pervert?

Respect is two way street. Respect the men if you want respect in turn. It is uncalled for to refer to all men as perverts.

Last point; why would someone that refers to men on here as perverts come on here herself?

[franalexes]

Now Ila , I'm sure she wasn't refering to ALL. But sometimes predominant thoughts are caused by a bad experience by a few.
You will have to ask her for an answer to your second question. pm me if you want to explore further.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by ila

Last point; why would someone that refers to men on here as perverts come on here herself?

Maybe she wasn't here searching for you.
Maybe she was searching for me.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Maybe she wasn't here searching for you.
Maybe she was searching for me.

The term "pervert" has many meanings. Current usage usually refers to sexual behavior. Some people would consider anal sex perverted. Some people would consider oral sex perverted. My impression is that no one participating on this forum would consider either of these activities perverted, per se. It's the exploitation of another human being for selfish gratification with no regard for the other person that, to me, is a perversion.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

Help me understand this. Transwomen want to be accepted, but yet if a guy likes transwomen then he is a pervert?

Respect is two way street. Respect the men if you want respect in turn. It is uncalled for to refer to all men as perverts.

Loopy tranny
It goes like this.
"I can never date a man who knows and accepts I'm a Ts
coz he is a perv only into me coz I have a penis"
"That's why I only date men who have no idea of my past"
"And I only tell them after we go to bed
and after he has found a penis rather than the expected vag"
"One day I hope to have a second date...."

Originally Posted by ila

Last point; why would someone that refers to men on here as perverts come on here herself?

Yes Ila it's a very good point.
It's not like you can miss the sites probable nature
given its address: Transladyboy.
The sad thing is that this person used to be a man
but now has tits & six inch heals,
and a ludicrously high-pitched pantomime-dame-type voice,
and a skirt length which maybe ok on a sixteen year old girl,
but not the 55 year old they actually are.
No guesses as to who the general public would see as the pervert!

Oh if anyone is interested, I've found a YouTube video of them:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxLBpa7g5fg

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

Help me understand this.
Transwomen good.....men pervert bad?

Well I used to get a kick at the entrance to tranny clubs.
I'd lean over to the cashier and ask
"Does this club have changing facilities
and is there a conveniently placed chair?"
They would look at me confused as I started saying this line, long after I had transitioned.
"But you are a woman, why do you want changing facilities?"
" I love watching men strip off and then dressing up as women,
....it really turns me on"

I am a very very bad person and must stop saying things like this, just to annoy people.

[randolph]

Jodie "I can never date a man who knows and accepts I'm a Ts
coz he is a perv only into me coz I have a penis"

Why would wanting to suck a shecock be perverted when eating pussey is ok? Is it perverted when on a date with a girl, you are thinking about her pussey? If I was dating a TS, I would definitely be thinking about her shecock.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by randolph

Jodie "I can never date a man who knows and accepts I'm a Ts
coz he is a perv only into me coz I have a penis"

Why would wanting to suck a shecock be perverted when eating pussey is ok? Is it perverted when on a date with a girl, you are thinking about her pussey? If I was dating a TS, I would definitely be thinking about her shecock.

I've no idea at all Randolph.
The truth is it's all the same.

You need to be patient and wait for the ts who wrote to Fran, to let us know.
Seems a bit weird for a person to join a site called Transladyboy
and then gripe about the sites nature and people it attracts.

I'm dead curious to know what she makes of me or Fran or Bionca.
Our motivation will be a little different to most of the men here, yes.
But we are still on here posting.

I hope this one runs a bit, sure to be entertaining.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Well I used to get a kick at the entrance to tranny clubs.
I'd lean over to the cashier and ask
"Does this club have changing facilities
and is there a conveniently placed chair?"
They would look at me confused as I started saying this line, long after I had transitioned.
"But you are a woman, why do you want changing facilities?"
" I love watching men strip off and then dressing up as women,
....it really turns me on"

I am a very very bad person and must stop saying things like this, just to annoy people.

Your post just made me remember an experience years ago. I was in a bar in Tucson. A nice girl came over and gave me a lap dance. After a couple of beers I went into the bathroom. Sitting there behind a table covered with all kinds of cosmetics was a nice looking guy. I felt startled and very uncomfortable. I took a leak and left. I guess I was in a tranny bar and didn't know it.

[shoreleaveoic]

Better to have it and not need it...then not have it and need it.

It always amazes me that despite where you go in the world minority groups have a firm distaste of arms, yet the majority of people always have a monopoly on arms.

In America most guns are owned by white males. Meanwhile groups that probably need arms (from a historical standpoint such as racism, prejudice, institutionalized segregation) always are vehemently against ANYONE owning arms.

Blow the mind away....does anyone read history books?

Look into the history of gun control in America, Germany, Japan, etc....that alone should be proof that everyone should own weapons.

If you want information, an organization called "Jews for the Preservation of Firearms Ownership" has made a video you can buy or find online that documents the real purpose of gun control.

And before someone says "In japan they don't have guns and low crime so it would work in america too, hur dur!" Your forgetting an important cultural factor, East Asiatic peoples have a different culture than Western Peoples. Try this experiment out one day, walk into a bar in the USA, Mexico, or Jamaica. Slap a man sitting at the bar as hard as you can. Then try the same thing in a bar in Japan, China or Korea. In one country the people may yell, say something, and curse....in another country you will be killed! Its not the weapons, its the culture.

Hell, look at video games. Japan makes Super Mario and Street Fighter II. Both cartoonish games...we make Mortal Kombat and Call of Duty. You can't just ignore culture factors and assume guns make people violent.

Bottom line, don't depend on police, boyfriends, neighbors or the good nature of others for your own personal defense. Get a Glock, get a reloading press, practice and carry it daily...or continue rolling the dice and hope things work out in your favor. People ask me why I carry a gun, then I ask them why they wear a seatbelt, or have a fire extinguisher, or insurance...etc....

Originally Posted by ila

Last point; why would someone that refers to men on here as perverts come on here herself?

I didn't realize my "ex" was a member of this forum... Sorry couldn't help it!

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I figure there are two kinds of T-girls;
those that have been threatened and asaulted;
and those that are going to be.

I'm not so sure.
I know a lot of other transsexual women;
but I don't know any who have not been threatened or assaulted.