Ask Jenae for real answers - no games.

[Jenae LaTorque]

I would like to open the field to any and all questions. I will give my honest opinion and/or knowledge on any and all topics to sincere questions. If I can I will try to diresct you to further information on the topic.

What are my qualifications? I have been around a while and nothing much shocks me anymore. I have had my IQ tested at over 150 and my friends do respect my opinion and knowledge of many subjects. I have read the Bible and while not a biblical scholar, I am more familiar with it than George Bush.
I am somewhat a scholar of offbeat subjects and somewhat of a computer nerd. I started on computers when PCs were rare and most all our work was done on a mainframe. Punchcards anyone?

Anyway, if you want an answer or just want a sounding board, give it a try.

[fuckstudent]

I got one question. Do t-girls have an normal orgasm when they get operated and exchange their cock for a pussy??? I hope you know what i mean...

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by fuckstudent

I got one question. Do t-girls have an normal orgasm when they get operated and exchange their cock for a pussy??? I hope you know what i mean...

As long as the Sex Reassignment Surgery is done properly, the answer is Yes, the new woman is fully capable of sexual arousal and orgasm. The procedure which reshapes a man's genitals into a woman's is called Vaginoplasty, and if done correctly does not destroy the nerve endings which are necessary for sexual arousal and orgasm. In some cases, the "new" woman may need to take hormone treatments to attain this state.

But just like a genetic woman, a simple "Slam. bam. thankya ma'am" will not do for most. Like genetic women, the SRS female will need a certain amount of foreplay to reach an aroused state which leads to an orgasm. Some positions will be better for attaining orgasm then others and her partner must be attentive to her needs.

One thing all men should keep in mind is that an orgasm mostly happens in the brain just like in a computer where the computing and production of new data is done in the CPU. Failure to put in enough, or the wrong data, and your results will not be satisfactory.

[rockabilly]

Does size really matter ?

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

Does size really matter ?

Try to stick a 12 guage shot shell into a .22 rifle and see what luck you have!


Seriously; surveys of women say that it does matter but it is not the most important thing as long as there is not to much of a lack thereof, or ir some rare cases, "too much of a good thing".

"What ya do with what ya got" seems to be the most important thing.

[fuckstudent]

Do most of the trannies want to have a pussy or are most of them happy with a cock and like to be the third gender, something special, a girl with a dick?

[The Conquistador]

Why is there not an Ask Bionca thread or a Ask Hankhavelock thread?

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by fuckstudent

Do most of the trannies want to have a pussy or are most of them happy with a cock and like to be the third gender, something special, a girl with a dick?

That reminds me of the old adage, "Be careful of what you wish for, you might get it!"

I wonder sometime how many of the Tgirls do the sex-work thing just to finance the cost of SRS surgery and the other attendant costs of a full transition. And I do wonder how many would go all the way if they could at no cost to themselves - say if the government paid for it all. I would think that all of the true transgendered women would if they truly believed that would make them feel happier. That is why all SRS surgery is proceeded by counseling; it's pretty much a one way street.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Why is there not an Ask Bionca thread or a Ask Hankhavelock thread?

I myself find Hank to be refreshing in his candor - he can really blast it out sometimes.

As for Bionca - I find her depressing, she seems to enjoy the role of "victim" and I find myself snorting at her signature line about hating being braver than the guys she dates.

[TracyCoxx]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

I have read the Bible and while not a biblical scholar, I am more familiar with it than George Bush.

How much of the bible is fiction?

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TracyCoxx

How much of the bible is fiction?

Bible? Which bible? The word bible means a collection of books or writings that is sacred or authoritive in nature.

I am going to assume that you are referring to the bible as used by the Christian religions here. So....

Q: How much of that bible is fiction? A: None


Now, since you have already misquoted me once when you used a requote of something an idiot on an IDC site said and attributed it to me; I had better clarify the above.

The Christian Holy Bible is not fiction; it is mythology which is considered as another branch of literature.

[rockabilly]

I'm looking for love , a ltr w/ a gurl ... is it a fools quest? Sometimes i just wanna say "screw it! " is the search for love a waste of time?
Rockabilly sings the blues

[Jenae LaTorque]

Actually I really truly believe that love is over rated.

This thing called love: what is it? I have seen so many people who believe they are in love and all it is really is, is just their hormones acting up.

When it comes to long term relationships I believe it is much more important that you really like the person for who they actually are. Being in love tends to blind us to the significant other's faults. When love's blinders fall off we may be left with someone we really can't stand much. Some people get lucky and when the blinders fall off, the love remains, and they go on to form a long term relationship.

Is it a fool's quest? Well that depends on you and your expectations? If they are foolish, yes. then it may well be a very long and empty quest. Then again, sometimes two fools get together, and get lucky when they find they really do like and respect each other. First thing to do is to really get it set in your mind what you are looking for. Then you have a much better chance of recognizing it when you find it. Get to know the other person

A common pitfall for questing lovers is that sometimes the simplest things can make us fall in love. **For example; I just love Charlize Theron and it all started with just the way she smiles.**

Looking for love in all the wrong places? I have been amazed at some of the relationships I've seen. Do not assume that anyone is out of bounds when it comes to a love match. Just because that gurl is drop dead gorgeous dosen't mean that she is looking for someone to equal her beauty in the looks department; she may find honesty and loyalty to be much more important virtues. And never, I mean never, take rejection personally. After all, if she can't see the gold in you, then there she wasn't ready or right for you to start with. Speaking of your gold; let it shine. Don't play games and pretend to be someone you are not; you can't playact forever.

Is it a waste of time to look for love? Might as well ask if is a waste of time to go on breathing when you know you will die someday. It is a person's goals and aspirations that define them. Show me a person without any goals and I'll show you someone going nowhere.

So..... go get em tiger!

[fuckstudent]

how much money does a t-girl get for a scene in a porn movie?

[Jenae LaTorque]

....less than she wants and more than the producer wants to pay

There would be a lot of variables in such a thing. It would depend on many factors: How marketable is she? Is she a big star like Vaniity or a complete unknown from the gutters of Rio? Is she a knockout or a fat over the hill clunker? What is she doing in the scene? A simple BJ or is she being gang banged by 10 monster guys? How long is the scene and is it important to the movie? and so on..

I am sure the scale ranges widely just as it does for actors/actresses in mainstream movies; some get million while others get a mere pittance.

[rockabilly]

Thank you.

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

As for Bionca - I find her depressing, she seems to enjoy the role of "victim" and I find myself snorting at her signature line about hating being braver than the guys she dates.

Totally not cool. Bionca is probably the most articulate, reasoned and intelligent poster on this forum. I also don't think it's fair to randomly slate someone out in the open like you've just done.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

Totally not cool. Bionca is probably the most articulate, reasoned and intelligent poster on this forum. I also don't think it's fair to randomly slate someone out in the open like you've just done.

First off, it wasn't random; the guy who is "Postal" asked me about her.

Second, I just stated that I found her depressing and that she seem to enjoy the role of victim too much. It seem that everywhere you turn these days, someone is a victim. Church Lady would say, "Isn't that special?" Nope, it isn't; there are victims everywhere. Every bug that a bird eats is a victim. Every tuna fish that ends up in a can is a victim! Every weed that gets pulled in a garden is a victim! Every .... You get the point? It is part of the Natural Order of things. Is she entitled to bellyache about it? Yup, she is!
I just happen to find it depressing and I am entitled to that also. LOL Guess I am a victim also.

Third, Why do i snort at her hating being braver then the guys she dates. Well to start with, the average woman is braver than the average guy. And then for her to do what she has done shows a rare bravery. So she is no doubt braver than nearly all, if not all, the guys she ever meets. She can hate the fact or just accept it comes with the territory. I believe some Tgirls are able to show a brave smiling face to the world which in my book is more positive behavior. "Laugh, and the world laughs with you, cry, and you cry alone" And everyone cries sometimes when they are alone. Yes??

[TracyCoxx]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

Totally not cool. Bionca is probably the most articulate, reasoned and intelligent poster on this forum. I also don't think it's fair to randomly slate someone out in the open like you've just done.

I don't think Jenae was being overly rude about Bionca. And I agree, she does frequently play the victim.

[The Conquistador]

Do you think that Nadya Suleman's vagina is a hybrid of the Xenomorph Queen from Aliens and a clown car? Is that how she was able to spawn so many kids?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Do you think that Nadya Suleman's vagina is a hybrid of the Xenomorph Queen from Aliens and a clown car? Is that how she was able to spawn so many kids?

That's a good question.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Do you think that Nadya Suleman's vagina is a hybrid of the Xenomorph Queen from Aliens and a clown car? Is that how she was able to spawn so many kids?

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In fact I am pretty sure that is not the case..... Now her uterus probably resembles that of a sow.

The span of human behavior never ceases to amaze me. The whole story really does seem like something out of the cheap tabloids that report on aliens, ghosts, bloodless surgery, etc. doesn't it. I lived with my brother one semester while I was at college and he was an inveterate buyer of tabloids. I never have paid for one myself
but I will admit that I certainly looked at some of his. Even now I do find it entertaining to find their equivalent on the the internet every once in a while.
A memory that brings a chuckle to me every time I recall it; is when I found a web page dealing with "trailer trash". I was laughing so damn hard I literally fell off my chair to the floor. Unfortunately, I have never been able to find it since. That's all for now. I have to try finding that web page again

[The Conquistador]

What does sum tempestas fusca qua perducit terra mean?

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

First off, it wasn't random; the guy who is "Postal" asked me about her.

No.

He said:

Why is there not an Ask Bionca thread or a Ask Hankhavelock thread?

And his other posts:

Do you think that Nadya Suleman's vagina is a hybrid of the Xenomorph Queen from Aliens and a clown car? Is that how she was able to spawn so many kids?

What does sum tempestas fusca qua perducit terra mean?

He's dicking with you.

Nevertheless, you took his first question as a chance to make negative claims about another member who hasn't even posted to this damn thread. I don't think many people would go from a satirical question about why two members don't have their own threads to an attack on one of them. That's what I meant by "random". The rest of your post is just a long-winded rationalisation, which I don't find especially compelling, so I've left it out. I'm not in the mood to fight over this. In my view, you shouldn't have spoken about another member the way you did -- and that's that.

[Bionca]

You don't have to answer - obviously, but what have I had that you would consider "playing the victim"?

As far as being depressing, yeah sometimes it's shit being trans - you know, having a Pharmacy worker give you shit for filling a prescription, being stopped in an airport because your DL says F, but your Passport says M, Having the Office of Homeland Security contact your future employer - oh wait no you don't do you... Tracy how about you?

The site is full of pictures of happy little trannies and gets visited by gals who depend on that image for their livelihood. Unfortunately, when I was dating the guys I met almost always believed this was the only aspect to being trans - so I think it's important to kick home some realism.

My sig is pretty basic. Topic after tipic on here was/is about guys being angsty about being gay, or wanting a TG and not having the balls to look, and not really moving from that place. I get that I'm probably going to be braver than most people - but that's not an excuse for some guy to be a craven coward the first time he's confronted with people knowing he's with a trans woman.

[ila]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

....As for Bionca - I find her depressing, she seems to enjoy the role of "victim" and I find myself snorting at her signature line about hating being braver than the guys she dates.

I know Bionca as a warm, caring, intelligent woman. She does not play the victim, but rather spells out, sometimes in graphic detail, the travails of being trans. If she seems to be playing the victim it is because she has been a victim; a victim of violence, a victim prejudice, a victim of circumstance. None of this detracts from her beauty as a person. If anything it only enhances her strength of character; a strength that the rest of us should emulate.

Special note should be made of Bionca's thoughtful posts and responses to posts. Not once have I ever seen a condescending or catty remark from her.

Despite what Bionca has been through she is a happy well adjusted person. Anyone that would take the time to get to know Bionca would know what an incredible jewel she truly is.

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Originally Posted by ila

I know Bionca as a warm, caring, intelligent woman. She does not play the victim, but rather spells out, sometimes in graphic detail, the travails of being trans. If she seems to be playing the victim it is because she has been a victim; a victim of violence, a victim prejudice, a victim of circumstance. None of this detracts from her beauty as a person. If anything it only enhances her strength of character; a strength that the rest of us should emulate.

Superbly stated.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

No.

He said:



And his other posts:





He's dicking with you.

So my posts were a bit satirical/humerous. Big whoop. However I am curious about what that which is written in latin as I do do not speak it. What is wrong with asking a question(regardless of whether it is funny or not)? That is what this thread is designed for. If you don't like the thread, you can simply click out of here. Good Grief people!

[fuckstudent]

Can you get any disease from kissing or spiting in the mouth? Putting a finger in the ass and lick it? Licking ass with toung? Or kissing with my cum with other person?

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

So my posts were a bit satirical/humerous. Big whoop.

Yes, "big whoop".

That said, Jenae did write in the thread title ... "no games".

I'll let you think about that one.

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

However I am curious about what that which is written in latin as I do do not speak it. What is wrong with asking a question(regardless of whether it is funny or not)?

Oh, boy ...

[The Conquistador]

And yet she still answered. It is obvious she wrote that in response to my "Ask Me" thread. Jeez dude.

Is it weird that I'm attracted to my mums best friend who is 43 and is pretty hot

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by Bionca

You don't have to answer - obviously, but what have I had that you would consider "playing the victim"?

As far as being depressing, yeah sometimes it's shit being trans - you know, having a Pharmacy worker give you shit for filling a prescription, being stopped in an airport because your DL says F, but your Passport says M, Having the Office of Homeland Security contact your future employer - oh wait no you don't do you... Tracy how about you?

The site is full of pictures of happy little trannies and gets visited by gals who depend on that image for their livelihood. Unfortunately, when I was dating the guys I met almost always believed this was the only aspect to being trans - so I think it's important to kick home some realism.

My sig is pretty basic. Topic after tipic on here was/is about guys being angsty about being gay, or wanting a TG and not having the balls to look, and not really moving from that place. I get that I'm probably going to be braver than most people - but that's not an excuse for some guy to be a craven coward the first time he's confronted with people knowing he's with a trans woman.

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All right, all of you. I did not attack Bionca. I did not say she was stupid, unreasonable, or talked mishmash, or picked her nose, or anything like those.
1. I did say I found her depressing which is my overall take on her and I am entitled to state my opinion. Is "depressing" all that bad ? 2. I also said she enjoyed the role of victim -- I did not say she "played" the role of victim, that was said by another. For example, if I said "Richard Nixon had a role in Watergate", does that mean that he was playing? Hell no, it means he was involved in it; he took part, he participated.

Now I am glad that Bionca has some chivalrous knights to come galloping to her defense, but I think she does well enough on her own, although she did mistakenly attribute the "playing" bit to me also. I too have enjoyed her posts as she is informative, articulate, intelligent, and provides a unique viewpoint for this forum, even if it is depressing to me hearing what crap she has had to endure. It is damn depressing to hear about the atrocities of the Nazis in the concentration camps or how the Japenese used the Chinese people as human guinea pigs at Harbin; but I still want to know about them.

I am fully aware that Bionca has an agenda just like we all do. For some on here, that me be that they simply want to "sex chat" while others have loftier subjects on their mind. I do find it interesting that no one had anything to say about Hank. Perhaps Krissy would if she entered into this. Now I really do think Hank is "playing" a role; as agitator, as stirrer of the pot, etc. And that's okay with me as he does keep the dialogue going.

And that is what I'm here for; the connection, preferably the higher minded segment. Sure it's agravating to have to wade through the flotsam to find the jewels but like I know, it comes with the territory. LOL, the silly messages I have gotten. I have even considered taking my pics down and replacing with a generic avatar. But since I feel that they would be like hiding, I don't.

PS Special note to ila - are you sure Bionca never makes a catty or condescending remark? Maybe you best take a closer look at Post#25 above.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

What does sum tempestas fusca qua perducit terra mean?

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hey man there is some heavy shit coming down on you and it's me!

Ya get the point? This is under the category of games and I said no games!

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by ladyboys rule

Is it weird that I'm attracted to my mums best friend who is 43 and is pretty hot

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As Spock would say. "Insufficient data" Perhaps you are 44 and pretty hot yourself.

One person's "wierd' is another person's "normal".

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by fuckstudent

Can you get any disease from kissing or spiting in the mouth? Putting a finger in the ass and lick it? Licking ass with toung? Or kissing with my cum with other person?

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Of course ya can. There are mamy vectors of disease transmission and those all qualify.

[lanakreuk]

hey this is lanakreuk how come you haven`t responded to my messages i was sincere with my request to start fresh please respond

[Rachel]

How come the best days of fishing are always yesterday and tomorrow? lol

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

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All right, all of you. I did not attack Bionca. I did not say she was stupid, unreasonable, or talked mishmash, or picked her nose, or anything like those.
1. I did say I found her depressing which is my overall take on her and I am entitled to state my opinion. Is "depressing" all that bad ? 2. I also said she enjoyed the role of victim -- I did not say she "played" the role of victim, that was said by another. For example, if I said "Richard Nixon had a role in Watergate", does that mean that he was playing? Hell no, it means he was involved in it; he took part, he participated.

Now I am glad that Bionca has some chivalrous knights to come galloping to her defense, but I think she does well enough on her own, although she did mistakenly attribute the "playing" bit to me also. I too have enjoyed her posts as she is informative, articulate, intelligent, and provides a unique viewpoint for this forum, even if it is depressing to me hearing what crap she has had to endure. It is damn depressing to hear about the atrocities of the Nazis in the concentration camps or how the Japenese used the Chinese people as human guinea pigs at Harbin; but I still want to know about them.

Nixon, Nazis, Japanese?

And here was me thinking this was just about one member choosing to knock another.

You didn't attack Bionca? You didn't imply she plays a role?

This is what you wrote:

As for Bionca - I find her depressing, she seems to enjoy the role of "victim" and I find myself snorting at her signature line about hating being braver than the guys she dates.

"The role of ... "

"Victim" (in quotation marks)

These kinda imply you see her as embellishing or, to use the parlance you disdain, "playing", a role. No?

Further, you rhetorically ask: "Is 'depressing' bad?" Well, you seem to think so ... otherwise, why point it out, as you originally did, about another member? And why claim to "snort" at Bionca's signature?

What you said was very confrontational and smug-sounding. Anyone in their right mind can see that. If you had truly wanted to express yourself in a polite, non-hostile way, you could have added some positives to your original remarks (rather than coming out with some after the fact). Or said nothing at all.

Finally, the claim that Bionca has "chivalrous knights" coming to her defence? Pure jealousy. If Bionca has people willing to defend her, it's because she has engendered herself to them with her words and her deeds. Food for thought.

[fuckstudent]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

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Of course ya can. There are mamy vectors of disease transmission and those all qualify.

yes, but i mean some incurable diseases...like HIV, hepatitis...

damn, if yes, how can i ever enjoy those fetishes safely with escort girls...

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

Nixon, Nazis, Japanese?

And here was me thinking this was just about one member choosing to knock another.

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Finally, the claim that Bionca has "chivalrous knights" coming to her defence? Pure jealousy. If Bionca has people willing to defend her, it's because she has engendered herself to them with her words and her deeds. Food for thought.

imply she plays ? ... kinda imply? ... seem to think?

Buckle up, oh brave knight, your blows are weakening! You have the dragon chuckling.

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Wow. Very mature. You sure showed me.

[Bionca]

So according to you I "...enjoyed the role of victim". Curious that since I try to navigate my life in a way to minimize personal victimization, while still being unashamed in being trans. The result of this is living in ways that expose me to specific "victimization" due solely to my status as a trans woman. I hardly "enjoy" this, but I simply refuse to keep quiet about it. For example, I didn't enjoy having to wait for almost two hours in an airport in Mexico trying to get home because my passport says I'm a man, because my state will not modify my birth certificate. Rather, I was scared shitless because I just didn't know what would happen.

Further, I'm quite curious how you see a trans woman participating in their "victimization"? I mean Nixon was hardly a passive participant in Watergate. Did I choose a pharmacist that would ask REALLY loudly "Why is a guy getting estrogen at THIS dose"? Seriously... we live in a place and time that can be very difficult and complicated for trans women at best. How does one actively participate in holding up that systen while trying to work against it and navigate through it?

[randolph]

Well Jenae, its good to know that you have a high IQ, are well read and you are available to provide "real answers".
Here's a question. How big does ones ego have to be in order to brag about it?
Do we have to wait much longer?

[TracyCoxx]

LOL I was wondering that myself. Reminds me of those song lyrics...

Originally Posted by Steely Dan

You've been telling me you're a genius since you were seventeen
In all the time I've known you I still don't know what you mean...

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

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As Spock would say. "Insufficient data" Perhaps you are 44 and pretty hot yourself.

One person's "wierd' is another person's "normal".

Nah I'm 18 and I think she Is attracted to me a bit as we talk about sex and girls and that and gives me condoms and that also when I stay at hers she walks around in tight fitting trousers n shorts and wears tight tops and she also has big tits and a alright body do you think I should talk to her about it or just make a move

[franalexes]

Why are there more horses asses than there are horses or proof there of? One has only to ask the question on this thread I suppose.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by ladyboys rule

Nah I'm 18 and I think she Is attracted to me a bit as we talk about sex and girls and that and gives me condoms and that also when I stay at hers she walks around in tight fitting trousers n shorts and wears tight tops and she also has big tits and a alright body do you think I should talk to her about it or just make a move

I am not quite sure what you mean by "stay at hers." Do you you stay overnight at her place? As to the maybe signals you are getting; it may be that she is just a flirt. It is really hard to tell from this little information but I will tell you what I think so far. There is potential for a lot of trouble here since a little fling between you and your Mom's best friend could blow up big time. While some experiance with an older woman can be a very instructive experiance, it would be much better usually with a stranger. You know these people, I don't. Think hard about how free or restricted they are in their attitudes. Maybe ask some exploratory questions. You are very young, so according to normal practice it is really up to the older woman to initiate things. I think it would really be best for you to play cool here. Meanwhile there are a lot of girls nearer your own age out there and more than one of them is horny also.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by Rachel

How come the best days of fishing are always yesterday and tomorrow? lol

HUH? My best day of fishing is when I'm actually there working a dry fly across a quiet zone at the bottom of a likely riffle.

That word "always," It always bothers me, cause I'm always not sure whether such absolutes are always valid.

[Jenae LaTorque]

Originally Posted by fuckstudent

yes, but i mean some incurable diseases...like HIV, hepatitis...

damn, if yes, how can i ever enjoy those fetishes safely with escort girls...

Wadda ya want,.... to live forever!? It's just like the rest of life. You take reasonable precautions to minimize your risk, while acknowledging the fact that no matter how you play the game - sometime the odds will jump up and kick you in the teeth just when you thought you were safe.