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Not my Thread, but I hear a broken record.

Originally Posted by Trogdor

Last question.....why is it that it seems that all the interesting, attractive, desirable people one wants to be with appear to occupy the coastal regions of this country 95% of the time, as opposed to any of the inner states.

If that would be true, have you ever considered reflecting your statement on yourself and why you don?t occupy at the coast?

Sometimes it helps to not only search the faults by others, but by oneself.

A simple answer would be: The grass on the other side looks always greener.

If someone has to live with a handicap (physical, mental, geographical, political), he can (if capable of acting) accept the disadvantage and make the best out of it, and/or take any opportunity to improve his circumstance, even it is risky. Only whining about it doesn?t make things better, but unhappy, frustrated ? and things get even worse. There are other bad possibilities I won?t mention.
Assuming you can act yourself, only whining is a bad choose and downsizes your chances in many ways. You sound despaired, embittered, and awaiting a solution that comes mainly to you, instead of showing more proactive yourself.